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Iraq to lower the ‘age of consent’ for girls to nine

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Waitingforfriday75 · 09/11/2024 07:35

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/global-health/women-and-girls/iraq-poised-to-lower-the-age-of-consent-for-girls-to-nine/

Posted here as it gets the most traffic. This is by far the worst news I’ve heard all year. Imagine at the age you were meant to start secondary school instead being forced to marry and have sex with an older man. Completely disgusting!!!

Iraq to lower the ‘age of consent’ for girls to nine

A new law proposed by ultra conservative Shia Muslim parties seeks to strip women and girls of their rights

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/global-health/women-and-girls/iraq-poised-to-lower-the-age-of-consent-for-girls-to-nine

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MillyVannily · 09/11/2024 14:16

Allergictoironing · 09/11/2024 08:54

I'm not a Muslim and I found your statement very racist, and not at all "innocent".

As @MissyB1 said, not all Muslims are the same. Similar to Christians really, there are various sects and divisions who interpret the "laws" very differently; they pick & choose the interpretations and writings that suit them. An example of this is that nobody as yet has managed to show me the place in the Bible that says women can never be priests, yet many Christian sects still ban women from this.

Apologies then! Yes, you are right, there are various parts of each religion and obviously they are not perfect.

coxesorangepippin · 09/11/2024 14:17

For example, hospitals can refuse women admitted for childbirth without a marriage certificate.

^

What a way to lead a society.

Absolutely despicable.

We really are going backwards as a humanity.

coxesorangepippin · 09/11/2024 14:18

An example of this is that nobody as yet has managed to show me the place in the Bible that says women can never be priests, yet many Christian sects still ban women from this.

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Not comparable with allowing nine year olds to marry.

coxesorangepippin · 09/11/2024 14:19

It didn’t. I live in Iraq. There were large protests and public backlash

^

Can you tell us more, especially how you feel in regards to women's rights??

Fizzle1 · 09/11/2024 14:22

Puzzledandpissedoff · 09/11/2024 14:14

Iraq is not poised to do that AT ALL, this law was proposed in August and also shut down by September

This is perfectly correct, @Fizzle1, but it still seems no bad thing to note it, given that with the regime in charge in Iran the outcry's unlikely to have shut the idea down permanently

To say nothing of the encouragement it'll have given some to just go ahead and do it anyway

No of course, It’s more just a point of fact - as so many posters seem rightly angry, to just highlight that the original article is misleading in terms of the timing, not other content as Iran heavily influences politics in Iraq.

I remember when it was announced here at the time I was thinking “Where is the international outcry!”

MrsSunshine2b · 09/11/2024 14:28

Ponoka7 · 09/11/2024 07:58

As asked, in what Muslim country are women's rights protected and girls will have the same equal access to opportunities as her male counterparts?
However when reading around the age of consent, apparently Germany will lower there's to 6 under some circumstances and many women from thr US claim that in reality (prosecutions etc) it might as well be 12 in some states.

Who on earth told you that? The age of consent in Germany is 14, but even then, not under all circumstances.

timenowplease · 09/11/2024 14:35

AgnesX · 09/11/2024 13:31

No idea. If you know, feel free to share. It's academic regardless.

Exactly - you were talking a load of rubbish.

Fizzle1 · 09/11/2024 14:35

coxesorangepippin · 09/11/2024 14:19

It didn’t. I live in Iraq. There were large protests and public backlash

^

Can you tell us more, especially how you feel in regards to women's rights??

There’s still a really long way to go - politically as other posters have noted, Iran holds a lot of power and provides support for some of the biggest militia, which still de facto “control” some places.

Your family / community and tribal affiliations will hold more power over what you can do than what’s in the law.

For example, legally women work, travel, access education - however if you happen to be from a family that don’t want you to work, travel or access education they hold a lot more power over you than the law.

I have female friends who do “whatever they want” I.e work, socialise, live alone, aren’t fearful of their day to day safety, dress how they like etc however I also have friends whose family enforce more rigid gender stereotypes, which always end up as controlling for women.

Grammarnut · 09/11/2024 14:55

Puzzledandpissedoff · 09/11/2024 13:39

This narrative of Saddam as a secularist is touted a lot, Grammarnut, along with the trope of the west being to blame for everything, but it gets complicated by the fact that he was just another opportunist who'd switch religion on and off according to what suited

Another useful piece here ...admittedly it's from a US institution but it makes a darned sight more sense than anything Iran's mad dog mullahs have ever produced : https://www.hoover.org/research/legacy-saddams-islam

I write from a European perspective, which is generally pragmatic rather than ideological - we don't care how democratic places we trade are and are generally happy with whatever colour government is in power. Saddam Hussein was secular in the sense that though outwardly religious he was not an Islamist (and of course an opportunist) but he also protected the Christian and Jewish minorities in Iraq (the people of the Book) - most of whom have now fled the country they had inhabited for hundreds, and in some cases thousands, of years. The US wanted Hussein out and to get its hands on Iraqui oil. Doubtless worthy reasons, but the removal of Hussein has done ordinary Iraquis little good.
NB I don't blame the West for everything. On the contrary, it seems to me that the West - due to the Enlightenment but also to the prevalence of Christianity - has been the driving force for reform and human rights across the world.
Thanks for link, interesting.

AgnesX · 09/11/2024 15:00

timenowplease · 09/11/2024 14:35

Exactly - you were talking a load of rubbish.

What's your point exactly?

AnotherChildFreeCatLady · 09/11/2024 15:03

wrongthinker · 09/11/2024 07:44

Fucking hell.

And women in Afghanistan not allowed to speak, even to one another.

The horrors of life for women and girls in Iraq, Iran, Afghanistan and other Muslim countries hardly bears thinking about. Not sure what Western governments can do other than condemning these laws and giving their support to Israel.

Except Israel are horrible terrorists.

Grammarnut · 09/11/2024 15:03

MrsSunshine2b · 09/11/2024 14:28

Who on earth told you that? The age of consent in Germany is 14, but even then, not under all circumstances.

The lowering of the age of consent to 4 was an aim of PIE - the Paedophile Information Exchange - in the 70s. Some Labour politicians supported it (no, they were not Muslims).

timenowplease · 09/11/2024 15:33

AgnesX · 09/11/2024 15:00

What's your point exactly?

Why are you still engaging with me?

You responded to one of my posts with a ridiculous statement. When I asked you to clarify you made another ridiculous post and now a third?

Go out for a walk and get some fresh air.

Rosscameasdoody · 09/11/2024 15:49

Livelovebehappy · 09/11/2024 13:18

I would pretty much say Hamas using tunnels and dug outs under hospitals and schools is pretty much one of the definitions of ‘human shield’. There’s proof this is where most of Hamas are stationed. I think the West should send as much help as possible in to Gaza to eradicate Hamas. Getting rid of the terrorists would end the war, the hostages released and normal life resumed.

The problem is that the aid agencies who go in to help in Gaza report seeing absolutely no evidence of Hamas in these areas. Where is the proof ? There is a definition of what constitutes a human shield under international law. Several agencies have said that there is no evidence that Hamas meets this definition. Whereas there is evidence of Israel doing exactly the same with kidnapped Palestinians. Two wrongs don’t make a right.

And if you think ‘normal life’ will ever be resumed while Israel continues its’ occupation and apartheid policies, you’re deluded.

AgnesX · 09/11/2024 15:50

timenowplease · 09/11/2024 15:33

Why are you still engaging with me?

You responded to one of my posts with a ridiculous statement. When I asked you to clarify you made another ridiculous post and now a third?

Go out for a walk and get some fresh air.

You started it with your own comment which brought nothing to the conversation. Mine was a point made from personal observation despite not being able to quote figures.

You don't and didn't have to engage with me. You're capable of ignoring me.

Rosscameasdoody · 09/11/2024 15:59

Chonk · 09/11/2024 14:10

What a fucking stupid question. That's like asking why do buildings have sprinkler systems when they may never set on fire. It's risk management.

Agree. This poster was answering me. Those who see the abortion laws in the US as a result of rescinding Roe v Wade in black and white aren’t grasping the issues. It’s not about protecting the unborn. It’s an attack on womens’ rights, which if allowed to run its’ course will result in many states treating women like walking incubators with no rights above those of their unborn child, at risk from second rate health care because many obstetric procedures are outlawed and medics are in fear of losing their licences/imprisonment.

Rosscameasdoody · 09/11/2024 16:13

buffyajp · 09/11/2024 12:55

As well as Hamas does if you want to go down that route. Both sides are guilty of this.

You can go down that route on either side as far as you want. It doesn’t help the women and girls involved does it ? The Palestinian civilians themselves are being blamed on some threads for ‘electing’ Hamas to power. Despite the fact that no free elections have been held in Gaza since 2006. And only Israel is guilty of genocide. Which is what this is.

Brananan · 09/11/2024 16:15

What Hamas did to Israel was inhumane and terrifying. That cannot stand.

Rosscameasdoody · 09/11/2024 16:27

Allergictoironing · 09/11/2024 10:17

Timothy, 2:12 ‘But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence’. In addition, in Timothy 2:12, St Paul said, ‘I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet’. When laying out the ground rules for worship services in 1 Corinthians 14: 33-35, Paul revisits this by placing clear restrictions on participation by women.

Ah Saint Paul (Saul), the self-proclaimed "apostle" who never met Jesus (apart from his own account of a vision), argues with Saint Peter and was reprimanded by others of the 12 original Apostles.

And of course that was according to Timothy (a book which is considered by many scholars as NOT being written by Paul), and is contradicted by various other statements in the New Testament including Junia ("prominent among the apostles"), and Phoebe being praised as a Deaconess.

But you pick & choose the bits that prove your point (sort of like those Muslims who treat women badly).

Don’t compare me with the way Muslims treat women, thank you - I’m not picking and choosing anything and if you read my post very carefully you’ll see that at no point did I say I agree with any of what I posted. I was simply answering a poster who said that the Bible didn’t provide a basis on which the case for prohibition of women priests could be made. Like it or not, these are some of the scriptures on which swathes of the Christian church rely to exclude women clergy. And on which fundamental Christians judge those churches who do include women in the clergy. Didn’t say I agree with it.

MissyB1 · 09/11/2024 17:15

AnotherChildFreeCatLady · 09/11/2024 15:03

Except Israel are horrible terrorists.

I agree that the IDF & Israeli government have shown themselves no better than Hamas. Israel will carry a heavy stain on their reputation for decades over what they've done to Gaza.

User37482 · 09/11/2024 17:23

It worries me that places like Afghanistan, libya, and Iraq are trying to apply more and more restrictions on women and girls liberty. It feels like parts of the world are going backwards. The abortion bans in the USA were appalling enough. It feels like a war on women. I truly fucking hope no other countries decide to follow suit.

The lower age for marriage in Iran is 13 for girls and 15 for boys and lower with the consent of parents. But lets be honest it’s mainly going to be little girls getting married isn’t it.

It’s fucking foul.

MissyB1 · 09/11/2024 17:28

EarthSight · 09/11/2024 09:59

Nope. You're not allowed to silence other people by saying the word RACISM every time you don't like someone's opinion. Manipulative bullshit.

Racists never like being called out do they?

User37482 · 09/11/2024 17:31

Grammarnut · 09/11/2024 14:55

I write from a European perspective, which is generally pragmatic rather than ideological - we don't care how democratic places we trade are and are generally happy with whatever colour government is in power. Saddam Hussein was secular in the sense that though outwardly religious he was not an Islamist (and of course an opportunist) but he also protected the Christian and Jewish minorities in Iraq (the people of the Book) - most of whom have now fled the country they had inhabited for hundreds, and in some cases thousands, of years. The US wanted Hussein out and to get its hands on Iraqui oil. Doubtless worthy reasons, but the removal of Hussein has done ordinary Iraquis little good.
NB I don't blame the West for everything. On the contrary, it seems to me that the West - due to the Enlightenment but also to the prevalence of Christianity - has been the driving force for reform and human rights across the world.
Thanks for link, interesting.

Edited

He had particular views on Islam though, he thought you couldn’t be a proper muslim if you weren’t an arab. He was definitely a believer (though as you said not an islamist, that would be too universal for him, he was a bit of an arab supremacist) . Though the whole blood quaran (he has a quran written in his own blood, most likely mainly other peoples blood) thing was quite dodgy and I imagine most believers would be horrified by that and not sure how that fits with his personal beliefs.

Christmaschristingle · 09/11/2024 17:32

I don't understand the reference to the Bible?
In medieval times the European countries were wedded to Christianity and Catholicism and then protestant and off shoots.
But, we then went through the enlightenment.

We became enlightened and the strangle hold of religion fell away as new ideas and philosophy came to the fore.
Of course many millions of people see themselves as Christian and practise but that all encompassing strangle hold on every moment of life through the state, kings, devine right and so on has gone.

We are ruled by ourselves in a free and democratic way.

We are light years away from this strangle hold in counties that simply haven't been through the enlightenment so trotting out what some evangelical nutters do in some provincial backwater USA town to try and compare to great swathes of fhe middle East seem utterly irrelevant to me??

EasternStandard · 09/11/2024 17:32

DamnUserName21 · 09/11/2024 12:54

I put these examples in response to some PPs on this thread. Westerners like to put Islamic countries in a box as if it's a monolithic, homogenous entity and all Islamic countries are the same. They aren't.

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Ok I think it's useful on any topic to split out the countries as you have

Although I did wonder whether you thought the rights of women and girls were equitable in Islamic countries to western countries?

Taking a pp quote

It worries me that places like Afghanistan, libya, and Iraq are trying to apply more and more restrictions on women and girls liberty. It feels like parts of the world are going backwards.

Do you feel that is the case?