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Bringing your whole fucking family to A&E

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changedlife · 14/10/2024 19:52

Waiting to be seen at A&E. sent here by GP because DH has had an adverse blood result that needs to be dealt with.

A&E packed as usual. To be expected. However one family is here with one woman. There are 5 grown adults with the patient who is in her 30s... I don't know her issue but laughing a joking with the family. Just to add to the joy their phones go off constantly whereupon they give a blow by blow run down of her current medical state (she's hurt her foot it seems - from the latest phone update. )

DH is disabled. There is nowhere to sit In A&E. Foot-family are settled in and have actually just had a KFC delivery. I swear it's like an evening out for them.

DH can't stand. So have sent him back to wait in the car - which as he has a blue badge - is quite close. I'll call him when his turn comes. As I can stand.. However .. AIBU to think you don't need FIVE adults accompanying you to A&E. ? Especially with some really poorly older people have had to resort to sitting on the floor ? (And no one has volunteered their seat for them. )

OP posts:
Thouroguishillnurturedbarnacle · 04/11/2024 18:44

asdfgasdfg · 03/11/2024 17:45

The hospital can provide food for patients, they did whist I was in A&E for 7 hours, not for family and friends though.

Scotland?

WitchesCauldron · 24/01/2025 15:03

changedlife · 14/10/2024 19:52

Waiting to be seen at A&E. sent here by GP because DH has had an adverse blood result that needs to be dealt with.

A&E packed as usual. To be expected. However one family is here with one woman. There are 5 grown adults with the patient who is in her 30s... I don't know her issue but laughing a joking with the family. Just to add to the joy their phones go off constantly whereupon they give a blow by blow run down of her current medical state (she's hurt her foot it seems - from the latest phone update. )

DH is disabled. There is nowhere to sit In A&E. Foot-family are settled in and have actually just had a KFC delivery. I swear it's like an evening out for them.

DH can't stand. So have sent him back to wait in the car - which as he has a blue badge - is quite close. I'll call him when his turn comes. As I can stand.. However .. AIBU to think you don't need FIVE adults accompanying you to A&E. ? Especially with some really poorly older people have had to resort to sitting on the floor ? (And no one has volunteered their seat for them. )

YANBU. This is standard stuff for an AE waiting room. They should be kicked out & there is normally a policy of numbers of people. It is very hard to enforce though & people get very aggressive. It's a nightmare as a nurse- you can't get to your patient for the 5 people sitting round the bed.
It's a night out for chavs- either that or B & M.

Pussycat22 · 25/01/2025 22:44

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 18/10/2024 12:19

Horrific. The poor woman, who will have already been putting herself at risk by working through covid and then she has to undergo that.

Hope she sued the arse off him.

JudgeJ · 25/01/2025 23:11

Lifebeginsat40theysaid · 19/10/2024 20:17

Yanbu - last time I was in the minor injuries unit (so admittedly not actual A+E but still as busy, I was there 6 hours!!), there was a chair shortage and the receptionist had the common sense to ask all the people who weren't patients to give up their chairs for those who were. He got some grumbles but people mostly complied, and so they should!!

They shouldn't be allowed in there in the first place, there should be a limit of 1 or 2 people at the most with a patient and they should have to vacate chairs for other patients. If they claim that they need to sit down then they can go and sit down at home.

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