I saw that thread and I also thought that it was bad. That thread would be extremely unusual on mumsnet. And i noiced it because of that. And I wouldn't associate with that poster either.
You don't joke about sexual assault or murder.
Raise your bar!
If someone jokes about raping you, is it funny?
Most people wouldn't associate with someone who jokes about rape. I saw an article recently about sexual harassment. It was written by a man. He was trying to urge other men to stand up to the men that do it.
He said he was sitting in a bar and a man beside him nodded at the waitress and said
"look at her tits, I'd do seven years for her".
And the first man said what do you mean
And the second man said "seven years is the most youd get for rape in jail isn't it. I'd rape her for 7 years. I would definitely do it. Raping her would be worth it". And he laughed.
The first man said he was horrified and told him not to joke about rape