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To ask about men 5ft 7 and 9 stone?

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Jumell · 17/12/2024 10:01

I’m getting back with my ex - and he mentioned last night he was 9 stone - he’s 5ft 7

i always thought he’s got a gorgeous lean physique but still think this sounds skinny for a man

but he looks fabulous I think 🙌

Any thoughts on these stats ?

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MildredSauce · 17/12/2024 13:46

Jumell · 17/12/2024 13:39

Yes I’m 5ft 1 and my ideal weight is 7 stone 10

What's happened to your 56 year old crush @Jumell - all those football annuals going to waste now???

Jumell · 17/12/2024 13:49

MildredSauce · 17/12/2024 13:46

What's happened to your 56 year old crush @Jumell - all those football annuals going to waste now???

He is in a relationship.. so off limits

no football annuals bought but I’m tempted to buy a Private Eye annual for myself

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CoralRubyFish · 17/12/2024 13:49

I'm just under 5'7" and weigh about 9 stone. I don't think I'm too skinny!

Jumell · 17/12/2024 13:50

MildredSauce · 17/12/2024 13:46

What's happened to your 56 year old crush @Jumell - all those football annuals going to waste now???

All isn’t lost though - I bought him a Scalextric instead ! 👍

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Billydavey · 17/12/2024 13:52

Some of the comments on this thread aren’t great

hed blow away on a stiff breeze
legs like twigs
looks like an elf
you should fatten him up
more meat on a butchers pencil

ffs mumsnet!

Whammyammy · 17/12/2024 13:53

M6 husband is 6'2 17 stone (not fat). Sorry but 5'7 and 9 stone would be like dating Mr Bean.

Billydavey · 17/12/2024 13:53

Pamosonic · 17/12/2024 13:36

We must do better than this sort of body shaming debates. Just imagine the fury if a bunch of guys started debating about size 14+ woman....

It’s fine to laugh at short and/slim blokes though. Always has been on here

Billydavey · 17/12/2024 13:55

Whammyammy · 17/12/2024 13:53

M6 husband is 6'2 17 stone (not fat). Sorry but 5'7 and 9 stone would be like dating Mr Bean.

Rowan Atkinson is 5’11” so I presume what you mean is that short skinny blokes look like figures of fun?

MildredSauce · 17/12/2024 13:58

Jumell · 17/12/2024 13:50

All isn’t lost though - I bought him a Scalextric instead ! 👍

Ah. You were being cagey about whether he was married or in a relationship.

But... you've bought him a scalextric, anyway? Is that a bit odd? Will await the MN post in Jan which asks AIBU that a strange woman has bought her DH an expensive kids toy!!

LonelyInDville · 17/12/2024 14:04

It would be too small for me, my ex was about 5'7 and 9.5 st and it made me feel like a rugby player. He was also small framed which made it even worse 😂

Jumell · 17/12/2024 14:07

MildredSauce · 17/12/2024 13:58

Ah. You were being cagey about whether he was married or in a relationship.

But... you've bought him a scalextric, anyway? Is that a bit odd? Will await the MN post in Jan which asks AIBU that a strange woman has bought her DH an expensive kids toy!!

Better the Scalextric than my second choice of pressie for him - which would’ve seen his eyes light up when playing with his Chopper on Xmas Day !

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BunnyLake · 17/12/2024 14:08

What an odd thread.

BunnyLake · 17/12/2024 14:13

mindutopia · 17/12/2024 10:23

I think he sounds like he’d blow away in a strong wind. He definitely sounds underweight to me, but to each his own, I guess.

That’s rude. Are you always this bad mannered?

MildredSauce · 17/12/2024 14:15

Jumell · 17/12/2024 14:07

Better the Scalextric than my second choice of pressie for him - which would’ve seen his eyes light up when playing with his Chopper on Xmas Day !

An odd bit of objectification when in yet ANOTHER thread elsewhere you wax lyrical on reconnecting with the love of your life 6 months ago, who I assume is the ex you are getting back with? He who went to the rough secondary school that the whole of MN puts down....

ObtuseMoose · 17/12/2024 14:21

Why do you write like a sex-starved teenager, has it been a while?

FatOaf · 17/12/2024 14:22

Assuming he's of typical build (i.e. not a body-builder, rugby forward, etc.), 9 st (57 kg) is within the healthy body mass index (BMI) range for a 5'7" (170 cm) male (BMI=19.7 kg/m²). It's towards the lower end of the healthy range, but it's not underweight. The healthy range is 18.5-24.9 kg/m².

Having only recently managed to get my own BMI out of the obese range and into the overweight, I'm perhaps a bit more interested in this than I should be.

Jumell · 17/12/2024 14:23

ObtuseMoose · 17/12/2024 14:21

Why do you write like a sex-starved teenager, has it been a while?

I’m actually currently watching the chase sequence at the end of Benny Hill ..

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Interlaken · 17/12/2024 14:24

Jumell · 17/12/2024 10:02

Do you think like me it sounds thin for a man

or not particularly

BMI under 20. That’s a massive no from me.

eastcoasterly · 17/12/2024 14:26

@FatOaf well done! I've reduced mine from 43 to 26, I know how amazing it feels to get down from obese (or morbidly obese in my case). Genuinely well done 👏

Jumell · 17/12/2024 14:26

FatOaf · 17/12/2024 14:22

Assuming he's of typical build (i.e. not a body-builder, rugby forward, etc.), 9 st (57 kg) is within the healthy body mass index (BMI) range for a 5'7" (170 cm) male (BMI=19.7 kg/m²). It's towards the lower end of the healthy range, but it's not underweight. The healthy range is 18.5-24.9 kg/m².

Having only recently managed to get my own BMI out of the obese range and into the overweight, I'm perhaps a bit more interested in this than I should be.

As congratulations- believe me I KNOW how good it feels when you go from the Obese to Overweight category! It’s a huge achievement!

Congratulations 🍾🍾🍾 🙌

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Jumell · 17/12/2024 14:26

eastcoasterly · 17/12/2024 14:26

@FatOaf well done! I've reduced mine from 43 to 26, I know how amazing it feels to get down from obese (or morbidly obese in my case). Genuinely well done 👏

THAT IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING!

🍾🍾🍾

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BodyKeepingScore · 17/12/2024 14:27

The same ex you allegedly ran into the other day/week? Surely you saw what he looked like when you last saw him? What's your issue?

BodyKeepingScore · 17/12/2024 14:27

And why do you care whether other people think it sounds thin or not?

coxesorangepippin · 17/12/2024 14:28

Slim

Jumell · 17/12/2024 14:28

BodyKeepingScore · 17/12/2024 14:27

The same ex you allegedly ran into the other day/week? Surely you saw what he looked like when you last saw him? What's your issue?

No issue at all - I thought - and still think he looks good - I just thought 9 stone sounded light - that’s all

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