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Dh has walked off and left me alone at 1am in the street. 2 miles from home

587 replies

Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 00:59

Just that really. We were out with friends, going back to theirs. Dh refused to back to theirs but I don't know why. The others left in a cab. I couldn't leave dh alone in the pub. I I said I'm going home. He said OK. Followed me out in a fit and angry, cos he felt obliged to follow me. He's walked home. I'm 2 miles away from homre and sitting in the cold shivering
He messaged me to ask if I got an uber home. I said no, he said good we've spent £x on uber tonight.

He's walked home and I'm sitting on the kerb, 2 miles away in the dark, cold.

OP posts:
TheCatterall · 16/11/2024 01:31

@Boopadoop90 do you have access to funds to get an Uber or taxi? If so - get one.

DaniMontyRae · 16/11/2024 01:32

Cindersroo · 16/11/2024 01:19

Do you have the funds for an Uber/Taxi? If yes why aren’t you just ordering one ?

It sounds like you’re very drunk. Try and get yourself home safe and sober up then ask questions of your partner in the morning

She's posting coherently on here, I doubt she's that drunk

Nine9 · 16/11/2024 01:32

And you can't order a taxi/uber yourself because...?

XChrome · 16/11/2024 01:32

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Lol!

CoraPirbright · 16/11/2024 01:32

Grow up and get yourself home. He may have behaved like an arse but there is nothing to be gained by freezing to death on some bloody curb.

FreeRider · 16/11/2024 01:34

Is it half term? What a load of fucking shit.

vodkaredbullgirl · 16/11/2024 01:35
Go Home GIF by Mean Girls

To bed

Hualalai · 16/11/2024 01:35

OP is 51 years old with 15 year old kids according to a thread she started a couple of days ago.

OP, c'mon what would you tell your kids to do in this situation.

MrsWinslowsSoothingSyrup · 16/11/2024 01:36

Get a cab to your mates house and join the party

MrsTerryPratchett · 16/11/2024 01:37

FreeRider · 16/11/2024 01:34

Is it half term? What a load of fucking shit.

Yup.

TheChippendenSpook · 16/11/2024 01:37

He definitely has kicked you to the kerb hasn't he?

O6bftdff · 16/11/2024 01:40

Get a taxi to the friend’s.

Willyoujustbequiet · 16/11/2024 01:42

Not the point of the thread I know but not everyone can just call an uber. It entirely depends on where you live. I've waited 3 hours plus for taxis before.

TubDubDeRubTub · 16/11/2024 01:43

Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:10

I'm now sleeping the night on the kurb
He can see my location my clearly doesn't care

Wow. I'd leave you on the curb aswell. Order yourself a taxi and go home you mard arse

loropianalover · 16/11/2024 01:44

Willyoujustbequiet · 16/11/2024 01:42

Not the point of the thread I know but not everyone can just call an uber. It entirely depends on where you live. I've waited 3 hours plus for taxis before.

The DH text her to see if she got an Uber. They already got an Uber earlier in the night. The friends went off in a cab. I think she’d be fine.

Edingril · 16/11/2024 01:45

Nine9 · 16/11/2024 01:32

And you can't order a taxi/uber yourself because...?

Because the bottom lip is out and martyr is their middle name?

CandyLeBonBon · 16/11/2024 01:49

Sounds like you both need to sober up, have a conversation and stop being a pair of drama llamas. Confused

mamechange · 16/11/2024 01:50

Don't mean to be rude but you are acting like a juvenile drunken buffoon. GO HOME.

PyongyangKipperbang · 16/11/2024 01:53

Can anyone else smell burning martyr?

Get a fucking taxi and stop being so sodding childish.

"I am sleeping on the kerb" do me a fucking a favour!

Monty27 · 16/11/2024 01:54

Drama queen you will learn when you grow up @Boopadoop90

Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:57

How could dh walk off knowing he had left me late at night? Then go home and fall asleep ?

OP posts:
loropianalover · 16/11/2024 01:58

Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:57

How could dh walk off knowing he had left me late at night? Then go home and fall asleep ?

Quite easily I imagine! Don’t forget to set your alarm for early so you don’t get swept up by the street cleaners x

MrPickles0001 · 16/11/2024 01:59

Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:57

How could dh walk off knowing he had left me late at night? Then go home and fall asleep ?

because rightly or wrongly you told him to, and he did exactly as you asked, on many threads on here some people usually say their Dh does not listen etc, and yours did

whathaveiforgotten · 16/11/2024 01:59

Mate, you've got kids.

It's dangerous to sleep outside, in November, for a multitude of reasons. Let alone after drinking.

You're choosing to put their mother at risk, not your husband.

You are typing coherently on Mumsnet. So you are perfectly able to sort some sort of way home.

You're putting yourself at risk to prove a point. When you've got kids, that's such a selfish and irresponsible thing to do.

PyongyangKipperbang · 16/11/2024 02:01

Boopadoop90 · 16/11/2024 01:57

How could dh walk off knowing he had left me late at night? Then go home and fall asleep ?

Because you are a massive PITA demanding drama queen?

You are a grown woman, married to a man who is utterly sick of your "ME ME ME" dramatics. Dont blame him. I would have taken you at your word too.

Get yourself home and spend time doing some self reflection. Maybe not "how could he " but "WHY would he...."... Think about it.

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