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To think that releasing crickets at a gay rights conference, specifically to shut them down, should be considered a homophobic hate crime? Somehow these people are crowdfunding to do it AGAIN

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Zahariel · 17/10/2024 09:03

The optics of having to fumigate a hall after gay people used it to speak about their rights being eroded should not be lost on anyone.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13950839/Trans-activists-release-bags-insects-LGB-Alliance-conference.html

https://www.msn.com/en-gb/news/uknews/suspected-trans-rights-activists-disrupt-lgba-conference-with-live-crickets/ar-AA1s9JHH

This is CLERLY A HATE CRIME - yet it's being reported as trans rights activists, not anti gay hate mongers, I can't really understand why not

MSN

https://www.msn.com/en-gb/news/uknews/suspected-trans-rights-activists-disrupt-lgba-conference-with-live-crickets/ar-AA1s9JHH

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PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:37

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 18/10/2024 13:34

Are you actually comparing any trans people at a LGB meeting to ISIS😳

obviously not.

I am saying that just because trans people can be part of the LGBA doesn’t mean it’s not a transphobic organisation.

Gay people can join the catholic chirch, doesn’t mean it’s not homophobic as an institution.

Women can be part of ISIS, it’s still a profoundly misogynistic organisation that is fundamentally antithetical to the rights of women.

Racial minorities can join the BNP. Thats a better example since it’s the kind of argument they use - look we aren’t racist, we include racial minorities in our party!

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 18/10/2024 13:39

Thank you for clarifying your position piggle

Zahariel · 18/10/2024 13:39

PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:32

As PP have said trans people can be part of LGBA and indeed some trans people have attended LGBA events.

yeh, like gay people can be part of the Catholic Church, and women can be part of ISIS.

Behold - what @PiggleToes actually thinks of people they don't agree with, they must be terrorists or, (inferred from the way they presents the name), a terrible brain washed fool

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spannasaurus · 18/10/2024 13:40

PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:37

obviously not.

I am saying that just because trans people can be part of the LGBA doesn’t mean it’s not a transphobic organisation.

Gay people can join the catholic chirch, doesn’t mean it’s not homophobic as an institution.

Women can be part of ISIS, it’s still a profoundly misogynistic organisation that is fundamentally antithetical to the rights of women.

Racial minorities can join the BNP. Thats a better example since it’s the kind of argument they use - look we aren’t racist, we include racial minorities in our party!

So would you agree then that just because some LGB people might also be trans activists it doesn't mean that trans activists aren't homophobic

PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:41

Helleofabore · 18/10/2024 13:36

I post on feminist threads. What of it? Why is it relevant to you at all?

Because I only see your username on trans related threads. There are so many threads relevant to feminism- most on mumsnet in fact since this is a board where women post about dilemmas and challenges in their lives. So many about how women are treated in the family courts for example.
You are nowhere to be seen on those, but you appear on every single related threads, promoting anti trans ideas, theories, sentiments… I’m just wondering why?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/10/2024 13:41

PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:37

obviously not.

I am saying that just because trans people can be part of the LGBA doesn’t mean it’s not a transphobic organisation.

Gay people can join the catholic chirch, doesn’t mean it’s not homophobic as an institution.

Women can be part of ISIS, it’s still a profoundly misogynistic organisation that is fundamentally antithetical to the rights of women.

Racial minorities can join the BNP. Thats a better example since it’s the kind of argument they use - look we aren’t racist, we include racial minorities in our party!

How are you defining transphobic?

RedToothBrush · 18/10/2024 13:42

PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:37

obviously not.

I am saying that just because trans people can be part of the LGBA doesn’t mean it’s not a transphobic organisation.

Gay people can join the catholic chirch, doesn’t mean it’s not homophobic as an institution.

Women can be part of ISIS, it’s still a profoundly misogynistic organisation that is fundamentally antithetical to the rights of women.

Racial minorities can join the BNP. Thats a better example since it’s the kind of argument they use - look we aren’t racist, we include racial minorities in our party!

Point me to the legal ruling which said that believing and following the doctrine of ISIS is deemed worthy of respect in a democratic society.

Thanks.

Zahariel · 18/10/2024 13:42

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/10/2024 13:41

How are you defining transphobic?

Anyone who does not agree with @PiggleToes clearly.

The wrong type of gay

the wrong type of woman

probably the wrong type of trans given the people talking at the LGBAlliance conference

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PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:42

spannasaurus · 18/10/2024 13:40

So would you agree then that just because some LGB people might also be trans activists it doesn't mean that trans activists aren't homophobic

Yes.

SinnerBoy · 18/10/2024 13:43

PiggleToes · Today 13:31

what do you mean by “trans ideology”? The idea that trans people exist and should be respected and included in society?

No, don't be silly.

It's the pushing of the narrative that everyone has a gender identity and that everybody must accept and believe that. Pursuant to that, that TWAW, actually women and MUST be included in and all women's spaces, events and women's only categories, including awards, sports, toilets, prisons etc. That anyone who does not accept that is a monstrous bigot beyond the Pale, who deserves to be shunned by all decent members of society.

spannasaurus · 18/10/2024 13:43

PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:42

Yes.

Ah good. We agree that TRAs are homophobic and this was a homophobic attack.

ArcheryAnnie · 18/10/2024 13:44

PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:06

It is not misogynistic or homophobic to demand that everyone respects the inherent dignity and value of every human person , even the trans ones.

I can respect the dignity and value of a person without signing up to agree, falsely, that somebody is the sex that they are not.

RedToothBrush · 18/10/2024 13:44

Zahariel · 18/10/2024 13:39

Behold - what @PiggleToes actually thinks of people they don't agree with, they must be terrorists or, (inferred from the way they presents the name), a terrible brain washed fool

Yep.

The KGB Alliance (sic) are terrorists.

Totally getting the message here of abject nonsense which doesn't reflect the law.

PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:44

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/10/2024 13:41

How are you defining transphobic?

Fear, hatred prejudice directed towards trans people; Ideas that trans experience is fundamentally illegitimate, threatening and wrong; idea that trans people should be denied basic rights and services (eg appropriate healthcare).

Zahariel · 18/10/2024 13:47

PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:44

Fear, hatred prejudice directed towards trans people; Ideas that trans experience is fundamentally illegitimate, threatening and wrong; idea that trans people should be denied basic rights and services (eg appropriate healthcare).

So it's NOT transphobic to refuse to use someones pronouns?

Not transphobic to say people cannot pick their own treatment whatever a doctor says?

Not transphobic to say males should not be in female sport?

Not transphobic to say males should not be in female changing spaces?

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PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:48

ArcheryAnnie · 18/10/2024 13:44

I can respect the dignity and value of a person without signing up to agree, falsely, that somebody is the sex that they are not.

In order to respect the dignity and value of a trans person, you have to respect that trans experience is real, legitimate and ok; that it’s not something that is fundamentally wrong, harmful, predatory- or that needs to be silenced and repressed.

ArcheryAnnie · 18/10/2024 13:48

Where has anybody on this thread, or any other on Mumsnet, called for trans-identified people to be denied basic rights and services, @PiggleToes ?

Zahariel · 18/10/2024 13:48

PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:48

In order to respect the dignity and value of a trans person, you have to respect that trans experience is real, legitimate and ok; that it’s not something that is fundamentally wrong, harmful, predatory- or that needs to be silenced and repressed.

And not one of us is asking for any of that

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Zahariel · 18/10/2024 13:49

Zahariel · 18/10/2024 13:37

You ignore the points you don't like and cherry pick badly the others.

Trans ideology - the idea that humans can change sex and that that must be acknowledged as fact, forcing pronouns, forcing people to not say a man in a dress is a man, forcing gay people to sleep with the opposite sex, encouraging children to be chemically castrated and mutilated, the one that encourages men with erections into my daughters changing room and sports team - that trans ideology

"I think the idea that you shouldn’t use language that is hurtful and degrading to other people is fairly widespread and commonplace."

No it is not. YOU think it's hurtful and degrading to not call a man in a dress she/her

I think it's hurtful and degrading, to 51% of the planet, to call a man in a dress She/Her

Who is right?

Neither of us. You have the right to use whatever pronouns you like. you have NO RIGHT to compel me to do the same.

Answer the other points I made you coward.

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@PiggleToes answer the questions.

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PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:50

spannasaurus · 18/10/2024 13:43

Ah good. We agree that TRAs are homophobic and this was a homophobic attack.

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No it wasn’t homophobic attack.

Maybe some trans rights activists are homophobic, I wouldn’t know the beliefs of every single one.

But supporting trans people and their rights is not intrinsically homophobic. The idea that it is homophobic, is itself a form of transphobia.

PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:51

Zahariel · 18/10/2024 13:48

And not one of us is asking for any of that

You absolutely are.

ArcheryAnnie · 18/10/2024 13:51

PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:48

In order to respect the dignity and value of a trans person, you have to respect that trans experience is real, legitimate and ok; that it’s not something that is fundamentally wrong, harmful, predatory- or that needs to be silenced and repressed.

Do you think that in order to respect the dignity and value of creationists, we all have to sign up to believing and acting as if the earth was 6,000 years old? Do we need to sack all the palaeontologists, re-educate all the geologists?

lookingformypage · 18/10/2024 13:52

ArcheryAnnie · 18/10/2024 13:48

Where has anybody on this thread, or any other on Mumsnet, called for trans-identified people to be denied basic rights and services, @PiggleToes ?

There's a whole thread in FWR this week where the majority of posters are in agreement with and in fact vehemently arguing for Kellie-Jay Keen's position that employers and landlords should be able to legally discriminate against people due to their trans status.

RedToothBrush · 18/10/2024 13:52

PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:44

Fear, hatred prejudice directed towards trans people; Ideas that trans experience is fundamentally illegitimate, threatening and wrong; idea that trans people should be denied basic rights and services (eg appropriate healthcare).

No. One. Wants. To. Deny. Healthcare.

We want ethical health care.

It is not ethical to transition a child without robust safeguarding and making sure they are not gay, autistic, or otherwise vulnerable. Even then it's still arguably not ethical to transition when so young because of our understanding of how identity forms and when. Never mind the consent related issues.

It's also not ethical to carry out treatment with exceptionally high complication rates, in the absence of evidence that it is effective and the risk of detransition is too high.

Ensuring good and equal health care for trans people INCLUDES an acknowledgement of sex because of the numbers of scenarios where failing to recognise sex could cause actual harm.

Then there's the cosmetic aspects. For fair access to cosmetic procedures we need to understand what is the base line. The base line is that the NHS does not provide cosmetic care universally. It is done by need in clinical terms.

If you can't PROVE a clinical benefit then you can't ethically approve a cosmetic procedure. Particularly on the NHS. Cos that's how the NHS works.

nothingcomestonothing · 18/10/2024 13:53

PiggleToes · 18/10/2024 13:48

In order to respect the dignity and value of a trans person, you have to respect that trans experience is real, legitimate and ok; that it’s not something that is fundamentally wrong, harmful, predatory- or that needs to be silenced and repressed.

I feel like this fits here.

TRAs don't want respect, respect allows for difference - I can respect others beliefs without sharing them. TRAs want compliance with their worldviews and punishment for those who don't believe what they believe. Hence the subject of this thread.

To think that releasing crickets at a gay rights conference, specifically to shut them down, should be considered a homophobic hate crime? Somehow these people are crowdfunding to do it AGAIN
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