He’s fucking locked me out.

[FuckingFreezing1]

Basically this. I’ve text him as I can’t get in, I’ve just finished work. He’s on a works Xmas party.

Said he was setting off at 8:45 and he’d be home for 9 so I said cool, take the key.

Now it’s 10pm and I’m sat in a fucking bus shelter because he’s locked me out and won’t come back with the keys, he’s out and apparently I’m unreasonable for asking him to come home to at least let me in.

I haven’t a clue what to do, it’s 4°, my street is poorly lit and this place doesn’t shut til 12. I can’t afford a lock change so that’s out of the question and my mums not in. So I literally have to just wait.

Our old rocking horse says
“leave the Scrote”
even a child knows not to lose 🔑 keys - He’s a careless Scrote

@FuckingFreezing1 I’m outraged on your behalf.

What a grade A waster he is.

A selfish Scrote.

Go back to your Mum’s.

Can’t believe this piece of shit lost your Dad’s ashes ring.
Was it a gold one? Bet the druggy Scrote sold or pawned it.

So sorry you are going through this.

@oakleaffy I love your old rocking horse! What a beauty.

@FuckingFreezing1 I had a lovely evening by myself eating lots of food and drinking cups of tea. Very peaceful. I'm not saying that to be mean, but you can have this too when he's out of the picture. You don't need this hassle and he's interfering with your livelihood.

@FuckingFreezing1 .if you can-will u update let us know your in outtaa the cold/safe keepin you in my thots.x

I hope you were able to go to your Mam's house. Make your 30's special and leave him. You deserve better.

Go home.

Smash window.

Get in, get stuff, get out and go to your Mums.

Never speak to the nasty cunt again.

Why are you enabling him? He lost his key. You don't go giving him your key and put yourself at his mercy to bugger off on a Christmas party.

Another woman enabling an incompetent undeserving male. Depressing

Why take the shit? Why not break up with him given what you've said about how long you've wanted out? Cut your losses.

no need. Ditch the abusive fucker and the op is sorted.

The good thing about this is that you have finally woken up to see how vile he has been/is. Ask him to leave tomorrow.

My thoughts also.

This is awful. At least it shows you what little regard he has for you. My ex was an arse in many ways, but he would have been straight in a taxi if he knew I was sitting alone in McDonalds in the middle of the night for 5-6hrs. This has to be the final straw for this miserable relationship. You’re so young OP, go to your mum and start again, build some relationships with your friends again. Leave the absolute arsehole to it. Really hope you got in, and left and are safe. Please let us know. Take care OP.

Her boyfriend has her keys. Huge mistake to lend them to him though.

Hopefully OP is at her mother's now.

Read the OP’s answers and you’ll know. They are her keys.

Perhaps read the whole thread, or at least all of OP's replies. She's outlined the answer to this a number of times.

Then leave him ASAP!

If I was your mum I wouldn’t be annoyed at all

you’d be brought in a mug of whatever and off to bed with a hot water bottle no questions asked.

I’d phoning work for you saying whatever so you wouldn’t have to worry about work. Then I’d be round the flat emptied it most likely with him bitching that's mine knowing it bloody ain’t.

Oh Op after you get your keys back and leave his arse, please seek some therapy for all the damage and trauma he’s inflicted on you.
Also your Mum won’t be annoyed, she will be grateful that you’ve finally seen the light and are free of him.
She’s probably more aware of how he treated you than what you realise.
Good luck, you deserve better than this.

At least read the OP'S posts.
She has paid for multiple copies of the keys and he keeps losing them.
He told her he'd be home earlier than her.

Make your New Year resolutions now Op.

1). Leave the selfish fucker you currently live with for good
2) Learn to drive (assuming you want to, that is)
3) Never, ever give your house keys to anyone ever again

Op please save this thread and re read it if you feel like staying with him . You know you need to leave or it will just keep happening. You deserve better and in every way you would be better off on your own

Hi OP, hope you are somewhere safe and warm this morning x

@FuckingFreezing1 - I hope you (a) managed to get some sleep in a safe place, and (b) will gather the strength needed to kick out this abusive POS and/or go home to your mum.

Once you are safe, take steps to focus on b your self esteem and work out why you let this go on for as long as it did. The Six Pillars of Self Esteem by Nathaniel Barden is a good start.

Sorry I haven't rtft. But, why don't you keep your own keys for yourself. If he loses his keys, then that's up to him to get a new set. And if he hasn't done that, then he will just have to fit in with you and your schedule. Why are you giving him your keys?? And then complaining when he's not home to let you in? Is he violent or abusive....are you scared of him? Is he manipulating you? Seriously, you need to get away from him, this relationship is not working out.

He was due home before OP finished work so she gave him the key.