He’s fucking locked me out.

[FuckingFreezing1]

Basically this. I’ve text him as I can’t get in, I’ve just finished work. He’s on a works Xmas party.

Said he was setting off at 8:45 and he’d be home for 9 so I said cool, take the key.

Now it’s 10pm and I’m sat in a fucking bus shelter because he’s locked me out and won’t come back with the keys, he’s out and apparently I’m unreasonable for asking him to come home to at least let me in.

I haven’t a clue what to do, it’s 4°, my street is poorly lit and this place doesn’t shut til 12. I can’t afford a lock change so that’s out of the question and my mums not in. So I literally have to just wait.

You've are tolerating this shit? WHY - do something - therapy - leave?.you have no children - get your life back

I hope you manage to get freedom for yourself. And build yourself up again. You should read this thread every time you think you want to stay.

That's top notch advice.
Op he doesn't love nor value you.
I don't get how someone could treat their partner like this.hopefully you get into your home soon.

Bit why are you paying for his new keys all the time?

Wtf? You rat

Are you in Op?

He really doesn’t give a shit about you and treats you like some muck on his shoes. Time to prioritise your well-being and true happiness. You deserve someone who loves and respects you. Someone willing to go the extra mile because they care.

it’s irrelevant who’s got the keys, any loving partner would ensure you were safe and warm and able to sleep so your fresh for work.

I hope you managed to get in okay OP. You deserve a loving relationship where you both value and care about each other. This guy doesn't seem to have your best interests at heart at all.

Please, please do this. You deserve so much better then a life with this cunt. Could you stay with your mum for a bit while you get sorted?

Nope still in McDonald’s 🙃
Tried ringing but no answer, there never is when he’s out.

You poor thing, no one deserves this. Here's wishing you a much brighter, happier future without him. 💐

More than three and a half hours later than he said he would be home. He is unbelievably selfish. How long can you stay in MacDonalds for?

Think I saw post offer PayPal u nuf to get premiering or wotever.i can manage .PayPal a tenner towards that. McDonald's preferable to bus shelter. . Not solution tho,shuts at 12 irrelevant given Xmas night out n utter cunt arsehole issue. Prioritise yourself op.please

This

Surely you have 2 sets

Luckily it’s open 24 hours

Oh dear - I'm sending him a virtual kick in the arse.

Main priority now is that you get back inside (hopefully soon) and can get to work in a few hours time. Deal with his behaviour later. Take your key to work!!

That’s literally all I want. I just want my keys. This can’t go on after today. I can’t comprehend why he’s done it. I don’t know why. Sat in McDonald’s at almost 1am. What the fuck has my life come to

Go and get the keys from him, he's an ass. Then give him the boot.

I’ve no idea where the little rat is so I can’t get the keys.

She doesn’t know where he is.

I'd get yourself a few keys cut, put them in your bag. It's up to him to sort out if he loses them, just don't let him know you have spares! But I think your problems are deeper than this. Those texts are vile, he doesn't give a shit...

So sorry OP. You have to imagine a life with this man or a life without this man then take your pick. I know what I would choose. There are plenty of fish in the sea willing to treat you as you deserve to be treated ❤️

Can you stay at your Mum's? Honestly if you were my daughter, I'd be livid. He has prioritised his social life over your safety and wellbeing. Utter shit. He could have come home, let you in and returned to his friends.

What if he's back at the flat?

If he was home he’d be messaging me abuse for daring to ring 3 times.

Is there a hotel you can go to for the night?

Please let this be the final straw for you. I know I don’t know you, but you deserve better. Anyone deserves better. Anytime he shows you a little bit of kindness, come back to this thread to remind yourself what a cunt he is. Take care and stay safe