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The oldest you've known someone to get pregnant naturally?

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ineedtowomanup · 29/12/2024 10:56

My Grandmother was 44 when she had my youngest uncle, a healthy pregnancy and my uncle is now 47.

What's the oldest you've known someone to conceive and give birth?

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Spanglemum02 · 29/12/2024 14:22

Before contraception, the pill etc it was not uncommon to have a first grandchild and last child who were the same age like PP say. And the passing off of a grandchild as a surprise last child. Though my grandmother did actually have one of these when my aunt her oldest daughter was 17.

Flocke · 29/12/2024 14:23

There’s a Wikipedia page about women who have conceived over 50. It really is very rare.

The receptionist at my old work used to talk all the time about a client of ours who had her babies at 51 and 53. She went on and on about how amazing it was and that I shouldn’t give up hope (I was over 40 and unable to conceive). I however had spoken to the client and she confided in me she used donor eggs. Not a problem at all obviously. But it wasn’t the amazing natural conception the receptionist used to think it was.

ILoveAnnaQuay · 29/12/2024 14:23

My friend was 22, her brother was 24 and her mum was 53 when she realised that what she'd assumed was menopause was actually a surprise baby! Born healthy but diagnosed with autism in his teens.

MrsSkylerWhite · 29/12/2024 14:24

My grandmother, 46 when she had my mum (16 years after the previous child).

I was a spring chicken at just shy of 40 with our second.

KimberleyClark · 29/12/2024 14:31

Great aunt by marriage, 49, second. She had her 50th birthday before the child’s first birthday. Friend at 46, first. She died of cancer when the child was 7.

BornForLeaving · 29/12/2024 14:31

I know two women who got pregnant at 43 and 44 but both lost them at 7 and 12 weeks. 41 is the oldest I’ve known a woman to have a baby.

WanderingDreamingSpires · 29/12/2024 14:31

VaddaABeetch · 29/12/2024 13:25

My GG at 51, 53 & 54. All twins where only one survived. Already had given birth to 4 m sets of twins

Sorry, have I misunderstood? She already had 4 sets of twins, so 8 children, then went on to have 4 more sets of twins???!

stayathomer · 29/12/2024 14:34

Dm was 46 and I’ve a friend who was 45.

VaddaABeetch · 29/12/2024 14:35

WanderingDreamingSpires · 29/12/2024 14:31

Sorry, have I misunderstood? She already had 4 sets of twins, so 8 children, then went on to have 4 more sets of twins???!

She had 19 children in total. First at 21 last at 54.

SarahB88 · 29/12/2024 14:36

Colleague of mine 46, her third child with all being born in her 40s and conceived naturally.

WanderingDreamingSpires · 29/12/2024 14:36

VaddaABeetch · 29/12/2024 14:35

She had 19 children in total. First at 21 last at 54.

That poor lady! Imagine losing so many babies.

VaddaABeetch · 29/12/2024 14:37

WanderingDreamingSpires · 29/12/2024 14:36

That poor lady! Imagine losing so many babies.

She had 16 surviving children. I’m guessing the last twins didn’t survive as they weren’t as strong/she wasn’t as strong due to her age.

AcrossthePond55 · 29/12/2024 14:49

My paternal grandmother. She was born in 1875, had her first in1895 at 20 and her last in 1926 at 51. There were 9 live births and apparently multiple miscarriages in between the live births.

user23124 · 29/12/2024 14:51

53 the room next to me when I had ds 20 yo. It was a hidden pregnancy and the woman had 3 grandchildren- no idea whatsoever she was pregnant till labour.

TheFormidableMrsC · 29/12/2024 14:56

Great Aunt at 51. Had adopted 3 children as she never started her periods and couldn't conceive. She lived until that baby was in her early 30's. I was a young teen at the time and I'm 55 now. I often wondered why nobody seemed to investigate why she didn't have periods. It's a family mystery but a happy one!

TwistedWonder · 29/12/2024 14:58

51 and that was in 1989. A lot of people said she wouldn’t live to see her DD reach adulthood but she’s now 86 and still going strong with a 35 year old DD

TwistedWonder · 29/12/2024 15:00

Not the oldest but a friend had twins via IVF at 42 then fell pregnant naturally less than a year later - again with twins. So after being childless and trying for years, she ended up with 4 kids with 18 months

twilightcafe · 29/12/2024 15:02
  1. One friend who's child is now a teenager. Another natural conception at 43 was an old schoolmate. But I don't know if that resulted in a live birth.
CMOTDibbler · 29/12/2024 15:03

A colleagues dsis was 51 when she was having abdominal pains and went to A&E. 28 weeks pregnant, and she'd not used contraception in 17 years as she'd tried to have another child after her only and it never happened. She had a textbook pregnancy (despite most of it being totally unaware) and birth, perfect baby

LadyWiddiothethird · 29/12/2024 15:05

48,naturally and all was well.

Rowansiskin · 29/12/2024 15:05

54 The aunt of a woman I worked with. She said the physical strain of the whole thing nearly killed her.

BruFord · 29/12/2024 15:08

A friend got pregnant naturally at 46 (unplanned!) and had him at 47. He’s now a healthy teenager!

Hearttoharttoheart · 29/12/2024 15:09

My grandmother, 48, her child is nearly 70 now.

unmemorableusername · 29/12/2024 15:10

For most of these you just won't know if it was natural or not. Most people lie and say it was when it wasn't.

GreenTeaLikesMe · 29/12/2024 15:12

Someone in my craft group was 50. Definitely not IVF as it was a huge shock according to those who knew her at the time. She recovered fro: the shock and now has a lovely teen daughter!