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To be so disappointed in people - Trump voters especially

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notsorighteousthesedays · 06/11/2024 06:43

I feel absolutely stunned that despite all that has been said and done Trump is likely to get the chance to make the world burn a little faster.

I am afraid for a future so full of anger and hate.

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ExtraOnions · 06/11/2024 10:33

AlecTrevelyan006 · 06/11/2024 10:28

Western civilisation is based on (in the main) Greek & Roman societeal principles.

Democracy comes from the Greek Demos.

Popularism come from the Roman Populus.

Both mean the same thing. Of the people.

The commentators on TV & radio getting upset that the ‘wrong’ candidate has won exemplify the issue.

Much like the surprise of Brexit it turns out ‘the people’ don’t think like University graduates who work in the media.

We need both main political parties in this country & the US to start actually taking people’s views seriously and not rubbishing everything that doesn’t chime with their ‘progressive’ world view as ignorant, far-right, bigoted or wrong headed.

Not a fan of Boris, Farage or Trump, but they cut through because they don’t treat 50% of the electorate like your racist drunken uncle at a family wedding.

Edited

True … they peddle easy soundbites for complicated problems, with no real solutions.

Luckily for us Farage had little actual power in this country - the nonsense he peddled about Brexit was enough .. half-truths and outright lies.

ItsFunToBeAVampire · 06/11/2024 10:33

To the poster who said that the election wasn't won/lost on trans issues -

Directly - no
Indirectly - yes.

As soon as someone comes out and says something as silly as men can be women, I doubt every single other thing they say.
I won't be the only one who thinks that if someone can lie or pretend to believe that, then they can't be trusted on other issues.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 06/11/2024 10:34

He seems to have won the popular vote across all demographics so her race and gender can’t be the only reason

I'm confident it isn't, @Combattingthemoaners, but then the alleged bias falls apart when we consider folks' insistence - probably justified - that Michelle Obama could have won

So much easier though to wave the racism/misogyny flag than to look at what really went wrong

Whatafustercluck · 06/11/2024 10:34

Onley · 06/11/2024 10:20

This democrat = good, republican = bad cliche is exceedingly reductive and silly.

Was it a republican who significantly increased the use of drone strikes in countries like Pakistan, Yemen, and Somalia?

Was it a republican who had the moniker “Deporter in Chief” for their record number of deportations?

No, that was all OBAMA. The demi god we all expected to worship. Carry on believing everything the media tells you.

It’s scary how gullible and uninformed most people are.

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That's not what people here are saying though, is it? There have been good and bad republican and democrat presidents. Just as there have been good and bad Labour and Tory PMs. Most occupy the centre ground. I'm not a supporter of Conservative policies, and have never voted Conservative. But until the Brexit fiasco, I was prepared to think that Cameron, as a moderate, was an OK PM. Likewise, I should think that many republicans will concede to Obama having been a good president, even if they didn't agree with his policies. What people here are saying is that Trump is abhorrent, an innately shitty individual as well as as a convicted criminal. We had similar in Johnson, of course, and when people called out just what a nefarious and incompetent PM he was, they were accused of 'othering' and 'shutting down' Tory voters. No, he was just a terrible, awful, despicable human 'in charge of' a country. I prefer world leaders to have some redeeming qualities, whatever their political flavour.

Onley · 06/11/2024 10:34

biscuitandcake · 06/11/2024 10:28

Trump was responsible for more drone strikes than Obama (technically he removed the need for white house approval for strikes leading to a much less restricted approach). So its not a democrat/republican issue. besides which, I don't think you can categorise it as a Democrat hating on Republican issue because whether you like or not, Trump's party is not like the normal Republican party. So the discussion is very different.

And Obama increased the use of drones by a factor of 10 in comparison to Bush.

But the media minimise that and continue to uphold Obama as this infallible figure.

NigelHarmansNewWife · 06/11/2024 10:34

Unfortunately a lot of voters seem to have bought the line that US economic woes were due to the Democrat government rather than the geopolitical landscape. Add to that a number of missteps by the incumbent government. The Democratic Party didn't have a plan B if Biden didn't run and left it too late to make Harris their candidate. Trump is a vile, self-serving criminal and I am worried about the impact of his foreign policy on the rest of the world. I remember the relief when he was no longer president.

thepariscrimefiles · 06/11/2024 10:35

IMBCRound2 · 06/11/2024 10:06

sorry bit too emotional -will try edit it to be more clear - I meant trump who will undoubtedly end escalating the wars in Gaza and Ukraine and people dying as a result, climate change being denied and worsening climate crisis, that utter nut job being in charge of vaccination programmes and children dying of entirely preventable illnesses, refugees dying crossing the border, abolition of LGTBQIA* rights which we know will lead to increase in suicide and self harm in the community….

if I could single handily bring back Roe v Wade, I would. I can’t believe there will be so many children growing up without their mummies because they couldn’t access healthcare.

Thanks for clarifying. I completely agree with you.

MrsSkylerWhite · 06/11/2024 10:36

fluffy71 · Today 10:33

Riapia · Today 07:23
I was surprised when Trump won in 2016. Well, now he’s done it again.
Never underestimate the stupidity of so many people.

How condescending

Just stating the obvious.

Another2Cats · 06/11/2024 10:36

summershere99 · 06/11/2024 09:01

None of that is to do with her as a candidate - that's poor campaign strategy and due to the fact she was very late to the race.

But other PPs have said the Dems need a better candidate .. and I too would like to know what people mean by that? It feels like there is an undercurrent, of 'better candidate' = old white man.

"But other PPs have said the Dems need a better candidate .. and I too would like to know what people mean by that? It feels like there is an undercurrent, of 'better candidate' = old white man."

I wouldn't say that at all. If they had put up somebody like Gretchen Whitmer (Michigan Governor) or Josh Shapiro (Pennsylvania Governor) or Wes Moore (Maryland Governor) I think they would have stood a much better chance.

OK, yes, one of those is a white man. But none are particularly old, they're in their early 50s or late 40s now so will still be in their 50s in four years time. I wouldn't call mid/late 50s "old".

RoosterRed1 · 06/11/2024 10:36

I don’t think it’s as simple as people are awful/idiots for voting for Trump @notsorighteousthesedays

  1. Biden should have announced one term only early on. There would’ve been time to find and embed a good candidate - instead of throwing Kamala in at the last minute - especially when she has zero personality - speaking as someone so excited for the first female president I’ve barely made it through her speeches.

  2. calling people who support Trump Nazi’s and Racist’s etc was never going to sway people to the democrats if they were undecided.

  3. women’s rights are about more than access to abortion. Women’s rights are being completely trampled over by the democrats in favour of a small group of trans people. Children’s rights to a healthy childhood also massively at risk. As a parent, why would I vote for a party who agree that I shouldn’t be informed if my child is ‘changing gender’ - a stepping stone to infertility and ill health, needless operations and a life of medication in a perfectly healthy child (Gavin Newsom).

Swivelhead · 06/11/2024 10:37

It amazes me that anyone in Europe still thinks Obama was great when every day we are living with the catastrophic effects of the US destruction of Libya alone... let alone all their other lucrative and immoral wars

Toomanysquishmallows · 06/11/2024 10:37

@ItsFunToBeAVampire , I felt that to a degree about the British Labour Party. If they can lie that a man can be a woman, what else will they lie about ?

Gman0206 · 06/11/2024 10:37

Backwoods57 · 06/11/2024 07:02

Brit in the US:

Over the past 10 years the liberal's have shut down friendly political debate. If you are not a Democrat you are automatically shot down as being a Nazi supporter. This obviously has upset a majority. However they have just kept quiet and nodded along to maintain friendships, saving their true views for the privacy of the voting booth.

You cannot win thoughts and minds by shouting them down and demonizing them.

^THIS SO MUCH^

I'm not American but even in the UK, every single workplace I've worked in I've had to smile and nod along to lefties and remainers who would have ripped your throat open if you expressed even a moderate, non-far left opinion, and that was the acceptable norm. It seems the only voice that people have anymore is the one in the voting booth, and recent elections in both UK and US (albeit labour still won in the UK) have shown that.

Veryoldandtired · 06/11/2024 10:37

bulb34 · 06/11/2024 10:24

Why would he? He seized Crimea in 2014 and if he wins now he will go on to expand his messianic vision of Imperial Russia.

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Only if you believe that it was an act of senseless aggression. Truth is, Ukrainian and Russian history is very deeply nuanced and intertwined. Putin has his own agenda yes, it doesn’t make it right to invade a sovereign country - no. However, Russia doesn’t have an appetite or resources to go past that point… the have to bring North Korea army at this point?!? Putin has been warning NATO for ages not to get too close to Russia’s borders. It’s a different topic altogether though about what happens on the world arena. However fact is, if you look at Putin’s actions he’s far from a mad man BBC is making him sound as. He’s very well educated, poised and calculated. None of his actions in the past suggest that he’s dreaming of Imperialist Russia. He wants it to have a say in the world politics, because the big boys in the G8 summit don’t want to share … but then, I digress… basically, no need to panic just yet. A dog that barks doesn’t bite .. or whatever the saying is

Onley · 06/11/2024 10:37

Whatafustercluck · 06/11/2024 10:34

That's not what people here are saying though, is it? There have been good and bad republican and democrat presidents. Just as there have been good and bad Labour and Tory PMs. Most occupy the centre ground. I'm not a supporter of Conservative policies, and have never voted Conservative. But until the Brexit fiasco, I was prepared to think that Cameron, as a moderate, was an OK PM. Likewise, I should think that many republicans will concede to Obama having been a good president, even if they didn't agree with his policies. What people here are saying is that Trump is abhorrent, an innately shitty individual as well as as a convicted criminal. We had similar in Johnson, of course, and when people called out just what a nefarious and incompetent PM he was, they were accused of 'othering' and 'shutting down' Tory voters. No, he was just a terrible, awful, despicable human 'in charge of' a country. I prefer world leaders to have some redeeming qualities, whatever their political flavour.

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Plenty of people consider Republicans and Fascists to be synonymous. The discourse is so toxic and tribalistic.

CaveMum · 06/11/2024 10:38

DoraGray · 06/11/2024 10:16

I'm confused that so many posters are calling America a racist misogynist country and that that is a factor in why Harris didn't win.

How can this be so? America has had a black female vice president and of the two people on the ticket to become the next president,, one of them was a black woman.

If the country hates women and blacks, how was this allowed to happen?

People don’t vote for the bottom of the ticket. They weren’t voting for Harris to be VP, they voted for Biden (white, male, old) to be President.

No one cares about the VP, to paraphrase fictional VP John Hoynes - a VPs only constitutional duty is to have a pulse.

AnonymousBleep · 06/11/2024 10:38

Puzzledandpissedoff · 06/11/2024 10:34

He seems to have won the popular vote across all demographics so her race and gender can’t be the only reason

I'm confident it isn't, @Combattingthemoaners, but then the alleged bias falls apart when we consider folks' insistence - probably justified - that Michelle Obama could have won

So much easier though to wave the racism/misogyny flag than to look at what really went wrong

It's obviously more nuanced that just race and gender, but they certainly were factors. I'm sure the fact she's a woman of colour would have helped Trump amp up his anti-immigration rhetoric and made it more believable that Harris would just have let all the immigrants in, as he claimed. It's the classic thing of right wing populists making sure their working and middle class voters are punching down instead of looking upwards at who's punching THEM down.

But he was also obviously voted for as the chaos candidate, and because he's essentially built up a cult around him - and because the Democrats, for unknown reasons, didn't field anywhere near good enough candidates in Biden or Harris.

lifeturnsonadime · 06/11/2024 10:39

AnotherChildFreeCatLady · 06/11/2024 10:24

I would say the one who is anti woman is the one supporting the person who wants to eradicate female reproductive rights, and that sounds like you. Please continue to spout off these non issues that have no impact on your life while supporting policies that will ruin a lot of women's lives for the worse and keep talking about how other women are anti woman. Any woman who supported Trump is either vile or stupid, end of.

I support abortion rights.

I find it hypocritical of the Democrats that they have claimed to be the great saviour of abortion rights when they didn't care about them enough to keep previous election promises of Obama to codify them. The fact that Roe v Wade was vulnerable to be overturned by Trump stacking the Senate was known yet it wasn't seen as a important enough. But don't let that ruin your narrative.

The Democrats in the run up to this election used Abortion rights that they haven't cared enough about in the past as the 'women's rights issue' whilst fawning over men who claim a stereotypical and offensive version of 'woman hood', ruining women's sport, and calling eveyone who reasonably objects bigots.

It is a lie to claim that the Democrats are the saviours of women's right.

Obviously the Republicans are at least as bad.

Calling women who recognise these issues and who have their own reasons to vote Trump vile and stupid plays right into his hands.

Stop being so self righteous and start engaging your brain and thinking critically.

biscuitandcake · 06/11/2024 10:40

Onley · 06/11/2024 10:34

And Obama increased the use of drones by a factor of 10 in comparison to Bush.

But the media minimise that and continue to uphold Obama as this infallible figure.

Right, but my point wasn't that Obama was a saintly individual. Bush - starts bombing; Obama - increases bombing; Trump - removes oversight from bombing meaning people can do whatever; Biden - brings Whitehouse oversight back. Reduces bombing. All good/bad depending on how you spin it. But the criticism of Trump isn't the same as the criticisms usually levelled at Republicans because he isn't like them. Also - are deportations good or bad? Kamala Harris was bad because there weren't enough, but Obama is no saint because he did too many. Its not a concrete line of attack, Its just grievance.

thepariscrimefiles · 06/11/2024 10:41

Drfosters · 06/11/2024 10:19

They voted for him because he has policies they preferred! In the end that is what matters!

Apart from tax cuts for billionaires, huge tariffs, and mass deportations on day 1, what are his policies? I've listened to his speeches at his rallies and I am none the wiser.

MuchuseasaChocolateTeapot · 06/11/2024 10:41

casepoint · 06/11/2024 07:04

I'm not a trump supporter, but isn't it best that we stay out of the Ukraine conflict now ? We are just asking for trouble by staying in it. I don't want to get nuked.

First they came for…..
be careful what you ‘stay out’ of

bulb34 · 06/11/2024 10:41

Veryoldandtired · 06/11/2024 10:37

Only if you believe that it was an act of senseless aggression. Truth is, Ukrainian and Russian history is very deeply nuanced and intertwined. Putin has his own agenda yes, it doesn’t make it right to invade a sovereign country - no. However, Russia doesn’t have an appetite or resources to go past that point… the have to bring North Korea army at this point?!? Putin has been warning NATO for ages not to get too close to Russia’s borders. It’s a different topic altogether though about what happens on the world arena. However fact is, if you look at Putin’s actions he’s far from a mad man BBC is making him sound as. He’s very well educated, poised and calculated. None of his actions in the past suggest that he’s dreaming of Imperialist Russia. He wants it to have a say in the world politics, because the big boys in the G8 summit don’t want to share … but then, I digress… basically, no need to panic just yet. A dog that barks doesn’t bite .. or whatever the saying is

Read your own post and give your head a wobble.

Lentilweaver · 06/11/2024 10:42

Onley · 06/11/2024 10:37

Plenty of people consider Republicans and Fascists to be synonymous. The discourse is so toxic and tribalistic.

I try not to. But it's hard when Trump is claiming that immigrants are dining on dogs and cats. As an immigrant in this country, and with immigrant family in the US, I have seen how this kind of demonisation works.

Having said that many immigrants and minorities have voted for Trump. Because he focused on the economy and perhaps because they don't want to feel like victims.

CaveMum · 06/11/2024 10:43

If anyone has a spare 30 mins I’d recommend the latest TRIP US which was recorded as PA was called for Trump.

Whilst both Katty Kay and Mooch have always been clear that they supported Harris, they are critical of the way the Dems ran the campaign and acknowledge that Trump is a great campaigner.

https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-rest-is-politics-us/id1743030473?i=1000675875360

DONALD TRUMP WINS

DONALD TRUMP WINS

Podcast Episode · The Rest Is Politics: US · 06/11/2024 · 25m

https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-rest-is-politics-us/id1743030473?i=1000675875360

casepoint · 06/11/2024 10:44

@MuchuseasaChocolateTeapot how about we get involved if they actually come for us though ?

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