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To expect my daughter to have access to non halal meat

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Bushmillsbabe · 06/10/2024 16:13

My daughters school now has only halal meat available for their school lunches.

I personally do not wish my child to have halal meat, I think its more cruel than other slaughter methods, however this thread is not intended to debate which is worse/better.

She is dairy and gluten intolerant, and her safe options tended to be things like roast chicken, the vegetarian options usually contain dairy. The pork sausages contain gluten so she would have the chicken sausages, she also eats burgers and meatballs but these are now also halal.

So if I don't give her halal meat, she is left with jacket potato with beans every day, which she does eat, but doesn't want to have every day.

I fully respect that Muslim parents wish their child to have halal meat, but am I wrong in thinking my dietary preferences for my daughter should also be respected and she should have access to non halal meat?

OP posts:
PandoraSox · 06/10/2024 18:33

Dibbydoos · 06/10/2024 18:11

'Tiny minirity' what do you mean? Non Muslims are the minority or that most people don't give a fiddle?

For me buying halal is caving to the minority. They can bring packed lunches. We are a Christian country and halal slaughtering of animals isn't something I am good with either.

Are you "good" with non-halal slaughtering of animals?

ImWearingPantaloons · 06/10/2024 18:33

I fail to see the fuss about Halal meat, how do you think 'other' meat is killed? Tickled to death?

FlingThatCarrot · 06/10/2024 18:34

I agree OP. Main hot dinner roption should be non-halal. Then anyone wanting to eat halal had the potato or veg option.

I think religious faddy eating requirements shouldn't have an impact on everyone else. It's imposing. And completely different to allergies. The jacket potato and vegetarian option will always be halal so Muslims already have 2 choices minimum!

Jaboodyv2 · 06/10/2024 18:34

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PandoraSox · 06/10/2024 18:38

ImWearingPantaloons · 06/10/2024 18:33

I fail to see the fuss about Halal meat, how do you think 'other' meat is killed? Tickled to death?

Well, exactly.

A billion chickens are slaughtered in the UK every year. Anyone who is OK with that has no business being picky over the exact method of slaughter.

I say that as a meat eater. It would be very hypocritical of me to object to halal or kosher meat.

KezzaMucklowe · 06/10/2024 18:40

LifesNotEnidBlyton · 06/10/2024 18:05

Given that you has asked such an obvious question that already had a simple answer clearly given a more thorough explanation seemed to be the best course of action. Very bizzare to take issue about the legth of the answer considering you asked the question and a response was given to you.

Your suspected belief is wrong. It has nothing to do with what I think other people want. The entire point was surrounding the combined group of need and/or want. Not want alone. It is absolutely common sense to state as fact that the majority of the UK population either does not need or does not want halal meat. The only group who needs halal meat are those who follow that religious belief. Even of the majority of the UK population do not mind either way they do not need halal meat.

What I have said is as such completely accurate, amd is backed up by facts I have provided.

If you choose to disbelieve these facts then you are very welcome to provide any facts of your own, rather than just decide wrongly that you think it is wrong with no research of your own.

Edited

Tldr

Clarabella77 · 06/10/2024 18:40

olympicsrock · 06/10/2024 16:16

This is political correctness gone mad.

No it is not. If there are a decent proportion of Muslim children then it is probably more practical just to make all the meat halal.

iloveeverykindofcat · 06/10/2024 18:41

In the case of religious slaughter, by definition it’s certain the animal had not been stunned.

No it isn't. Some halal meat is stunned.

The halal/non-halal binary is completely illogical from an ethical perspective.

KezzaMucklowe · 06/10/2024 18:42

Well done OP, you've done exactly what you wanted here.

IdentityCrisis101 · 06/10/2024 18:42

Meat is meat is meat is meat.. no matter how it's killed. If you truly cared about how the animal dies you would not be eating meat in the first place. It's a subtle (possible unconscious?) prejudice that comes across.

LifesNotEnidBlyton · 06/10/2024 18:42

KezzaMucklowe · 06/10/2024 18:40

Tldr

You are behaving in a very bizzare way. Asking questions, engaging in conversation, but then complaining when you receive an answer. Very rude.

Perhaps social media isn't for you. It tends to mostly involve engaging with people.

pinkoink · 06/10/2024 18:43

iloveeverykindofcat · 06/10/2024 18:41

In the case of religious slaughter, by definition it’s certain the animal had not been stunned.

No it isn't. Some halal meat is stunned.

The halal/non-halal binary is completely illogical from an ethical perspective.

Well, the difference is that non-religious slaughter legally requires stunning while religious slaughter is exempt from this requirement.

Simple logic dictates that the probability of an animal being stunned is greater in the former cohort.

And this matters to me, even if it doesn’t to you.

Coruscations · 06/10/2024 18:45

olympicsrock · 06/10/2024 16:16

This is political correctness gone mad.

Is this sarcasm? I can't believe anyone still uses that phrase seriously nowadays.

Coruscations · 06/10/2024 18:47

pinkoink · 06/10/2024 18:43

Well, the difference is that non-religious slaughter legally requires stunning while religious slaughter is exempt from this requirement.

Simple logic dictates that the probability of an animal being stunned is greater in the former cohort.

And this matters to me, even if it doesn’t to you.

Edited

But simple facts do not dictate that. Nowadays the only halal meat you will find that has not been stunned is in specialist butchers. The businesses that supply school food use standard slaughterhouses where all animals are stunned before slaughter.

PonyPatter44 · 06/10/2024 18:47

Yet another disingenuous anti-halal / anti-islamic thread. @MNHQ, why are these ridiculous bot threads allowed to stand?

JassyRadlett · 06/10/2024 18:48

pinkoink · 06/10/2024 18:29

@iloveeverykindofcat
@Namechangefordaughterevasion

Still, with non-religious slaughter, at least there is a chance the law was applied and the animal was stunned. In the case of religious slaughter, by definition it’s certain the animal had not been stunned.

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting this choice.

Edited

That's completely incorrect. The majority of halal meat produced in the U.K. is stunned before slaughter, as has been repeated multiple times on this thread.

Why repeat the lie?

Coruscations · 06/10/2024 18:51

It's amazing how many people who claim not to want halal meat are perfectly happy to eat Indian restaurant food and Indian microwave meals.

LetThereBeLove · 06/10/2024 18:51

Soontobe60 · 06/10/2024 16:19

There’s a big difference between a dietary preference and a diary need.
You would prefer that your DC doesn’t eat halal, she has a need to not eat diary or gluten (I’m assuming she has medically diagnosed allergies). With regards to school dinners, her choice will be very limited as a result of your preference.
What solution would you want the school to come up with - because buying non halal meat definitely won’t be one of them I’m guessing.

Why is the school ONLY buying halal meat is the question I'd be asking

NinetyNineOrangeBalloons · 06/10/2024 18:56

LetThereBeLove · 06/10/2024 18:51

Why is the school ONLY buying halal meat is the question I'd be asking

It isn’t. OP’s daughter can’t eat the non-halal meat (pork sausages) as they contain gluten.

School can’t offer unlimited choices.

pinkoink · 06/10/2024 19:00

JassyRadlett · 06/10/2024 18:48

That's completely incorrect. The majority of halal meat produced in the U.K. is stunned before slaughter, as has been repeated multiple times on this thread.

Why repeat the lie?

Yes, 65% according to RSPCA. My understanding is that for conventional slaughter this figure should be 100% as any lower than that would be indicating illegal activity? Plus, I was referring to religious slaughter in general as being exempt.

JassyRadlett · 06/10/2024 19:02

pinkoink · 06/10/2024 19:00

Yes, 65% according to RSPCA. My understanding is that for conventional slaughter this figure should be 100% as any lower than that would be indicating illegal activity? Plus, I was referring to religious slaughter in general as being exempt.

Edited

Indeed.

But it does mean that your statement "In the case of religious slaughter, by definition it’s certain the animal had not been stunned" is factually wrong.

samarrange · 06/10/2024 19:03

Coruscations · 06/10/2024 18:51

It's amazing how many people who claim not to want halal meat are perfectly happy to eat Indian restaurant food and Indian microwave meals.

And New Zealand lamb, a huge proportion of which is slaughtered on a halal basis before export.

pinkoink · 06/10/2024 19:04

JassyRadlett · 06/10/2024 19:02

Indeed.

But it does mean that your statement "In the case of religious slaughter, by definition it’s certain the animal had not been stunned" is factually wrong.

Yes, I see what you mean. I meant that in the case of religious slaughter there can be no reasonable expectation of the animal being stunned ‘by definition’, because it’s exempt from this requirement.

TwattyMcFuckFace · 06/10/2024 19:09

Dibbydoos · 06/10/2024 18:11

'Tiny minirity' what do you mean? Non Muslims are the minority or that most people don't give a fiddle?

For me buying halal is caving to the minority. They can bring packed lunches. We are a Christian country and halal slaughtering of animals isn't something I am good with either.

What do I mean?

I mean exactly what I said.

People who refuse to eat halal meats are a tiny minority, if they weren't, then the OP's school would need to supply non halal meat.

I didn't think my post was unclear?

pinkoink · 06/10/2024 19:09

Coruscations · 06/10/2024 18:47

But simple facts do not dictate that. Nowadays the only halal meat you will find that has not been stunned is in specialist butchers. The businesses that supply school food use standard slaughterhouses where all animals are stunned before slaughter.

This is reassuring to know. Thank you.