Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To worry about sweets from trick or treating…

276 replies

Backtoblack87 · 29/10/2024 22:38

Just had a horrible thought… when we go trick or treating, what if we are given dodgy sweets? I mean I know it isn’t likely but unless you know everyone you go to, how can you guarantee they aren’t giving your kid drugs?! Does this worry anyone else?!

OP posts:
Thread gallery
7
GiveMeAbitOfSugar · 30/10/2024 00:34

This reply has been deleted

This has been deleted by MNHQ for breaking our Talk Guidelines.

What a bizarre thing to say

Its fine if you dont believe me, it was early 90’s and people did and still do give crisps sometimes

Alottodoaboutssomething · 30/10/2024 00:34

This reply has been deleted

This has been deleted by MNHQ for breaking our Talk Guidelines.

They did in the 90s, not seen this in today's world though, I guess you always get one or two who run out of sweets...

Ponderingwindow · 30/10/2024 00:40

There are no guarantees. It’s still a low risk activity if you take some basic precautions. Stick to you own neighborhood. Don’t eat anything in a torn or damaged package.

Don’t eat homemade items from someone you don’t know extremely well. If you would have a home baked treat from your next door neighbors house any other day of the year, it is still fine on Halloween.

hamsterchump · 30/10/2024 00:41

GiveMeAbitOfSugar · 30/10/2024 00:33

No! It happened to me (Not sure it was drugs but something was put in the packet and the packet resealed

Why are people so disbelieving on something that can happen

Edited

What do you think was put in the packet? What alerted you to there being something foreign added?

TheHangingGardensOfBasildon · 30/10/2024 00:41

MrsChumleyWarner · 29/10/2024 23:45

I worried about the quality, age etc of sweets given to my girls when trick or treating. I let my kids do it, kept the sweets from family and friends and binned the rest.

That's a good point, actually.

If folk have been clearing all the old, out-of-date and/or slightly questionable foods out of the pantry: the tins and jars go to school for the harvest festival and all the sweets and chocolates get given out at Hallowe'en!

Wn38475 · 30/10/2024 00:41

Only go to houses you know.

when my kids were little, we did a couple of neighbours who had pumpkins out. These days, I don’t put a pumpkin out and keep the house dark.

people do weird stuff, some are unhinged. I think OP’s thought is reasonable. Some are goign to be giving out of date stuff etc. Cost of living argument in this situation is bull - it costs nothing to have your lights off and not have a pumpkin out.

Toddlertantrums222 · 30/10/2024 00:44

JC03745 · 29/10/2024 22:50

I always find it bizarre that people think its normal for children to go begging at strangers homes and accept sweets on 1 day of the year, yet no other!
I doubt they'd bother sharing their drug supply, but stick to friends/neighbours you know rather than randoms.

Exactly this! Knocking on a strangers door and asking for sweets is very strange.

TheHangingGardensOfBasildon · 30/10/2024 00:44

I do wonder if most of these allegations are basically "My 6yo ate 74 individual bags of Haribo in the space of two hours and then felt really unwell all night... must have been laced with drugs!"

Superworm24 · 30/10/2024 00:44

Ah yes. My neighbours, brothers, cousin got given sweets with razor blades inside. And a friend of a friend was given LSD.

GiveMeAbitOfSugar · 30/10/2024 00:45

hamsterchump · 30/10/2024 00:41

What do you think was put in the packet? What alerted you to there being something foreign added?

I dont know,
I was about 11/12

I noticed the top of the packet wasnt easy to open , and when i did manage to open the packet, it had a blue liquid over the crisps

Me & friend thought it was weird and just put them in the bin
I dont think we told an adult

PyongyangKipperbang · 30/10/2024 00:46

I think it is extremely unlikely.

I mean do a bit of critical thinking....

What would be the gain of the person doing it?

Given that they wouldnt see the results of giving kids drugs "for a laugh", given that kids go T&Ting with parents and in groups they wouldnt be able to abduct or assault them. Given that any drugs given in sweets would be easily traced by who had them, in what area and from which houses they visited, they would be caught very easily so a massive risk.

So no gain whatsoever and a huge risk. So no, it wouldnt cross my mind, or it never did until tonight and now it never will again.

SouthLondonMum22 · 30/10/2024 00:46

Toddlertantrums222 · 30/10/2024 00:44

Exactly this! Knocking on a strangers door and asking for sweets is very strange.

It isn't if there are decorations which means you're invited to knock. It's a bit of community spirit, it's a shame that some people are so down on it.

hamsterchump · 30/10/2024 00:48

GiveMeAbitOfSugar · 30/10/2024 00:45

I dont know,
I was about 11/12

I noticed the top of the packet wasnt easy to open , and when i did manage to open the packet, it had a blue liquid over the crisps

Me & friend thought it was weird and just put them in the bin
I dont think we told an adult

Isn't it just as likely it was some kind of manufacturing fault or accident rather than intentional? Was it those crisps with that little packet of salt in, weren't they blue? Maybe water got in and mixed with the dye? Or I remember Walkers did a promotion where you'd sometimes find a blue packet with a fiver or a voucher for free crisps in it so maybe something to do with that.

I've never heard of any blue drugs.

hamsterchump · 30/10/2024 00:49

Superworm24 · 30/10/2024 00:44

Ah yes. My neighbours, brothers, cousin got given sweets with razor blades inside. And a friend of a friend was given LSD.

Don't knock it, razor blades and LSD are expensive.

HerBloodIsLikeLiquidFire · 30/10/2024 00:49

It's DD's last year trick or treating (12, soon to be 13).
From being a toddler taken out to trick or treat I've gone through everything she's received every year. Never had any problem. Always only went to lit up houses with decorations outside. Sometimes we'd get the odd few things like an opened packet of half eaten sweets (bin). Some have given coppers instead of sweets (went into money box). I've never had a bad experience with her.

PyongyangKipperbang · 30/10/2024 00:50

SouthLondonMum22 · 30/10/2024 00:46

It isn't if there are decorations which means you're invited to knock. It's a bit of community spirit, it's a shame that some people are so down on it.

Not all of us agree with trick or treating for our own reasons. Just because you like it and I dont doesnt mean that I am "down on it". You do you and I will do me.

MidnightMeltdown · 30/10/2024 00:53

VeryGoodVeryNice · 29/10/2024 22:41

Christ. There’s a COL crisis. No one is going to be giving away free drugs to kids.

This is next level paranoia OP, are you ok?

It's happened before. It's usually by accident. I remember it being in the news one year that a man gave kids cocaine!

Also, I know it's the US but...

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11349057/Experts-warn-parents-against-trick-treating-spike-drugs-hidden-wrappers.html

Honestly, I'd never let kids go knocking on random in a stranger's doors asking for stuff.

SouthLondonMum22 · 30/10/2024 00:55

PyongyangKipperbang · 30/10/2024 00:50

Not all of us agree with trick or treating for our own reasons. Just because you like it and I dont doesnt mean that I am "down on it". You do you and I will do me.

But if someone gives a reason why they don't like it then obviously others who do like it are going to respond.

It means that you are down on it to me. Once a year some people come together as a community to make small children smile and have fun but it is often reduced to 'begging' and other nonsense.

thirdfiddle · 30/10/2024 00:59

I noticed the top of the packet wasnt easy to open , and when i did manage to open the packet, it had a blue liquid over the crisps

Could have been just blue food colouring or slime. Someone's idea of playing a "hilarious" trick on the trick or treaters. Like DH putting the odd sprout in with the sweets.

PodgePie · 30/10/2024 00:59

In what world do drug dealers give their stash away for free? And where on earth do you live that you have this assumption about your neighbours?

Shoppedatwoolworths · 30/10/2024 01:00

TheDowagerCountessofPembroke · 29/10/2024 23:24

Does it? I don’t recall it being on the news.

Yes. Someone once stuffed a razor blade into a chocolate bar. Someone else put glass shards in sweets. Someone “accidentally” gave some children paracetamol instead of candy. Someone else “accidentally” gave children his stash of cocaine. And it has been in the news, a quick google will also show that this is something that has been ongoing for years across multiple different countries. Although it’s highly, highly unlikely it’ll happen, it doesn’t mean it won’t. So ridiculing the OP for having an awareness that some people are just horrendous individuals to children, or denying this doesn’t happen isn’t really helpful when all she’s trying to do is raise awareness and be cautious.

bendigedigg · 30/10/2024 01:00

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/RonaldClarkk_O%27Bryan

One of the only documented cases of poisoned sweeties at Halloween was by Ronald Clark in the US he poisoned 4 sherbet stick things and pretended he got them from a different door. Gave 2 to his kids and 2 to their friends who didn't eat them. He made his son eat one and he died of cyanide poisoning but it was him who poisoned him and he did it for life insurance. Police rounded up the other 2 who Ronald gave to his kids friends and their parents had binned them as they were obviously opened.

All the halloweeen poisoning stories are based on this man who is now dead and has been for
Over 40 yrs.

I think 99.9999999% of Halloween sweets are fine and might just cause sickness if eaten in too many quantities!!

hamsterchump · 30/10/2024 01:02

Shoppedatwoolworths · 30/10/2024 01:00

Yes. Someone once stuffed a razor blade into a chocolate bar. Someone else put glass shards in sweets. Someone “accidentally” gave some children paracetamol instead of candy. Someone else “accidentally” gave children his stash of cocaine. And it has been in the news, a quick google will also show that this is something that has been ongoing for years across multiple different countries. Although it’s highly, highly unlikely it’ll happen, it doesn’t mean it won’t. So ridiculing the OP for having an awareness that some people are just horrendous individuals to children, or denying this doesn’t happen isn’t really helpful when all she’s trying to do is raise awareness and be cautious.

Got any sources? It is harmful because it's just fear mongering and contributes to our ridiculously anxious society especially when it comes to our children. Children may be more protected than ever physically but their mental health is in the toilet.

Shoppedatwoolworths · 30/10/2024 01:07

PyongyangKipperbang · 30/10/2024 00:46

I think it is extremely unlikely.

I mean do a bit of critical thinking....

What would be the gain of the person doing it?

Given that they wouldnt see the results of giving kids drugs "for a laugh", given that kids go T&Ting with parents and in groups they wouldnt be able to abduct or assault them. Given that any drugs given in sweets would be easily traced by who had them, in what area and from which houses they visited, they would be caught very easily so a massive risk.

So no gain whatsoever and a huge risk. So no, it wouldnt cross my mind, or it never did until tonight and now it never will again.

Unfortunately some people are just malicious and don’t need to gain anything from being spiteful. In Brisbane, close to where I live, a mum was pushing her 9 month old baby in a pram through a park and some random man just walked up to them and poured scalding hot coffee over the baby before walking off. He didn’t gain anything from that. They were strangers to him, their paths had never crossed.

I know last year in Melbourne children who were trick or treating were given lollies with tiny shards of glass in them. Again, what was there to gain from that? Police acknowledged that this was becoming more common.

Toddlers trick or treating with their parents were given bags of pick and mix lollies containing paracetamol in the UK when I lived there.

Some people are c@nts, they’re just horrible and don’t always need a reason or something to gain, they’re just wired different…

hamsterchump · 30/10/2024 01:08

MidnightMeltdown · 30/10/2024 00:53

It's happened before. It's usually by accident. I remember it being in the news one year that a man gave kids cocaine!

Also, I know it's the US but...

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11349057/Experts-warn-parents-against-trick-treating-spike-drugs-hidden-wrappers.html

Honestly, I'd never let kids go knocking on random in a stranger's doors asking for stuff.

That doesn't include any instance of a child being given a harmful substance in Halloween sweets.

Of course the Daily Mail are going to print anything sensationalist and fear mongering!

Drug dealers tend to be quite protective of their drugs for obvious reasons.

I know people think that sharing this kind of thing doesn't do any harm and is just being safe but your kids see you doing this and talking about this and they get the message that the world is a really dangerous place and that random strangers are just always out to get them and that is just not good for them or their mental health growing up. And this isn't even based on any legitimate fear! Don't go looking for new, made up things to be anxious about!

Swipe left for the next trending thread