When is it polite to leave??

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WeddingPedding · 04/12/2024 20:40

I'm attending a wedding, I really don't want to go.

Ceremony starts at 2.30pm
Speeches & food 6pm
"Games" and music 8pm
Special fun hour 12pm-1am

It's been expressed bride wants everyone to stay until 1am

When can I leave while being polite? Do I have to stay until 1am?

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Starlight1979 · 05/12/2024 10:12

TinySmol · 04/12/2024 22:36

The bride won't even notice that you've left early.
What a ridiculous schedule.
She sounds delusional.
Gotta say I feel sorry for the groom.

I'm intrigued by the special late night fun. Are they offering everyone cocaine?
Y'all will need it.

😂

Starlight1979 · 05/12/2024 10:13

Games??? Special "fun" hour??? Wtf type of wedding is this?!

stargazerlil · 05/12/2024 11:18

WeddingPedding · 04/12/2024 22:05

My migraines come on at the worst times, right? Such a shame. Gutted to go. You look beautiful, it's been wonderful, byebyebye, bu-bye.

This is the one.

8pm? So 5.5hrs. Doable.

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Sorry went to sleep.
Yes 8 absolutely before the erm. Games and special fun.
good luck.

jay55 · 05/12/2024 14:18

8:15 and if anyone asks why you left early, say you didn't, you were in the loo all night.

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 05/12/2024 14:22

I'd say certainly before the "special fun hour".

Go, eat, dance, slip away. Home by ten thirty.

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