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DH pancreatic lesion with symptoms

189 replies

Ebabllisstggoffor · 24/11/2024 02:16

So we’re half way to our U.K. holiday break. This morning an appointment came through for my DH to see a consultant surgeon. This is an urgent appointment on the back of a recent MRI. It’s on Tuesday morning. He says he’s going to call them on Monday to rearrange it. My gut reaction is to head home and keep the appointment but he’s having none of it. He wants his holiday. I’m currently wide awake worrying about all this. What if he rings on Monday and can’t get a quick appointment? Should I try and persuade him that we should head home. What would be reasonable. I’m so very worried about him.

OP posts:
TokyoSushi · 27/01/2025 12:17

Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry.

ohfourfoxache · 27/01/2025 12:20

I'm so, so sorry Flowers

KnewYearKnewMe · 27/01/2025 12:26

I'm so, so sorry to hear that, OP.

Normallynumb · 27/01/2025 12:29

I'm so very sorry OP

Astrak · 27/01/2025 12:29

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Deep condolences.
I hope that you have a supportive team of friends and relatives around you.

Neolara · 27/01/2025 12:33

Very sorry to hear this.

Msmoonpie · 27/01/2025 12:33

I’m so very sorry to hear that. I too lost someone to pancreatic cancer.

I hope you have people around you - feel free to post as much as you like if it gives you any solace.

OhDeerohDeerie · 27/01/2025 12:34

Ebabllisstggoffor · 27/01/2025 12:07

He died after having the procedure.

Oh shit.

i was just coming to say letting him have his holiday is totally understandable . What else could you do ❤️

when I saw the date I thought I’d check for updates before posting. I’m so upset for you. He sounds like a big personality and he must be such a loss from your life.

you must be so angry and sad and lost.

all of the feelings.

big hugs, mumsnet is always here for a big cry ❤️

Maray1967 · 27/01/2025 12:36

So very sorry to read this. Sending much sympathy to you and the family.
💐

DebbyU · 27/01/2025 12:39

So very sorry-look after yourself.

cheezncrackers · 27/01/2025 12:40

I'm so sorry OP Flowers

noctilucentcloud · 27/01/2025 12:54

I'm so sorry OP.

Sandsnake · 27/01/2025 13:00

Oh I am so, so sorry to hear that. The biggest of hugs to you. Pancreatic cancer is so bloody awful. Xx

stayathomegardener · 27/01/2025 13:25

Sincerest condolences.

LushLemonTart · 27/01/2025 13:28

@Ebabllisstggoffor that's awful. So sorry you're going through this and so sudden.

Lanzarotelady · 27/01/2025 13:43

I am so very sorry to hear this, xx sending love x

WalterdelaMare · 27/01/2025 13:49

So sorry, OP. What a terrible thing.

mindutopia · 27/01/2025 13:59

I’m so very sorry. How are you doing through all of this?

SweetSakura · 27/01/2025 14:36

I am so so sorry to hear this Flowers

MounjaroOnMyMind · 27/01/2025 14:39

Oh how terrible. I'm so sorry. Flowers

Ebabllisstggoffor · 27/01/2025 14:46

Thank you all, for your kind words. We are still reeling from the shock, quite honestly.

OP posts:
Takeoutyourhen · 27/01/2025 15:01

So sorry to hear this OP 🌷

heldinadream · 27/01/2025 15:41

Oh gosh. I'm so sorry OP. Thank you so much for updating.
I hope you and your family are surrounded by love and support.
💔

Photodilemmas · 27/01/2025 15:46

Ebabllisstggoffor · 27/01/2025 12:07

He died after having the procedure.

I'm so sorry OP - I had been wondering how you were getting on. Sending hugs 🫂

Jabtastic · 27/01/2025 16:19

Dear OP I'm so sorry ❤️ We lost a much loved family member to this cruel cancer. I'm so very sorry for your loss and I send you and your family circle love x