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Not to help catch a stray/escaped dog! Now it’s my fault it’s been injured apparently!

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notmyproblems · 10/10/2024 12:32

Someone’s dog keeps escaping and for some reason it kept making its way into my garden. It had been dodging cars apparently and being a nuisance. Regularly have people knocking asking is it mine.

Two weeks ago someone saw it run into my garden and they were banging on the door . I answered (I was WFH and busy) and they were demanding to be allowed into the garden to keep hold of the dog till the warden could get there. I said no. Wait till it goes back out again (I didn’t want someone I don’t know in my house / garden) then catch it and secure it .

Ive since got the gap fixed and the dog can’t get in anymore. Haven’t seen it

Had a knock on the door today (same person) saying the dog had been hit by a car and they’d had to take it to a vet and how it all could have been avoided had I allowed them access and they hoped I was happy with having it on my conscience. So i just closed the door as they were still talking which made them shout and bang on the door???

Im not the irresponsible dog owner so it’s not my fault !

OP posts:
Petitchat · 15/10/2024 12:40

Bellatrixpure · 14/10/2024 19:13

the dog wasn’t injured in her back garden, it was injured another one of the million other times the owners neglected to keep it safe.

and no, why should anyone have to stop what they are getting paid to do, take time to find a piece of scarf or a belt that they no longer want ( because I’m sure as hell not using any of my good accessories) or even just a piece of rope ( again, don’t
have any spare rope just lying around)

nicr story about the horses, and nice that you had loads of time to take them back

And also nice that she wasn't working and isn't afraid of dogs.

Sweetpeasaremadeforbees · 15/10/2024 12:44

I think that some posters on here just assume that those of us supporting the OP are heartless bastards who would never help anyone under any circumstances. On the contrary I have been known to stop to move hedgehogs from roads, stop and help a farmer try to herd his sheep back into a field (done that a few times on our lane), I've even picked up dead cats by the side of the road (not ones that I've hit) and taken them to vets in case someone has been looking for them.

But in this situation, putting Random Man issues aside, if a dog is constantly escaping, I'd just think, yeah whatever, that dog is always loose, so what?

ChiffandBipper · 18/10/2024 12:45

Bellatrixpure · 13/10/2024 21:44

And the fact that it was hurt has nothing to do with what the OP did or didn’t do.

Why do you think OP could have stopped an accident 2 weeks after the dog was in her garden?

Exactly this! Is everyone else missing the fact that these incidents were 2 weeks apart?!

Even if she did secure the dog at the time the man knocked on her door, the dog obviously got out again 2 weeks later. Her actions had no bearing on the dog getting hurt - 100% the responsibility of the owners!

JubileeJuice · 24/10/2024 13:10

MaryEllenWaldron · 10/10/2024 14:12

Unless she's scared of dogs, she could have simply gone to get it herself and brought it through the house for the person-trying-to-help to take with him. I've done this when finding a dog in my back garden. Presumably the dog had a collar so an improvised lead can be attached - I used a bathrobe belt. I wouldn't want her as a neighbour.

I certainly couldn't take the time to do this when I'm working from home. If I was mid-lecture and abandoned 100+ students to deal with someone else's dog, I'd be reprimanded. OP was AT WORK.

I have my own dogs and some might call me a, "Dog Nutter", as someone so eloquently put it. I love dogs. But I also work a demanding job from home, and doing my job to make the money I need to keep a roof over my head? That's my priority.

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