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To want to take down Christmas decorations on 31stDec

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ThatCyanJoker · 31/12/2024 08:26

We’ve had tree and Christmas decorations up since early December. I’m so ready to take them down now and get the house back to normal, but DH says it’s way too early and how could I think that was usual. Out of interest, do you keep your tree etc until 6 January?

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K0OLA1D · 03/01/2025 23:58

DappledThings · 03/01/2025 23:32

Not at all. Although I have been accused of such. I am cheerfully confident in my opinion and remain amused by how many people it seems to annoy.

Interesting points re. other octaves. The extension of festive decorations therefore to Candlemas and other dates also reasonable. None of which makes anything before 5 January anything other than early.

I shall continue to be accused of being angry about it. I remain entirely not angry but I'm sure that won't prevent the accusation.

It's a topic that seems to invite high levels of defensiveness.

Yup. You just carry on telling yourself that

DappledThings · 04/01/2025 07:07

K0OLA1D · 03/01/2025 23:58

Yup. You just carry on telling yourself that

You too!

K0OLA1D · 04/01/2025 07:09

DappledThings · 04/01/2025 07:07

You too!

I don't tell myself anything duck. I don't give a shiny shite when anyone takes their decs down. They can take them down on Christmas eve and I wouldn't tell them it was wrong or right, or early or late. Everyone does christmas their own way

DappledThings · 04/01/2025 07:48

K0OLA1D · 04/01/2025 07:09

I don't tell myself anything duck. I don't give a shiny shite when anyone takes their decs down. They can take them down on Christmas eve and I wouldn't tell them it was wrong or right, or early or late. Everyone does christmas their own way

Edited

Ok.

Parker231 · 04/01/2025 09:42

As many of us have already taken them down (usual time for our house is between Christmas and NY), nothing negative happens and we all now move onto into 2025. There is obviously no right or wrong.

christmaslatte · 04/01/2025 09:45

I keep mine up till the 6th.

However I don't put the tree up till about a week before Christmas.

Totally agree with those who say it's personal choice.

christmaslatte · 04/01/2025 09:49

DowntonCrabbie · 03/01/2025 15:17

Oh bless your little heart. Nope to all of that.

Lots of people in other faiths and cultures celebrate Christmas, because it's now a secular festival. There are many many cultures with a similar myth of a chosen child and a Virgin and all that rot, and early Christians merely bolted on a few of their stories onto very well established mid winter festivals. It's not even the right month for the supposed birth if jesus!

Christianity isn't the origin of the festival, they merely coopted it and now it's been un co-opted.

Edited

It's still Christian for those of Christian faith.

But I agree it's been coopted by a much wider group of people. It's also a winter feast / a festival of consumerism for a large number of people and nothing really to do with Jesus (my family included).

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 04/01/2025 09:54

Bloody cat tried to preempt our planned removal of the tree on 12th night.
We've ignored his kind help and resurrected it (deliberate Christian pun)

To want to take down Christmas decorations on 31stDec
Nogaxeh · 04/01/2025 09:56

I always leave decorations up until January 6th - it's the twelve days of Christmas.

But then I don't put up my decorations until later in December. You make up your own rules.

DappledThings · 04/01/2025 09:57

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 04/01/2025 09:54

Bloody cat tried to preempt our planned removal of the tree on 12th night.
We've ignored his kind help and resurrected it (deliberate Christian pun)

That's some impressive work from the cat.

Ours has survived intact in our first year with a puppy. It's a Christmas miracle!

Enko · 04/01/2025 09:59

Ours goes down on the 5th as it's dds birthday on the 6th.

My mother had a tradition to take them down on newyears day while listening to the newyear concert from Vienna.

Snowangles · 04/01/2025 10:00

@Nogaxeh agree, I don't understand why people follow any rules over this really.

I take mine down when I'm ready which is usually at least 2 weeks into Jan when it's much lighter and it doesn't feel right.
Others follow rules about 6th or royals which I think is candlemas

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 04/01/2025 10:03

DappledThings · 04/01/2025 09:57

That's some impressive work from the cat.

Ours has survived intact in our first year with a puppy. It's a Christmas miracle!

It's the only time in forty odd years of cat ownership that this has happened to us. Don't know why he took such exception to it this year

K0OLA1D · 04/01/2025 10:26

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 04/01/2025 10:03

It's the only time in forty odd years of cat ownership that this has happened to us. Don't know why he took such exception to it this year

I have 4. 1 being a kitten this year and one being 4. The 4 yo has always been in and out of the tree. But the kitten decimated it. It looked like it had been left up for 20 years in an apocalypse by the time we took it down this year

BeyondMyWits · 04/01/2025 16:56

Ours was all put away today. Because we were all here to do it. 30 minutes and done. Not religious, so just done when practical.

NeedWineNow · 05/01/2025 17:49

Ours have come down today. We had them up for roughly a month, so I'm usually ready for them to come down and have a good clean round. We've left some battery operated fairy lights on the mantlepiece in the living room which gives it a nice hope but everything else apart from our old Christmas tree (which is going to the dump) have been packed and stored back in the loft.

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