To feel slightly suspicious of dp

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Hi, I'm looking to know would YOU be suspicious? I'm not really suspicious but maybe a bit slightly?

So, dp works for his dads business and has for the last 10 years. Dp doesn't start work until 9. Usually he would set an alarm for 8:30 which sounds really late but his workplace is a 2 minute drive from our home. And he's really easy going 🤣. His dad doesn't drive but a workmate would always collect him.

About a month ago dp started setting alarms at 6.45-7:15 getting up and leaving the house within 10 mins of those alarms. (Extremely early from before) I've been with dp 5 years he's never up that early for work.

He says it's because he's starting to give his dad a lift to work every morning. His mum and dad live a 5 minute drive from our home. That's not too suspicious. But the thing that's making me go 🤨 is he's leaving home in the mornings in his normal clothes. He says he gets ready in his parents house just before he leaves for work as it's easier?

He has a specific work uniform. He would always get ready here before leaving.

So he's started leaving the house over an hour earlier than usual and not getting ready here?

Would you be suspicious?

No the driving ban theory still makes sense - presumably the FIL drives DH in his own car, and DH leaves his car at the PIL.

The bit that doesn’t make sense is leaving in normal clothes and coming home in work uniform.

Sorry this is happening OP! Can your friend check later around leaving time and see where your partner is coming from to retrieve his car?

The driving ban theory could be easily put to bed if the OP confirms whether he drives at other times

The FIL doesn't drive, though?

I don’t think this is completely implausible.

Of course! I forgot about that bit - I think I was just hoping for the OP’s sake it was a driving ban and not something worse.

I am so baffled by this behaviour I hope OP gets to the bottom of it (and updates us!)

His dad doesn't drive. It's in the opening post.

I suppose the workmate could take them both if he’s picking up FIL anyway, and would still explain OP’s partner’s car being at PIL all day.

Could he have been having an affair for a while when he was supposed to be at work and the OW has recently had a baby that’s he getting up early to go and help out with?

OP this is horrible for you, he's lying about something that's for sure. When is he due home from work today?

Just a thought…is it possible that his mum is unwell and needing care and he hasn’t told you due to your falling out with his parents?

Maybe they’ve even asked him not to say anything?

So he says he's at work but he isn't? I mean, I know you said his dad answered the phone, but did his dad say he wasn't there?

Very coincidental that he left earlier today. He has either seen your phone or the friend has told him …nothing makes sense !

This..

This would be me too! If you know where his parents live, it is easily done.

Did you also ‘surprise’ him at work early? You could go in with a cup of tea/coffee….

Why is DH picking up FIL for work (and another employee before that) if FIL can drive? 🙄

Really? Seriously? I mean there are people who are nuts enough to make up a story and start a thread about it?! 😱God, I hope this isn't true.

She has been away for a while. What if she never comes back?

@AngelicKaty there's loads of made up posts on here , usually the most interesting ones 😂. Often go to look at a watched thread and it's been deleted. Tend to have real time action friend following partner etc

This

The one with the rat.
The one with the crows.
Buggers.

Hope it’s not what most of us think it is - good luck.

They are on here all the time. Similar to this post, and when it’s pointed out how will you do this, like in this case it was pointed out how will op manage to get her baby out to her friends car and does her friend even have a car seat, without her dh seeing her..and op straight away changed her plans.

Wouldn’t happen if it was real, because then you would already have thought about this..

Not saying this is what this thread of course, but Yup, some budding writers do it to test a story line or feel what the audience is expecting to happen i.e. LTB or OW frequently turns up.