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Iraq to lower the ‘age of consent’ for girls to nine

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Waitingforfriday75 · 09/11/2024 07:35

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/global-health/women-and-girls/iraq-poised-to-lower-the-age-of-consent-for-girls-to-nine/

Posted here as it gets the most traffic. This is by far the worst news I’ve heard all year. Imagine at the age you were meant to start secondary school instead being forced to marry and have sex with an older man. Completely disgusting!!!

Iraq to lower the ‘age of consent’ for girls to nine

A new law proposed by ultra conservative Shia Muslim parties seeks to strip women and girls of their rights

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/global-health/women-and-girls/iraq-poised-to-lower-the-age-of-consent-for-girls-to-nine

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BabyEl · 09/11/2024 10:10

lasagnelle · 09/11/2024 10:06

What possible reason can there be for marrying a 10 year old to be legal? That's shocking

Because Mohammed did it. He married a six-year-old and consummated with her when she was nine.

now unless you’re going to say their prophet was wrong, then how are you possibly going to stop such laws being enacted around the Muslim world?

lasagnelle · 09/11/2024 10:11

BabyEl · 09/11/2024 10:10

Because Mohammed did it. He married a six-year-old and consummated with her when she was nine.

now unless you’re going to say their prophet was wrong, then how are you possibly going to stop such laws being enacted around the Muslim world?

What's that got to do with child marriage in the USA

Scirocco · 09/11/2024 10:12

Bollihobs · 09/11/2024 10:04

Two months old it maybe but did you know about it till today? I didn't.

I fail to see how it's a less awful proposition for having been announced 8 weeks ago rather than today.

And great that, because it's 8 weeks old and others did spot it, there's already opposition.

The conservative politicians trying to get it through previously tried in, I think, 2014 and 2017. Both attempts were blocked. Hopefully, with enough support, this can be blocked too, but it's looking like it'll be harder to prevent it this time.

goody2shooz · 09/11/2024 10:14

saynotofondant · 09/11/2024 09:49

I was surprised to read about this law so Googled to find out more but couldn’t find anything. Can you share a link?

I have asked that my previous post be removed as it was incorrect. The use of rape is sanctioned by Mr Netanyahu and many senior officials but is not enshrined in law.

timenowplease · 09/11/2024 10:15

AgnesX · 09/11/2024 07:57

That country gets worse every passing day.

And then people wonder why there's an increase in immigration.

I wish there was something that could be done.

And then people wonder why there's an increase in immigration.

Lol, this would make sense if the immigrants were women. But they're not. Just guys fleeing and leaving them behind to suffer God knows what horrors.

CranfordScones · 09/11/2024 10:16

Presumably there'll be a noisy clamour of strong opposition from our MPs. Or are they too afraid to speak up? And why would that be? Why is freedom to speak out being eroded for certain groups, notably MPs who would otherwise self-describe as being liberal and progressive - but who suffer from convenient moral cowardice when young girls are being raped?

Allergictoironing · 09/11/2024 10:17

Timothy, 2:12 ‘But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence’. In addition, in Timothy 2:12, St Paul said, ‘I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet’. When laying out the ground rules for worship services in 1 Corinthians 14: 33-35, Paul revisits this by placing clear restrictions on participation by women.

Ah Saint Paul (Saul), the self-proclaimed "apostle" who never met Jesus (apart from his own account of a vision), argues with Saint Peter and was reprimanded by others of the 12 original Apostles.

And of course that was according to Timothy (a book which is considered by many scholars as NOT being written by Paul), and is contradicted by various other statements in the New Testament including Junia ("prominent among the apostles"), and Phoebe being praised as a Deaconess.

But you pick & choose the bits that prove your point (sort of like those Muslims who treat women badly).

AgnesX · 09/11/2024 10:20

timenowplease · 09/11/2024 10:15

And then people wonder why there's an increase in immigration.

Lol, this would make sense if the immigrants were women. But they're not. Just guys fleeing and leaving them behind to suffer God knows what horrors.

Women do escape, it's not just the men. Men are more likely to be funded though by their families etc with the idea that the women and children follow.

OonaStubbs · 09/11/2024 10:20

This is one of the reasons I will always support Israel against Palestine. Women in Israel have far more rights and freedom than in any other country in the Middle-East. The bigger Israel gets, the freer the region becomes overall.

timenowplease · 09/11/2024 10:21

AgnesX · 09/11/2024 10:20

Women do escape, it's not just the men. Men are more likely to be funded though by their families etc with the idea that the women and children follow.

Oh really? What percentage of women are you talking about?

BeckyAMumsnet · 09/11/2024 10:21

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Happiestwhen · 09/11/2024 10:24

Batmanisaplaceinturkey · 09/11/2024 07:47

70% of those killed in Gaza by Israel are women and children. Better off dead yeah?

👏

sunflowersngunpowdr · 09/11/2024 10:27

wrongthinker · 09/11/2024 07:44

Fucking hell.

And women in Afghanistan not allowed to speak, even to one another.

The horrors of life for women and girls in Iraq, Iran, Afghanistan and other Muslim countries hardly bears thinking about. Not sure what Western governments can do other than condemning these laws and giving their support to Israel.

lol have you read the Talmud? The attitude towards children in that is pretty interesting.

WTAFisthisnonsense · 09/11/2024 10:28

LurkingFromTheShadows · 09/11/2024 09:33

Age of "consent" = you can rape little girls so long as they're 9 and be protected by the law.

Fucking disgusting.

Tbh I read it as it is the father of the poor child can consent to the 'marriage' of their daughter. I don't think women and girls have much they can consent to in Iraq.

Wonderi · 09/11/2024 10:30

BabyEl · 09/11/2024 10:10

Because Mohammed did it. He married a six-year-old and consummated with her when she was nine.

now unless you’re going to say their prophet was wrong, then how are you possibly going to stop such laws being enacted around the Muslim world?

All of the females having sex/babies in the bible are under 12.

That’s no excuse to lower the age.

It was normal for young girls to be married at a young age in the olden days.
It was also normal to have slaves and god knows what else.

In the bible it was also encouraged for fathers to have sex with their daughters.

But we know these things are not ok and you can’t use a book from hundreds of years ago as an excuse.

The book or religion is irrelevant.
If they didn’t exist men would still be doing these things.

Ohthatsabitshit · 09/11/2024 10:30

Fullrecoveryispossible · 09/11/2024 08:24

For those asking the relevance of Israel. They are pivotal in the destroying of these horrendous islamist extremist groups in the likes or Iran.
It is indeed a travesty that we do not hear more about this Islamist extremism that is dominating the Middle East. Even in ‘safer’ countries like the UAE, it only recently became possible for women to drive alone.

Women could drive alone in the UAE in 1985 and for all I know had been able to for a long time before that. Why are you making stuff up and presenting it as fact?

usernamealreadytaken · 09/11/2024 10:31

Batmanisaplaceinturkey · 09/11/2024 07:58

It's old news though. Meanwhile there are reports women in America are stockpiling abortion pills. That's more current news. Why would a right wing paper 'distract' with old news eh?

Perhaps the hysterical women stockpiling abortion pills might be better off buying contraceptives?

BabyEl · 09/11/2024 10:34

sunflowersngunpowdr · 09/11/2024 10:27

lol have you read the Talmud? The attitude towards children in that is pretty interesting.

Oh…and how is that affecting millions of women right now?

what’s that? it isn’t? you just want a bit of whatabouterry?

Ohthatsabitshit · 09/11/2024 10:34

usernamealreadytaken · 09/11/2024 10:31

Perhaps the hysterical women stockpiling abortion pills might be better off buying contraceptives?

“Hysterical” wow the world really is turning backwards.

BabyEl · 09/11/2024 10:36

lasagnelle · 09/11/2024 10:11

What's that got to do with child marriage in the USA

Oh I see.

we are only worried about child marriage when it’s in the US. It’s ok when other people do it.

usernamealreadytaken · 09/11/2024 10:36

Ohthatsabitshit · 09/11/2024 10:34

“Hysterical” wow the world really is turning backwards.

And you don’t think that stockpiling abortion pills is 1 - hysterical and 2 - disturbing, given that contraception is a better option? Abortion shouldn’t be viewed as regular contraception.

Lavenderfarmcottage · 09/11/2024 10:40

I had to read this twice, it’s actually medically dangerous for a girl to be pregnant at that age and can lead to fistulas which is essentially a tear between the vaginal canal causing bowel movements to be uncontrolled

Combattingthemoaners · 09/11/2024 10:44

Jesus! This is truly awful.

Ohthatsabitshit · 09/11/2024 10:44

usernamealreadytaken · 09/11/2024 10:36

And you don’t think that stockpiling abortion pills is 1 - hysterical and 2 - disturbing, given that contraception is a better option? Abortion shouldn’t be viewed as regular contraception.

Well when men stop raping women and pregnancy is risk free for all we can talk about it but until then I’d say responsible is a better adjective.

Fizzle1 · 09/11/2024 10:47

I actually live in Iraq so thought I would comment. This was not passed and “quietly” disappeared - there was huge public backlash, protests in the street etc, and pressure from UNICEF and other organisations present in Iraq - especially from female led organisations, of which there are quite a few. It has now mainly been “forgotten” by those who tried to raise the bill and is not going to be voted on.