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Original poster

to be TOLD by another mothering forum that I can't mention anything about them here?

140 replies

northernrefugee39 · 02/05/2008 15:35

I have been on another mothering forum, which is VERY "sweet" and "mama" and "fun" and "hun"
I've had threads deleted, and will be chucked off soon I'm sure, even tho I'm not being rude, just disagreeing.
I've had TWO warnings, GUESSING that I'm someone here( they've only assumed I'm the same person, as I've never said it).
That's an assumed accusation isn't it?
I suppose it could be libelous if they don't have proof I'm the person they think I am.

Anyway, it's the cheek of being told that their site can't be talked about here!

Are they being reasonable?

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WorzselMummage · 02/05/2008 15:38

is it bounty ?

posts about how much better other forums are always get deleted from where.

Hecate · 02/05/2008 15:38

No.

But it's simple to deal with, if you like going there, just say no, of course you won't start any threads here about them.

(are they right about your activities on here though? )

mylovelymonster · 02/05/2008 15:39

why do they care who you are? are you really that objectionable? all sounds a bit silly IMO.
MWAH for you, the nasty bullies.

also - who do they suspect you of being?

WorzselMummage · 02/05/2008 15:39

From there* even.

SheikYerbouti · 02/05/2008 15:40

UIs that the one I wrote Haikus about?

ChocolateRockingHorse · 02/05/2008 15:41

Is it Babyworld??

SheikYerbouti · 02/05/2008 15:43

is it motheingfuckers.com?

AMumInScotland · 02/05/2008 15:43

Just deny everything!

But they can probably throw you out if they want to, I don't think there's any rules about having to provide evidence that you're doing anything in particular.

Is this a UK based site, or a foreign one (as if I couldn't guess....)

Original poster
northernrefugee39 · 02/05/2008 15:52

Sheik- yes
They are REEEELLLYYY pissing me

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Original poster
northernrefugee39 · 02/05/2008 15:53

mylovely they think I'm me here, but they actually have no PROOOOF.
They wrote me an email, with copies of posts on a thread here, though they didn't know for sure that it was me.

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Original poster
northernrefugee39 · 02/05/2008 15:54

For all they knew, I could have been a casual observer.

And I'm not being rude, just disagreeing with them politely

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CountessDracula · 02/05/2008 15:55

well if they didn't know they do now!

ChocolateRockingHorse · 02/05/2008 15:55

Won't this prove to them that you are the you that they sususpected you were/are??!

ChocolateRockingHorse · 02/05/2008 15:56

LOL CD

AMumInScotland · 02/05/2008 15:57

I think you've outed yourself there - unless they send those emails to lots of people all the time ...

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northernrefugee39 · 02/05/2008 15:58

Hecate, oh yes, they are right.
they have spies too, several.
One is too scared to come on mumsnet cos she says we're all howid
But that gets me too, 'cos she posts on ther about how howid mumsnet is.
but she's on their side in the argument, so they only gang up on those who disagree.

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mshadowsisfab · 02/05/2008 15:58

ffs yabu

mshadowsisfab · 02/05/2008 15:59

read your last post and changed my mind
YANBU

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northernrefugee39 · 02/05/2008 16:00

Chocolate and Contess YES I DID REALISE

But wonder what they'll do now.
But they might not see this thread, unless they're obsessive.

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zippitippitoes · 02/05/2008 16:01

im always a bit confused as to why people go on these other forums

and mn

eenybeeny · 02/05/2008 16:01

I had no idea MN was so notorious and contentious but its probably for good reason

UnquietDad · 02/05/2008 16:01

who says you can't?!

I have a real aversion to being told i can and can't do things. Stand your ground!!

kiskideesameanoldmother · 02/05/2008 16:02

is this the redux of yesterday's thread?

conniedescending · 02/05/2008 16:04

What a load of immature fuckwittage this whole 'board wars' shit it.

Pathetic

barnstaple · 02/05/2008 16:05

I'm thoroughly howid. And Obnoxious. Ask anyone.