You ignore the points you don't like and cherry pick badly the others.
Trans ideology - the idea that humans can change sex and that that must be acknowledged as fact, forcing pronouns, forcing people to not say a man in a dress is a man, forcing gay people to sleep with the opposite sex, encouraging children to be chemically castrated and mutilated, the one that encourages men with erections into my daughters changing room and sports team - that trans ideology
"I think the idea that you shouldn’t use language that is hurtful and degrading to other people is fairly widespread and commonplace."
No it is not. YOU think it's hurtful and degrading to not call a man in a dress she/her
I think it's hurtful and degrading, to 51% of the planet, to call a man in a dress She/Her
Who is right?
Neither of us. You have the right to use whatever pronouns you like. you have NO RIGHT to compel me to do the same.
Answer the other points I made you coward.