So it's NOT transphobic to refuse to use someones pronouns?
not respecting someone else’s pronouns is fundamentally degrading to the dignity and value of that person. It’s a form of intimidation and bullying. Yes it is transphobic.
Not transphobic to say people cannot pick their own treatment whatever a doctor says?
your straw man here is entrenched in transphobia.
Not transphobic to say males should not be in female sport?
Theres a legitimate debate to be had about eligibility for participation in women’s sport. most of the way that this is debated however, which usually involves attacking and bullying trans people and athletes with DSDs , is violently transphobic.
Not transphobic to say males should not be in female changing spaces?
there’s a legitimate debate to be had about how to organise spaces so everyone feels safe. This also includes respecting the dignity , safety, privacy of trans people. Third spaces for gender critical women is my preferred approach. But for some reason gender criticals don’t go for it despite thinking trans people should be fine in a third space…