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CF parked on my driveway!

549 replies

SEMPA1234567 · 15/10/2024 14:05

CF has now been parked on my driveway for at least 3 hours! Husband home soon and won’t be able to park!

My question is what can you actually practically do about this, apart from giving them an earful if you spot them returning to their car!! 😂

A quick google says

  1. the police won’t do anything (they might if it’s stoping you getting off your drive but not if they’re preventing you accessing your drive)
  2. My areas police website says try contacting the council . The councils website clearly states they will not remove vehicles or issue parking charge notices for private drives

Also you are not allowed to block them in as this is an offence to stop them leaving and obviously you can not damage their car as this would be criminal damage.

Assuming you don’t want to break the law 😂 what are you meant to legally do if someone parks on your drive??

Has anyone successfully got any type of justice against a CF?!? Or can I now just go around being a CF never paying for parking and just using other peoples drives?!?

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godmum56 · 18/10/2024 14:59

TwistedWonder · 18/10/2024 14:51

I live in a walkway and have a garage in a block. The garages all have house numbers on so there’s no ambiguity as to who’s is who.

One day I got home from work and there was a car parked outside mine. I knocked on a couple of neighbours sorts but no one knew who it belonged to. Expected it to be gone after few hours but it was still there in morning. Problem is my partners car was in the garage and he couldn’t get it out.

We called the police and they said there was nothing they could do for 48 hours 🤷‍♀️ their only suggestion was try your neighbours. I left a note on windscreen telling them to move it as they were blocking our access to garage.

Well the car hasn’t moved that evening or the next morning so I called police again and this time they came round, did some checks and arranged for it to be towed away.

A few days later I had a very irate woman I’ve never seen before who apparently lives around the corner hammering in my door screaming that she’d had to pay to get her car and I owed her the money. I just laughed at her and told her it was private property and it was her own fault. She was almost hysterical telling me her elderly father had dropped car off forgot to leave keys and she’d had to wait a few days for him to post them. Whether that’s true or not it’s not my issue.

She told me she would be sending me bill - good luck with that!

  1. Not your problem
  2. she could have come round to apologise and tell you
  3. why did her father leave it there?
laylababe5 · 18/10/2024 15:35

Itsmahoneybaloney · 16/10/2024 11:28

Do you have a dropped kerb? If not they are entitled to park there.

Ridiculous! Are you CF? 😬🤣🤣🤣

TwistedWonder · 18/10/2024 15:40

godmum56 · 18/10/2024 14:59

  1. Not your problem
  2. she could have come round to apologise and tell you
  3. why did her father leave it there?

I don’t even think there was an elderly father who forgot to leave the keys. That was her made up story to her a bit of sympathy for being a CF. She said he was confused and thought it was her garage - despite her garage block being across the green from ours and also mine having my door number on big bold letters.

HereForTheFreeLunch · 18/10/2024 19:56

She found your door to bang on... She could have found you and asked before too.

Mumof3PrettyBoys · 19/10/2024 00:06

WomenInConstruction · 17/10/2024 15:30

There are loads of different ones on that link btw... From what you said you maybe only clocked the top one?

Ahh yes I saw them all and was spoiled for choice! Thanks again 👍🏾

TheMaddHugger · 19/10/2024 07:54

HereForTheFreeLunch · 18/10/2024 19:56

She found your door to bang on... She could have found you and asked before too.

👀💨💀🤣

Itsnotthat · 19/10/2024 07:58

Backtoschoolblues · 18/10/2024 14:34

I know this isn't a helpful comment but I've seen a few of these posts now and I just can't understand why some people feel it's ok to park on other people's driveways! WTAF!

It’s crazy, it happens to me frequently and is so annoying. People either don’t care, feel entitled to park where they like or don’t understand the common courtesy of not parking in front of drives. I live in an area with high, recent immigration and people just don’t respect the fact that you don’t park in front of drives.

bignosebignose · 19/10/2024 10:07

I live in an area with high, recent immigration and people just don’t respect the fact that you don’t park in front of drives.

I live in an area with virtually no immigration and CFs park across our drive all the time, to go to the shop directly opposite it, even when they could park one car length back without blocking it.

Itsnotthat · 19/10/2024 10:12

@bignosebignose fair enough, that sounds annoying. In my situation it’s always my recently arrived neighbours who park over my drive. When I challenge them they are always confused and say there’s no where else to park. I have to tell the same people over and over again. Then they move, new people move in and I have to do it all over again. It’s annoying. I know it’s wrong to notice that the common thread in this situation is that the people are newly arrived economic migrants but unfortunately it’s the case in my situation.

YerArseInParsley · 19/10/2024 12:38

Ivehearditbothways · 16/10/2024 22:20

@YerArseInParsley

Does your phone not access google? You can just type in “mumsnet CF meaning.” Why ask in the middle of a thread? If I’m reading something and I don’t know what it means, I open a new tab, google it and then I can continue reading and understanding it. No time wasted. It’s like people who ask on Facebook if Tesco is open… try google.

It does but I guess since I'm reading through the thread some kind person will just tell me because it's not hard to do. I'm going to watch out for your name on all threads and ask questions as I assume it annoys u 😘

DeireadhFomhair · 19/10/2024 13:13

YerArseInParsley · 19/10/2024 12:38

It does but I guess since I'm reading through the thread some kind person will just tell me because it's not hard to do. I'm going to watch out for your name on all threads and ask questions as I assume it annoys u 😘

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I don't think you get MN.

YerArseInParsley · 19/10/2024 16:21

DeireadhFomhair · 19/10/2024 13:13

I don't think you get MN.

Is it the kind people part, have I got that wrong in assuming there's kind people on MN?

Why we even still discussing this? I asked a question, a kind person answered and others got their knickers in a twist. Now let us get back to the main topic 😁

DeireadhFomhair · 19/10/2024 17:12

YerArseInParsley · 19/10/2024 16:21

Is it the kind people part, have I got that wrong in assuming there's kind people on MN?

Why we even still discussing this? I asked a question, a kind person answered and others got their knickers in a twist. Now let us get back to the main topic 😁

What part of being "kind" involves stalking other posters to annoy them?

It's not the asking the question that posters object to; it's being rude, calling posters "girlies", amongst other things.

YerArseInParsley · 19/10/2024 17:33

DeireadhFomhair · 19/10/2024 17:12

What part of being "kind" involves stalking other posters to annoy them?

It's not the asking the question that posters object to; it's being rude, calling posters "girlies", amongst other things.

Stalking? Girlie's? Wtf u on about?

Madrigal12 · 19/10/2024 21:08

If the driveway is yours then they may be trespassing:-
The introduction of the Police, Crime, Sentencing and Courts Act 2022 (‘PCSAC’) on 28 June 2022 makes trespass, in some cases, a criminal offence punishable by imprisonment of up to four months and/or a fine of up to £2,500.
An offence will be committed under the PCSCA, if a person over the age of 18:

  • resides or intends to reside on land in or with a vehicle (including a caravan) without consent; and
  • fails to leave and/or remove their property (or re-enters the land) as soon as reasonably practicable when asked to do so; and
  • has caused, or is likely to cause ‘significant’:
  • damage to land/property/the environment;
  • disruption to the use of land/supply of utilities; and/or
  • distress via ‘offensive conduct’, such as the use of threatening words or behaviour.
Emmz1510 · 19/10/2024 22:33

I like the idea of blocking them in then getting conveniently drunk.

Shadylady52 · 19/10/2024 23:12

Get it towed away or push into middle of road then police will come deal with it

T1Dmama · 19/10/2024 23:19

It is illegal to park on someone’s drive, however it’s only a civil matter, so you’d have to sue them for trespass which I expect no one would ever bother doing!
It’s so cheeky…. I would want to follow them home if they do it again … then pop a note through their door saying if they park on your drive again you’ll start leaving a car on theirs!!

JaneAustensLife · 19/10/2024 23:49

Shadylady52 · 19/10/2024 23:12

Get it towed away or push into middle of road then police will come deal with it

Yes @SEMPA1234567 get into your time machine and go back and do this 🙄

Passenger42 · 20/10/2024 09:59

prop up a large long nail against one of their back tyres, and I can guarantee they won’t rush back to park on your drive again!

beanii · 20/10/2024 11:17

Block them in - a 1 ton bag of sand should do it 😁

HammerTimeNC · 20/10/2024 13:07

Itsnotthat · 19/10/2024 07:58

It’s crazy, it happens to me frequently and is so annoying. People either don’t care, feel entitled to park where they like or don’t understand the common courtesy of not parking in front of drives. I live in an area with high, recent immigration and people just don’t respect the fact that you don’t park in front of drives.

I live in an area where neighbours blame immigrants for everything, and those same neighbours show zero outrage at actual criminal offences committed by non-immigrants.

Itsnotthat · 20/10/2024 13:48

@HammerTimeNC I get annoyed about crime in general, doesn’t matter who does it. Is that ok? Am I then allowed to notice the correlation between the parking across my driveway and the newly arrived people on my street? I don’t think they are criminals but I do think they don’t really care about where they park. Obviously just talking about my own experience. I hate having to pretend that it’s not the reason. It drives you crazy having to ask your own neighbours repeatedly not to block your drive. You lose the will to be so politically correct about it all.

Swiftie1878 · 20/10/2024 19:21

Let the air out of their tyres! No criminal damage. Just a massive inconvenience. And when they turn up, tell them to never park on your drive again.

HammerTimeNC · 20/10/2024 20:23

Itsnotthat · 20/10/2024 13:48

@HammerTimeNC I get annoyed about crime in general, doesn’t matter who does it. Is that ok? Am I then allowed to notice the correlation between the parking across my driveway and the newly arrived people on my street? I don’t think they are criminals but I do think they don’t really care about where they park. Obviously just talking about my own experience. I hate having to pretend that it’s not the reason. It drives you crazy having to ask your own neighbours repeatedly not to block your drive. You lose the will to be so politically correct about it all.

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So which nationalities are you referring to as CFers? As you don't want to be politically correct, just spell it out.

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