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It's a shame that Hollywood results in women ruining their looks whilst the men carry on regardless (Wicked)

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ByCoolWriter · 23/11/2024 20:02

I've been looking at videos of the lovely Cynthia from the Wicked movie a few years ago. She looked wonderful and healthy. Now her face is all sharp angles. The same for Ariana who looks dangerously thin. I've heard many say that it's the gruelling film schedules etc but I don't see the male members looking like a lettuce leaf would fill them up.
Isn't it sad that actresses still feel this need to look a certain way whilst men don't

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tothelefttotheleft · 24/11/2024 00:36

@MrsSkylerWhite

I think he has a blood cancer.

Duckyfondant · 24/11/2024 00:37

It's well documented that Joaquin and Bale chose to drastically change their bodies because of their egotistical method acting bullshit. Its nothing like the pressure women actors clearly feel to avoid weight gain and ageing.

OnlyinBlackandWhite · 24/11/2024 00:38

The clue is in their faces, not their bodies. Plenty of people have a skinny body type naturally, and that's not abnormal, it's in the face and the lines down the side of the mouth, I can spot it a mile off. The facial 'tells' of eating disorders reverse as soon as you go towards a slightly healthier weight which is very slim as opposed to extremely concerningly low BMI. Natalie Dyer from Stranger Things has a similar aesthetic.

Grimgrump · 24/11/2024 00:43

I remember a story about The Devil Wears Prada. I think Anne Hathaway herself told it. After they cast Anne, word got back to Meryl that the producers were pressuring Anne (who was already slim) to lose about 10 kg. Meryl became very cross and used her star power to push back - she said they had to stop pressuring Anne, or she (Meryl) would walk. The film had only been financed because of Meryl’s agreeing to do it, so the threat worked. But this sort of outcome is rare, sadly.

crumblingschools · 24/11/2024 00:48

I thought Nicole Kidman looked worryingly thin on GN and her face looked different. It’s so sad that they feel they need to do this/or pressured to do it

Bigcat25 · 24/11/2024 00:49

desidi · 23/11/2024 21:17

scary thing is how desirable this look is to
some people. When my adult daughter weighed under six stones and hadn't had a period for nearly two years, we lost count of the number of
people who told her she looked amazing.
She didn't. She looked poorly.

Yes, it's very depressing and unhelpful isn't it? I don't know if people think they look unwell and say they look amazing to be polite or if they really think it?

Blankscreen · 24/11/2024 00:51

Nicole Kidman looked very odd on Graham Norton last night.

Such a shame as a little bit of work often looks good but it goes too far and they all end up with the weird mouth puffy face look.

They don't look young. They look old but having had work done.

SeriousFaffing · 24/11/2024 01:06

Catza · 23/11/2024 20:29

What about all the men in superhero movies who have to go through months of dieting and workouts and then dehydrate themselves before a naked torso scene. Don't fool yourself. It's not just women.

It’s not just women but it is almost always women.

XenoBitch · 24/11/2024 01:11

SeriousFaffing · 24/11/2024 01:06

It’s not just women but it is almost always women.

And men do it for the roles. Women are expected to do it for everything.

OnlyinBlackandWhite · 24/11/2024 01:11

I'm sure men in Hollywood are under extreme pressure over their looks too, many will be using steroids for starters (and some have confessed to doing so, Arnie didn't get that big by accident). Generally, though there are more parts for men who are a bit tubbier and older, such as Hugh Grant who has a charming but lined and aged face, and whose career has never been better. Nicole knows this would not happen to her and has acted accordingly, even though she cannot express emotion whatsoever.

HelenaWaiting · 24/11/2024 01:30

ByCoolWriter · 23/11/2024 20:02

I've been looking at videos of the lovely Cynthia from the Wicked movie a few years ago. She looked wonderful and healthy. Now her face is all sharp angles. The same for Ariana who looks dangerously thin. I've heard many say that it's the gruelling film schedules etc but I don't see the male members looking like a lettuce leaf would fill them up.
Isn't it sad that actresses still feel this need to look a certain way whilst men don't

Take it from me, it isn't the film schedules. My son's ex is an actress. Even if the filming was grueling, there is a very long period of editing/post production after shooting has finished. If they had lost weight due to the gruelling film schedules, they would have recovered by now. If anything, they look even thinner now than they did in the film.

Nanny0gg · 24/11/2024 01:35

Dutchhouse14 · 23/11/2024 22:40

Also looked like she was wearing a mask, shes beautiful but her face looked odd-had too much work done on it I think, really sad women feel they have to do this

She couldn't really move her top lip when she spoke. It looked very odd.

I suppose it's too late for them all to stop and grow old gracefully

Nanny0gg · 24/11/2024 01:36

She looks in her late 40s there!

Disturbia81 · 24/11/2024 01:45

Blankscreen · 24/11/2024 00:51

Nicole Kidman looked very odd on Graham Norton last night.

Such a shame as a little bit of work often looks good but it goes too far and they all end up with the weird mouth puffy face look.

They don't look young. They look old but having had work done.

I'm starting to think that they know they don't look young, and that they know it is an unusual, weird plastic look but to them ANYTHING is better than looking wrinkly.

KlaraSundown · 24/11/2024 02:02

We saw Wicked this evening and Ariana Grande is so fantastic in it. But it's sort of tainted by the fact that she looks like she has an eating disorder.

There are so many great songs, but my mind kept wandering to speculate on her diet, exercise regime, sleep regimen etc.

BTW I'm not some super-fan, just a concerned viewer...

Bunnycat101 · 24/11/2024 02:29

Ariana is clearly quite poorly and Cynthia seems to have visibly shrunk. They might not be the best influence on each other but there is something about Ariana that is more worrying as she seems to be trying to retain an almost child-like figure and status.

The thing is though she’s generating headlines for her weight, getting attention for it. If she’s in depths of anorexia, getting out of it will be that much harder because of the attention she’s getting.

EconomyClassRockstar · 24/11/2024 02:30

Cynthia Erivo is very clearly wearing facial prosthetics in the movie! That is not what she normally looks like. She is absolutely gorgeous.

Thevelvelletes · 24/11/2024 02:34

desidi · 23/11/2024 20:41

it's extremely sad and I hope Ariana Grande is getting support. Way back in the 1930's, a teenage Judy Garland was also going through eating issues whilst filming the Wizard of Oz.
Sad that nothing has changed in nearly 100 years.

I'm sure she was given uppers and downers to see her through filming.

SharpOpalNewt · 24/11/2024 02:37

desidi · 23/11/2024 20:41

it's extremely sad and I hope Ariana Grande is getting support. Way back in the 1930's, a teenage Judy Garland was also going through eating issues whilst filming the Wizard of Oz.
Sad that nothing has changed in nearly 100 years.

Not her own "eating issues" but the studio restricting her food intake and giving her amphetamines and sleeping pills.

FiveTreeHill · 24/11/2024 02:49

Both of them have visibility lost a lot of weight. Ariana maybe started before Cynthia, but its obvious on both of them.

They haven't lost weight for a role. They have a very intense, quit odd dynamic such maybe for cameras, but if not is quite bizarre. It looks very much like a competitive ED

TempestTost · 24/11/2024 03:06

SpidersAreShitheads · 23/11/2024 23:52

^This nails the key point that some PP are missing.

Sure, some men lose weight/change body shape for a role - and that’s the key point: for a role.

There are some roles which require a certain body shape to be convincing and that’s fine. But that’s not the point being made here.

Women aren’t losing weight because the role requires a certain look eg/huge muscles for a superhero.

Women need to be slim and wrinkle-free to carry on getting the general roles while their male counterparts rock a silver fox look, “distinguished” wrinkles, and even a dad bod. And they’re then paired with an actress much younger than them who’s youthful, slim, and attractive. Every fucking time.

The only chance older women have to carry on getting those same types of roles is to stay ultra slim, and fill themselves full of Botox.

There are wild double standards in how society views and treats men and women. Of course you’re free not to engage. But if you’re in an industry where societal opinion matters - like entertainment- you either suck it up and conform, or else get frozen out.

It’s a shitty choice and I agree with some PP has definitely expanded within the general public. I see very few men lying about their weight to get Mounjaro just so they can lose the last few stubborn pounds, risking their health in the process. I see very few men dying their hair and having Botox/fillers routinely. There are certainly some and numbers are increasing, but still vanishingly few compared to women.

We live with very unhealthy attitudes to women, and particularly women ageing.

I'm not sure this is totally fair.

While I'd agree the pressure on women is greater, as far as looking young, and also I think the ideal male body has traditionally been something that can be achieved in a relatively healthy way. (That's changing though, the kind of Hollywood male star body these days is not so healthy and also actors increasingly are maintaining it as the standard.)

Even so, it is not all the women, or even all the A list actresses that go to these kinds of lengths. Nicole Kidman is a good example, and interesting because she looks her age, and is playing roles for a woman of her age. For all the work she's had done, she does not seem to be in a better place than actresses who have retained a look that's a little more natural.

I think that part of what happens is that surrounded by the weird standards of Hollywood, a lot of people start to have a distorted idea of what looks normal.

LunaMay · 24/11/2024 03:12

Weird thread. Let's show concern at the pressure and scorn thrown at actresses and then all jump in to rip on the appearance of one of those actresses. Shame on you all.

Thevelvelletes · 24/11/2024 03:27

I find it sad for a person when the surgeries have went to far and they're rendered looking less than human.

Mummyoflittledragon · 24/11/2024 03:50

Ariana Grande looks like my dd did when she was in full throe of anorexia earlier this year. Dd is recovering slowly and has started putting on weight again after plateauing for months but still very mentally unwell. I was thinking of taking dd to see the film. I will be giving it a miss.

daisychain01 · 24/11/2024 04:26

LunaMay · 24/11/2024 03:12

Weird thread. Let's show concern at the pressure and scorn thrown at actresses and then all jump in to rip on the appearance of one of those actresses. Shame on you all.

So what's best to do, stay silent about it?

Posters are quite rightly shocked at the emancipated appearance of young women pressurised in the shallow world of Hollywood - that's not ripping into them, it's commenting on the way those women are sucked into a world where they have no option but to starve themselves almost to death, and encouraged to do so by Hollywood, which is a cruel and exploitative environment for young women.

They are putting themselves in grave danger and setting themselves up for a later life of ill health - it's equally as bad as being overweight. I'd say it's positive that women on here are recognising that and raising the awareness.