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To not feel very sorry for Rebekah Vardy

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Viviennemary · 08/10/2024 18:06

This Rebekah Vardy Colleen Rooney business has ended up costing a huge amount of money. Now RV has to pay costs of £1.6 million. Total madness. Why did she do it. Obviously thought she'd win. The phone falling into the sea. Hmm how convenient.

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Pinkandbluesocks · 09/10/2024 13:49

Maray1967 · 09/10/2024 13:41

Unless her lawyers value her as a repeat client. They’re presumably doing very well by repeatedly representing her….

I wonder what all JV’s teammates and their partners think of it all. It can’t be conducive to good team morale if his team mates daren’t make any comment on their family/home life in front of him for fear it will end up in the Sun.

I would imagine the defamation team at Kinglsey Napley know very well the value of stupid, self-sabotaging people who at least for now have more money than sense!

Agree his teammates must be agog.

EdgeOfSixty · 09/10/2024 13:57

I have no sympathy for Vardy. She was advised to reach an out of court settlement but ignored the good advice. Her true self was shown in court for all to see.
She's just enjoys shit stirring (not for the first time) and she's been caught out and has to pay the price.

BobbyBiscuits · 09/10/2024 14:00

She's absolutely mad for sueing someone for saying she did something that she knew she was guilty of. I honestly think she's unhinged.
I don't have much sympathy for footballers in general but her husband must be holding his head in his hands in dispair.
Surely her defense lawyers are partly to blame as nobody should have allowed her to make such a bullshit litigation. But they happily took the money.

Yancy · 09/10/2024 14:06

BobbyBiscuits · 09/10/2024 14:00

She's absolutely mad for sueing someone for saying she did something that she knew she was guilty of. I honestly think she's unhinged.
I don't have much sympathy for footballers in general but her husband must be holding his head in his hands in dispair.
Surely her defense lawyers are partly to blame as nobody should have allowed her to make such a bullshit litigation. But they happily took the money.

Edited

She's absolutely a narcissist. No legal firm turns down good money. She was going to spend it somewhere - might as well have been them.

Pinkandbluesocks · 09/10/2024 14:08

BobbyBiscuits · 09/10/2024 14:00

She's absolutely mad for sueing someone for saying she did something that she knew she was guilty of. I honestly think she's unhinged.
I don't have much sympathy for footballers in general but her husband must be holding his head in his hands in dispair.
Surely her defense lawyers are partly to blame as nobody should have allowed her to make such a bullshit litigation. But they happily took the money.

Edited

Why would the lawyers be to blame? If they misled her about the strength of the case they would be, but we have no reason to think that. And it's a free country, people have the right to apply to the courts if they want to. Be pretty outrageous if a lawyer could interfere with that! The duty of the legal team is to properly advise her, and then later to present her case whilst upholding their duties to the court.

Colleen did also offer to settle before it got to the court stage too, so while obviously Vardy has lost, it would've been possible for her to actually benefit from this whole shitshow. Sometimes people with resources do pay to make things go away. If her legal team had told her at the outset that she could get something out of it, they'd have been right.

Also they're defamation lawyers, not defence as this isn't a criminal matter.

friendlycat · 09/10/2024 14:10

She has been spectacularly stupid over this entire fiasco. Financially JV has paid en extremely high financial price for her utterly ludicrous behaviour.

I was actually surprised that he agreed to this nonsensical court case to start with considering he was the one footing the bill.

His playing days are mostly behind him now and he’s never earned the mega bucks that others have, accepting that £5m a year is a lot, but she seems to enjoy spending significant amounts. His future career isn’t going to pull in the millions that his past has. I can’t see him as a pundit and not sure at all that he would be considered manager material of a top flight club.

Post football playing days often pose difficulties for those that haven’t been prudent with their wealth in the good times. There’s an awful amount of previously successful players way above JV’s talent and pay grade that haven’t made the transition from playing football to future careers.

Pinkandbluesocks · 09/10/2024 14:13

friendlycat · 09/10/2024 14:10

She has been spectacularly stupid over this entire fiasco. Financially JV has paid en extremely high financial price for her utterly ludicrous behaviour.

I was actually surprised that he agreed to this nonsensical court case to start with considering he was the one footing the bill.

His playing days are mostly behind him now and he’s never earned the mega bucks that others have, accepting that £5m a year is a lot, but she seems to enjoy spending significant amounts. His future career isn’t going to pull in the millions that his past has. I can’t see him as a pundit and not sure at all that he would be considered manager material of a top flight club.

Post football playing days often pose difficulties for those that haven’t been prudent with their wealth in the good times. There’s an awful amount of previously successful players way above JV’s talent and pay grade that haven’t made the transition from playing football to future careers.

Very true.

He's been huge for Leicester, so they may try and fit him into the coaching squad somewhere, or give him some kind of club ambassador role if that isn't his forte. But it's not likely to pay what he's on now. He'd have to do pretty well as a manager or pundit for that.

usernother · 09/10/2024 14:30

Arraminta · 09/10/2024 13:48

And don't take me to task for being overly harsh. I sat on the same table as the Vardys at a charidee dinner not that long ago and believe me, I could have been a lot harsher.

Feel free to be a lot harsher. I'm listening.

Viviennemary · 09/10/2024 14:36

Arraminta · 09/10/2024 13:42

She's nothing but a gobby, uneducated chav. Her inner circle of similarly gobby, uneducated chavs deluded her into thinking she had anything useful or interesting or intelligent to say. She clearly hadn't.

She looks and sounds like she should be working in a chip shop.

She was working in a pub when she met her first husband and got married at 18. Hardly the makings of a high earner.

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PfishFood · 09/10/2024 14:49

NewGreenDuck · 09/10/2024 11:57

Many former footballers who earned well during their playing careers made very poor choices though in respect of providing an income when their careers have finished. There are only limited managerial opportunities, or for punditry on football programmes. So, if they don't squirrel some away, in fairly big quantities, they have had it.

Agreed. A lot of issues with footballers blowing money in their playing days comes from those that grew up in the academy system and never really got taught how to actually grow up, mature, and learn how to manage their money properly.

Wayne Rooney would certainly have fallen into that category (we got glimpses of it with the prostitutes and drink driving), but ultimately he had Coleen and her family to keep him (mostly) on the straight and narrow and work towards a long term future. I know he's in management now, but I can't imagine Plymouth Argyle paying him millions!

I saw an interview with Gareth Bale recently and he's another footballer with his head screwed on. He has obviously been very sensible over the years and now he's retired has walked away from football entirely. He now works for the RNA helping try and develop golf at a grass roots level and make it more accessible to kids, all while almost being good enough himself to become a pro in the game if he wanted to.

Jamie Vardy is, I think, on the sensible side also as up until Leicester's unexpected and sudden rise through the rankings, he wasn't used to the big £££ (I think he's the only player ever to have stayed with the same team through all the leagues and end up a PL champion). He's obviously been taken in by the charms of RV and comes across as being a bit stuck! It was very noticeable, as a PP said, that he attended court so rarely, whereas Wayne was by CR's side the whole time.

derxa · 09/10/2024 14:52

friendlycat · 09/10/2024 14:10

She has been spectacularly stupid over this entire fiasco. Financially JV has paid en extremely high financial price for her utterly ludicrous behaviour.

I was actually surprised that he agreed to this nonsensical court case to start with considering he was the one footing the bill.

His playing days are mostly behind him now and he’s never earned the mega bucks that others have, accepting that £5m a year is a lot, but she seems to enjoy spending significant amounts. His future career isn’t going to pull in the millions that his past has. I can’t see him as a pundit and not sure at all that he would be considered manager material of a top flight club.

Post football playing days often pose difficulties for those that haven’t been prudent with their wealth in the good times. There’s an awful amount of previously successful players way above JV’s talent and pay grade that haven’t made the transition from playing football to future careers.

Your scathing account of Jamie Vardy has enraged me. How you know how he’ll do post playing career I don’t know.

itwasnevermine · 09/10/2024 14:53

LlynTegid · 08/10/2024 18:08

Lawyers who can only stay in expensive hotels or book at short notice, and whose costs seemingly cannot be challenged, is a wrong that does not make things right.

The laws on defamation are a rich person's thing that in many cases (not this one) are used to bully people into silence.

Do you have any idea how lawyers charge? Their costs will be charged within their terms. If Vardy thinks they're wrong she's free to challenge them.

NewGreenDuck · 09/10/2024 14:53

I think that some footballers, the more intelligent ones, understand that their income won't continue at millions per year unless they are either
Very lucky
Or
Have great financial advice.
Sadly some don't get that.
And some footballers after retiring from the game, don't make good coaches or managers despite being good footballers. They don't have the knack. Bobby Moore for example.
Others aren't great footballers but great managers. Arsene Wenger is a case in point.
So how do they maintain the lifestyle on a dwindling income?

Snazzysausage · 09/10/2024 14:55

You would have thought after all the court case palaver RV would have wound her neck in a bit when she's locally to home but apparently not. They live not too far from me but she's still got the don't you know who I am attitude according to those who see her out and about.

Paganpentacle · 09/10/2024 15:01

FlyHalf · 09/10/2024 10:47

It caught fire not so long ago - gym issues I think.

Blaze started by a pair of pants. on fire

😂😂

itwasnevermine · 09/10/2024 15:02

NewGreenDuck · 09/10/2024 14:53

I think that some footballers, the more intelligent ones, understand that their income won't continue at millions per year unless they are either
Very lucky
Or
Have great financial advice.
Sadly some don't get that.
And some footballers after retiring from the game, don't make good coaches or managers despite being good footballers. They don't have the knack. Bobby Moore for example.
Others aren't great footballers but great managers. Arsene Wenger is a case in point.
So how do they maintain the lifestyle on a dwindling income?

Edited

I'm guessing they move a lot of it into offshore accounts. Kyle walker's recent net worth was only something like £10m according to the paperwork from his case with lauryn

RB68 · 09/10/2024 15:10

As usual the only real winners were the lawyers

ajandjjmum · 09/10/2024 16:47

I do think that the way his wife has behaved will reduce the opportunities that come Jamie Vardy's way when he does retire from playing football. She's really not someone you'd want to associate with. Feel sorry for him.

Boobygravy · 09/10/2024 16:58

Comefromaway · 09/10/2024 13:23

CR offered several out of court settlements which RV rejected so that will go against RV

Yes. CR was happy to settle out of court if possible, RV would have been wise to accept.

Wellingtonspie · 09/10/2024 17:01

ajandjjmum · 09/10/2024 16:47

I do think that the way his wife has behaved will reduce the opportunities that come Jamie Vardy's way when he does retire from playing football. She's really not someone you'd want to associate with. Feel sorry for him.

Yes the other wags tend to want nothing to do with her, she’s pallied up with Lauryn Goodman. Another you wouldn’t trust to know your business.

So his hardly likely to ever be offered anything where there is big gossip type news or secrets.

Be blabbed to the sun or Lauryn faster than a stripper can get her kit off.

swimlyn · 09/10/2024 17:37

She is a very stupid woman who deserves what’s coming to her.

Great entertainment!

Nolongera · 09/10/2024 18:22

If I were Jamie Vardy, I would be hiding my money in Davy Jones's locker, she won't find it there.

DinaofCloud9 · 09/10/2024 18:24

She comes across as an awful, awful person. Thick and arrogant is a terrible combination.

TheSleepingGiant · 09/10/2024 19:41

Nolongera · 09/10/2024 18:22

If I were Jamie Vardy, I would be hiding my money in Davy Jones's locker, she won't find it there.

"I'm afraid I have no idea who Davy Jones is" 🤔😂

I saw JV play against my club almost 2 years ago and there was a lot of chants about his wife during the match. I imagine they will ramp up again now. No sympathy for either of them from me.

Wellingtonspie · 09/10/2024 20:09

Ah she’s pals with Davy jones. Thats where all her and her pals IT gear went.

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