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Where is Kamala?

434 replies

Annabella92 · 06/11/2024 18:30

Just saw this post on X, and I tend to agree...

"Kamala lost as she campaigned - a coward who couldn't face the media, couldn't handle the pressure. Didn't even have the character required to concede on election night. Went home to sulk. The opposite of presidential material."

Really and truly was there nobody with any substance the Democrats could have put forward. What on earth did they expect. The bar was so low.

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Animatic · 06/11/2024 20:11

I don't like either of 2 but to be fair, Kamala was thrown into the deep end with very little time to have a proper campaign, with her party (namely Obamas) giving interviews telling she is the least suitable candidate abd then switching to "she is the best" overnight.

Then having to turn around completely in a matter of 16 weeks and likely having been convinced she would win. It's not easy, esp with such a short preparation.

But Dems deserve what they got, this loss is of their own making.

x2boys · 06/11/2024 20:13

roundsquares · 06/11/2024 20:11

She’s licking her wounds.

The Democrats would have walked the election if they’d fielded a half decent candidate.

They didn’t.

She is poor at deeper discussion, debates and interviews. She did not go through the full process and primaries like other candidates did. She failed to engage with voters who mattered in swing states.

Add that on to the last three and a half years which have been poor for the Democrats and the party themselves making some very questionable decisions (ie picking Biden for a second term in the first place), it was clear for weeks she was going to lose.

I’m shocked so many people thought she was going to win, and not only that, by and landslide.

Regardless of that, she should have came out to address those who were waiting for hours to hear from her last night. I think that was really poor behaviour. We all as humans understand that losing is hurtful, but you need to be made of stronger stuff if you want to be a leader of one of the largest countries in the world.

I never thought she would win
But I did think she was the least worse option.

Takoneko · 06/11/2024 20:13

Bunnycat101 · 06/11/2024 20:08

Thing is though when a sitting prime minister loses an election in this country they have to do a speech pretty quickly outside of their home, often with kids in tow and start the process of transition within hours. Yes it’s different systems but the expected approach is to say something magnanimous and congratulate the opponent even if it stings like hell.

Now the problem is Trump basically got away with insurrection last time. He seems to be held to totally different standards to everyone else. That must sting as well but she can’t do anything about that so she needs to stick to the norms that everyone else is expected to.

But that’s a completely different system and norm. It also only happens after someone has actually won the election. In 2010 Gordon Brown’s speech was 5 days after the election and that was completely normal in those circumstances, as coalition talks had to be completed before anyone had a majority.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 06/11/2024 20:15

MillyMichaelson · 06/11/2024 20:10

@Puzzledandpissedoff they had a thank you party a few nights ago.

They did indeed, MillyMichaelson, but put it this way ... if the incoming results had been going Kamala's way does anyone suppose she'd just have scuttled off and left someone else to suggest the faithful go home?

As PPs have said this is about grace under fire and leadership skills, and to many she'll just be confirming that they did right to reject her

MoanyPony · 06/11/2024 20:19

In practical terms she has a terrible speaking voice. It is weak and high pitched and faint so doesn't convince anyone she is capable of boiling a kettle.

She had, in her favour, an education, experience and the backing of the Obama's. Should have been plenty for a discerning audience.

They were not a discerning audience unfortunately.

AmericanEskimoDoge · 06/11/2024 20:19

It did make her look very weak that she couldn't speak to her supporters last night, I agree. She didn't have to concede then, but she could at least have spoken to them and thanked them for their support. That's what a real leader would do, in my opinion.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 06/11/2024 20:19

EasternStandard · 06/11/2024 20:00

It's a bit of a strange scenario as Biden isn't really together either

Frankly the whole darned thing looks strange to me, EasternStandard, and the fact they hung on to Biden despite his obvious frailty is just one more aspect

If they'd had the sense to act decisively much earlier we probably wouldn't all be having this conversation, but they didn't and here we are

TarantinoIsAMisogynist · 06/11/2024 20:19

Takoneko · 06/11/2024 19:56

This thread is nuts. The last time a concession speech took place on election day was in 2008 and that was very different because that election was called by all news networks by 11pm on election day. In 2012 and 2016 the concession speeches both took place on the Wednesday.

I’d like someone to find me any examples of a US presidential candidate conceding before the news network decision desks called the election. People seem to be suggesting that her completely normal decision to wait until the election was called is somehow unusual. It really isn’t.

Edited

Yes, I wonder why Kamala, a black woman, would be held to a higher standard than those who went before her?

Ilovelifeverymuch · 06/11/2024 20:21

PrincessOlga · 06/11/2024 19:50

Anyone excited for Kamala 2028?!

She's so sweet and I am pretty sure she can win the next primary, as she will have honed her speaking/debating skills pretty well in 2024.

She's not even going to win the Democratic party nomination in 2028 not to talk of win the presidency.

She would have never got the nomination this time if she ran, she only got it because Biden dropped down mid race and they had to scramble to replace him. Obama was reluctant to give her his support for a reason and took about a week before he finally did. There was the conversation that was overheard between Biden and Obama a few weeks ago discussing how she wasn't popular enough.

She performed worse than Biden and Clinton which is saying something, so bad she lost ground in solid blue states like NY and Illinois, yeah she won but lower votes and Trump secured more votes than expected in those states that have been historically blue.

Yeah don't expect her for 2028.

TarantinoIsAMisogynist · 06/11/2024 20:21

Bunnycat101 · 06/11/2024 20:08

Thing is though when a sitting prime minister loses an election in this country they have to do a speech pretty quickly outside of their home, often with kids in tow and start the process of transition within hours. Yes it’s different systems but the expected approach is to say something magnanimous and congratulate the opponent even if it stings like hell.

Now the problem is Trump basically got away with insurrection last time. He seems to be held to totally different standards to everyone else. That must sting as well but she can’t do anything about that so she needs to stick to the norms that everyone else is expected to.

Why on earth are you expecting a US politician, in a US election, to act in accordance with UK political norms with regard to the timing of their concession speech?

Honestly, just listen to yourself!

Viviennemary · 06/11/2024 20:23

She comes over as very lightweight. Now Michelle Obama would have had a really good chance of beating Trump. IMHO. So it's nothing to do with being black or a woman. Folk need to look further for the reasons she lost.

sparklyfox · 06/11/2024 20:24

WinterMorn · 06/11/2024 18:32

What a bitter post. I feel sorry for you.

How is it bitter to critique a senior political figure? Isn't that a democratic right?

HuckleberryBlackcurrant · 06/11/2024 20:25

Can only imagine the reaction if Trump had taken so long to concede defeat. 'He's trying to overthrow democracy!!!!'

Ludoo · 06/11/2024 20:26

Agree, it’s not always about sexism or racism.

SweetBobby · 06/11/2024 20:26

Not surprising at all from her, she is a complete disgrace.

silentwallflower · 06/11/2024 20:26

x2boys · 06/11/2024 18:35

Well at leat she's not trying to suggest the election was rigged and starting riots....

Christ, imagine if this was the other way around, , the national guard were on standby....

TarantinoIsAMisogynist · 06/11/2024 20:26

HuckleberryBlackcurrant · 06/11/2024 20:25

Can only imagine the reaction if Trump had taken so long to concede defeat. 'He's trying to overthrow democracy!!!!'

Except he and his supporters did try to overthrow democracy, didn't they? It's not exactly an unfounded fear? He still hasn't conceded 2020.

freddyfluffball · 06/11/2024 20:27

HuckleberryBlackcurrant · 06/11/2024 20:25

Can only imagine the reaction if Trump had taken so long to concede defeat. 'He's trying to overthrow democracy!!!!'

But that's what he did!

Takoneko · 06/11/2024 20:27

HuckleberryBlackcurrant · 06/11/2024 20:25

Can only imagine the reaction if Trump had taken so long to concede defeat. 'He's trying to overthrow democracy!!!!'

It’s been 4 years and we’re still waiting. 😂😂

Dweetfidilove · 06/11/2024 20:28

Maybe she's treating Trump with the same contempt he's treated her. He declared himself winner before the election was even called, so I doubt he cares about her urgency or lack thereof.

roundsquares · 06/11/2024 20:28

I think we also need to discuss Tim Walz as her running mate as well.

I don’t think he was a good choice especially as this election was always going to be decided in Penn.

JD Vance wiped the floor with him in the debates. He seems like a nice guy but being a nice guy isn’t the criteria for VP.

silentwallflower · 06/11/2024 20:28

HuckleberryBlackcurrant · 06/11/2024 20:25

Can only imagine the reaction if Trump had taken so long to concede defeat. 'He's trying to overthrow democracy!!!!'

He did when Biden won...he still does and incited a riot, I'm assuming you're being ironic...

dottiehens · 06/11/2024 20:29

x2boys · 06/11/2024 18:35

Well at leat she's not trying to suggest the election was rigged and starting riots....

Well that would be ridiculous with a landslide.

MillyMichaelson · 06/11/2024 20:31

@Puzzledandpissedoff oh stop it. People who just gave up months of their lives for a cause they believed in, are in no mood to party when they lose to an actual misogynist facist.

Be sensible will ya instead of picking holes in the perfectly normal actions of the losing candidate.

dottiehens · 06/11/2024 20:32

MillyMichaelson · 06/11/2024 20:31

@Puzzledandpissedoff oh stop it. People who just gave up months of their lives for a cause they believed in, are in no mood to party when they lose to an actual misogynist facist.

Be sensible will ya instead of picking holes in the perfectly normal actions of the losing candidate.

I thought it was said he was scare of her? The narrative changes but always vitriolic. Just accept the results and move on.

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