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To hope that Donald Trump doesn’t win the election

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RosaMoline · 21/10/2024 16:05

….it’s getting closer.
I was hoping that Kamala would be a shoo-in for the presidency, but looking at the betting odds, I’m feeling quite pessimistic.
It’s incomprehensible to me that a convicted felon, racist, rapist, liar and misogynist who spurred on an insurrection - after everything that’s happened - is running for office again and may very well win.
It’s comforting to read though that fellow Brits DON’T support him.
Apart from Reform. Obviously.
yougov.co.uk/politics/articles/50752-who-did-britons-want-to-win-the-2024-us-presidential-election

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BustingBaoBun · 28/10/2024 15:21

I posted this on another thread... but this is the path Trump will be taking to overturn the election if the result is close.

https://www.politico.com/news/magazine/2024/10/20/trump-overturn-2024-election-plan-00184103

AvidAunt · 28/10/2024 15:38

floral2027 · 26/10/2024 17:04

My family member wants him to win and she is an immigrant in the usa waiting on her spouse visa (she overstayed her esta, but is married to an American so it is a route though one with long waiting times and theoretically anything can happen).

She really likes vance and thinks kamala is a disaster. Her dh earns barely anything as a realtor and they have a young child (so need to pay nursery fees). She works remotely but can't drive or find a us job because of the visa situation.

If she and her family can support trump (she can't vote but her dh can and the whole family is voting trump despite presumably wanting her to stay in the usa), I don't see why anyone else wouldn't vote trump if they got it in their heads.

I think trump will win. It's not about facts anymore, ifs about the vibes

I'm American and that's interesting to hear. Being a realtor is a tough job in the US; typically there is no salary and compensation is completely based on commission. Few people that try to go into that field stay long term for that reason. Democratic leaders have historically pushed for higher tax credits for childcare and Democratic cities typically have more free childcare options through the public school systems. It will also be easier to get a green card under a Democratic president. On the flip side, my husband and I have friends from the UK who are here for work and are panicked to complete the green card process ASAP in fear of Trump getting elected and the process stalling/becoming more complicated.

I wish your family member and her family the best. This election cycle has become an especially stressful time for all of us on this side of the pond.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 28/10/2024 16:11

AvidAunt · 28/10/2024 15:38

I'm American and that's interesting to hear. Being a realtor is a tough job in the US; typically there is no salary and compensation is completely based on commission. Few people that try to go into that field stay long term for that reason. Democratic leaders have historically pushed for higher tax credits for childcare and Democratic cities typically have more free childcare options through the public school systems. It will also be easier to get a green card under a Democratic president. On the flip side, my husband and I have friends from the UK who are here for work and are panicked to complete the green card process ASAP in fear of Trump getting elected and the process stalling/becoming more complicated.

I wish your family member and her family the best. This election cycle has become an especially stressful time for all of us on this side of the pond.

I wouldn’t be worried that the immigration process would get more difficult or complicated. The big changes the Republicans want to see is for the illegal immigrants crossing. They want to end the catch and release getting lost in the US way of doing things. The legal immigration routes didn’t get any more difficult in Trump’s first term there is no reason to think it would a second term.

Now the person who overstayed their Visa/ESTA on the other hand may find some trouble in the future.

TooBigForMyBoots · 28/10/2024 17:03

GoodGollyMsMolly · 27/10/2024 23:09

Interesting how many people here think minority or LGBT will automatically vote for Kamala. It is quite condescending, like y'all think we are brainless and you need to tell us what to think and also being very rude about it. Soon, I'll be called a right wingerwhen I'm a minority who lived the best part of my adult life in the states, I graduated from the most liberal University. I don't like either candidates (can't believe out of so many smart Americans with moral compass we end up with these two), but if I have to choose, I hope he wins. I don't like her not because she's a woman, it's because she's literally so empty and dumb. If the Democrats had nominated Michelle Obama, I might consider backing them even though I still disagree with many of their ideologies.

Waiting for rude reply 😂

Oh stop with the "I know what y'all think and you are/ you are just going to be mean to me"😭😭😭 nonsense. Climb off your imaginary cross @GoodGollyMsMolly, there's better things to do with the wood.🙄

XChrome · 28/10/2024 18:18

BustingBaoBun · 28/10/2024 15:21

I posted this on another thread... but this is the path Trump will be taking to overturn the election if the result is close.

https://www.politico.com/news/magazine/2024/10/20/trump-overturn-2024-election-plan-00184103

Scary! Thanks for the article.

MrTiddlesTheCat · 28/10/2024 18:22

I really don't warm to Kamala at all. But I'd vote for her a 100 times over when the alternative is Donald Trump.

OonaStubbs · 28/10/2024 18:38

Forget about anything else. It's about the economy, stupid. Americans will vote for the candidate that they think will give them more dollars in their pockets.

TooBigForMyBoots · 28/10/2024 19:46

OonaStubbs · 26/10/2024 20:05

I honestly don't care who wins, I just want it to be over. I am sick of hearing people arguing about it.

So why click on this thread?Confused

ToWhitToWhoo · 28/10/2024 20:04

saltinesandcoffeecups · 27/10/2024 20:22

As long as you keep an open mind about things 🤣

I keep an open mind about lots of things. Just not about fascists.

roaringmouse · 28/10/2024 20:42

WorthyMauveEagle · 28/10/2024 14:09

why are trans people so threatening? Does someone else's gender really affect people so much? It's like the people who are homophobic, the only reason to care about what other people do in the bedroom is bc people aren't secure with their own sexuality. It's more of a them problem really.

The answer to your question "Does someone else's gender really affect people so much" I would say both yes, and no.

I don't think most people consider individual trans people to be threatening, although the competitive female swimmer Riley Gaines might disagree, given her reported experience of having to repeatedly share a swim changing room with Lia Thomas, who had fully intact male genitals.

Individuals should be free to define their identities as they wish. However, alongside this, it’s crucial to maintain definitions based on biological sex —specifically 'male' and 'female'— in law and policy.

These definitions are essential to preserving protections, provisions and opportunities for women and girls, which have impact on daily experiences, safety, and fairness. This includes areas such as womens' prisons, rape crisis centres, sports categories, healthcare, and girls' education to name a few.

izimbra · 28/10/2024 21:10

Anyone just watch Panorama?

Brinny · 28/10/2024 23:25

TooBigForMyBoots · 28/10/2024 17:03

Oh stop with the "I know what y'all think and you are/ you are just going to be mean to me"😭😭😭 nonsense. Climb off your imaginary cross @GoodGollyMsMolly, there's better things to do with the wood.🙄

Ok all politicians wether its the U.K or U S A, can't be trusted ,say one thing in their manifesto yet do the opposite, but one thing is clear the dumbest politician I have ever heard is Trump, cringe worthy fact , great leader fake news , he is in it for personal glorification, yet no one can see it, he us not God or a chosen one ,he is a man with a mouth that the only thing that comes out of it is verbal dioreah, his henchman are always mopping up his verbal mistakes, if he wins they will need larger mops and buckets.

biscuitandcake · 28/10/2024 23:49

@Brinny if he wins the infighting will begin (I don't think vance, Trump and musk actually like each other) and every single day will be dominated by another bat shit crazy news story. And you won't be able to escape it because American politics is reported everywhere (for understandable reasons. But go to Timbctoo and people know who the Simpsons are) Even if you somehow made it to space, there Musk would be egging on the aliens to civil war.

Brinny · 28/10/2024 23:54

biscuitandcake · 28/10/2024 23:49

@Brinny if he wins the infighting will begin (I don't think vance, Trump and musk actually like each other) and every single day will be dominated by another bat shit crazy news story. And you won't be able to escape it because American politics is reported everywhere (for understandable reasons. But go to Timbctoo and people know who the Simpsons are) Even if you somehow made it to space, there Musk would be egging on the aliens to civil war.

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Your so right , they will tear each other apart, my other half who has friend 's in US A have and believe as soon as he wins they will impeech him , the knives will he out ,

biscuitandcake · 28/10/2024 23:57

Brinny · 28/10/2024 23:54

Your so right , they will tear each other apart, my other half who has friend 's in US A have and believe as soon as he wins they will impeech him , the knives will he out ,

The problem is they could also tear a lot more apart than themselves in the process. Otherwise it would be popcorn time.

biscuitandcake · 28/10/2024 23:59

(by themselves I mean themselves as individuals. I wouldn't get popcorn out to watch the rest of America tear itself apart obviously).

whathaveiforgotten · 29/10/2024 09:54

I don't know how anyone who isn't racist could have watched the MSG event and still support Trump.

Even if they also don't support Harris, I find it so deeply unsettling that anyone could watch it and believe Trump's presidency wouldn't reflect the racism and hateful (Nazi 'adjacent' at best) rhetoric on display at the rally.

Can any trump voters / supporters on the thread share their thoughts on it?

DuncinToffee · 29/10/2024 10:03

Something about 'you can't make a joke these days' and 'doesn't reflect Trump's views'

Ofcourse his campaign vetted all the speeches before putting them on the teleprompter.

And Jr happily retweeted the comments.

ToWhitToWhoo · 29/10/2024 10:04

Zahariel · 28/10/2024 10:53

She thinks women can have a penis. Thats why 50% of Americans won't vote for her

And will instead vote for the man who has openly said (and demonstrated!) that he should be able to grab women by the p*ssy? Yes, he's a real champion of women's safeguarding.

ToWhitToWhoo · 29/10/2024 10:13

dottiehens · 27/10/2024 03:21

You should worry more about the lot you got in government in the U.K.

Trump and his lot are infinitely worse than even our dreadful previous government, let alone our mediocre current government.

And the USA is powerful enough that we can't just say 'they're thousands of miles away; ignore them'. They have a huge Influence on the world at large.

BustingBaoBun · 29/10/2024 10:13

Can any trump voters / supporters on the thread share their thoughts on it?

I have never seen a Trump supporter answer the tricky questions. And I'm going back to when he was President too. Just the same then.

There is no justification for his rhetoric and of those who spoke at MSG... Trump agreed what they could say. I hope that rally comes back to bite him on the arse.

I think it will.

IsawwhatIsaw · 29/10/2024 10:18

Hope I’m wrong, but I think he’ll be elected. Many Americans will simply not vote for a woman.
And Johnson was elected here on a platform of playing the buffoon and telling jokes. Despite his well documented private life, lies and incompetence.

thepariscrimefiles · 29/10/2024 11:27

whathaveiforgotten · 29/10/2024 09:54

I don't know how anyone who isn't racist could have watched the MSG event and still support Trump.

Even if they also don't support Harris, I find it so deeply unsettling that anyone could watch it and believe Trump's presidency wouldn't reflect the racism and hateful (Nazi 'adjacent' at best) rhetoric on display at the rally.

Can any trump voters / supporters on the thread share their thoughts on it?

In any normal country, the things that were said at the rally by 'comedians', Trump supporters and Trump himself would have been disqualifying.

Trump's campaign team are now trying to distance themselves from the 'joke' about Puerto Rico, but apparently that comedian's original set included calling Kamala Harris a 'cunt', and he was told to remove this. So obviously, they had already seen his material and didn't object until they realised, after the fact, that there are lots of Puerto Ricans living in swing states and it might affect their electoral chances.

PermanentTemporary · 29/10/2024 11:35

There was a really stark graph in the NYT. Demographic groups who are doing less well economically, and demographic groups that are doing better. Those who were doing worse were much less likely to vote for the incumbent party. In the end, it's pretty simple.

floral2027 · 29/10/2024 14:17

saltinesandcoffeecups · 28/10/2024 16:11

I wouldn’t be worried that the immigration process would get more difficult or complicated. The big changes the Republicans want to see is for the illegal immigrants crossing. They want to end the catch and release getting lost in the US way of doing things. The legal immigration routes didn’t get any more difficult in Trump’s first term there is no reason to think it would a second term.

Now the person who overstayed their Visa/ESTA on the other hand may find some trouble in the future.

She overstayed her esta but she put in an application as the spouse of an American citizen..she is just living with family now and working remotely, America child goes to nursery. Does that mean that ICE could charge into her MIL's house?!

Obviously the visa application is still pending.technically overstays and illegal working are forgiven if you are the spouse of a US citizen

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