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Labour voters - do you regret voting for them?

359 replies

MeadowL · 23/09/2024 13:32

They got off to a really bad start and it's just gone downhill ever since. Within a couple of weeks we practically had martial law, we've had riots you name it. Law and order has completely broken down. They've cut the pensioners fuel allowance and all the while they've had their snouts in the trough. 2 tier Keir approval rating has fallen off a cliff - the country has had enough already lol.

Aibu to think that those who voted them in should apologise.

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TENSsion · 29/09/2024 13:47

cardibach · 29/09/2024 13:16

Because she’s the only one who has resigned citing it as a reason. Obviously.

I’m very concerned by the fact nearly all the Labour MPs voted for something they’re so politically and ethically opposed to.

Coercion?

pointythings · 29/09/2024 13:50

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 13:47

I’m very concerned by the fact nearly all the Labour MPs voted for something they’re so politically and ethically opposed to.

Coercion?

It's called whipped voting and it has been a feature of British politics for decades at least. If you didn't know this, you REALLY haven't been paying attention. It has always been a feature of governments here. And it is nothing at all to do with which party is in power.

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 13:51

pointythings · 29/09/2024 13:23

When it comes to women's prisons I'm probably in agreement with you - the prison estate needs to accommodate trans people separately. However, given that it was left without any kind of capacity by the previous government, that piece of work is going to take considerable time.

For the rest of it I have no problems with trans people taking up the benefit of these latest policies. A DV victim is a DV victim - it doesn't matter how they identify, they should get housing priority. The vast, vast majority of DV victims are biological women. Some won't be. Are you saying this last group should be excluded just because they're trans?

Edited

So we shouldn’t have female only victims of domestic violence support services?

pointythings · 29/09/2024 13:53

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 29/09/2024 13:31

For the rest of it I have no problems with trans people taking up the benefit of these latest policies. A DV victim is a DV victim - it doesn't matter how they identify, they should get housing priority. The vast, vast majority of DV victims are biological women. Some won't be. Are you saying this last group should be excluded just because they're trans?

No. We're saying they shouldn't be in places where vulnerable females need space away from males to heal. Transwomen are male and need their own spaces.

Just look at how ERCC have harmed rape victims with their trans inclusions policy to see the issues.

And I am saying, as I have said in the runup to the election, that there are many Labour policies which will benefit far more women than any policies around the trans issue. Because there aren't millions of predatory men pretending to be women to get at women - but there are millions of women being harmed by the current rules on DV, rape and employment rights. You're single issue on this - I get it. But the election result should have told you that the vast majority of voters did not feel this was their top priority.

cardibach · 29/09/2024 13:53

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 13:47

I’m very concerned by the fact nearly all the Labour MPs voted for something they’re so politically and ethically opposed to.

Coercion?

Part of being in government if you want to stay in the party. Is it right? Not sure really. But not voting against the government and then resigning citing that vote as a reason? Definitely dodgy.

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 13:54

pointythings · 29/09/2024 13:50

It's called whipped voting and it has been a feature of British politics for decades at least. If you didn't know this, you REALLY haven't been paying attention. It has always been a feature of governments here. And it is nothing at all to do with which party is in power.

Yes. That’s called coercion in any other situation.

ToWhitToWhoo · 29/09/2024 13:54

nearlylovemyusername · 27/09/2024 14:24

@Slinky1460 agree completely, but there is another, much scarier, scenario - electorate will be so frustrated with both that I can fully anticipate Reform getting substantial numbers.

Starmer promised to give vote to 16yo who are usually pro Labour. Well, given TikTok, Reform actually led in this category

Yes, Reform is indeed my greatest fear. And the far-right element among young males (far less among females). Even if they don't get the vote at 16, they'll get it eventually. And become part of adult society more generally. I hope that they end up rejecting the likes of Andrew Tate before it is too late.

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 13:55

pointythings · 29/09/2024 13:53

And I am saying, as I have said in the runup to the election, that there are many Labour policies which will benefit far more women than any policies around the trans issue. Because there aren't millions of predatory men pretending to be women to get at women - but there are millions of women being harmed by the current rules on DV, rape and employment rights. You're single issue on this - I get it. But the election result should have told you that the vast majority of voters did not feel this was their top priority.

And we’re saying if you include males in your definition of “woman”, then your claims to want to improve things for “women” is meaningless.

cardibach · 29/09/2024 13:55

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 13:51

So we shouldn’t have female only victims of domestic violence support services?

Read it again. It’s not about support services, it’s about housing priority.

BIossomtoes · 29/09/2024 13:55

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 13:13

I see your hypocrisy.

Here is a list of all the MPs who voted against the WFA.

Why did you target Rosie specifically?

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cy0rx80yq8jo.amp

She didn’t vote. Why didn’t she put her money where her mouth is? She didn’t vote for abolishing the two child benefit cap either. What’s the point of her being there?

cardibach · 29/09/2024 13:56

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 13:54

Yes. That’s called coercion in any other situation.

They aren’t in any other situation.

pointythings · 29/09/2024 13:56

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 13:51

So we shouldn’t have female only victims of domestic violence support services?

I didn't say that. <sigh> I said that this piece of policy is going to be massively beneficial to victims of DV, the vast majority of which are biological women. I'm not a single issue voter, I look at the bigger picture.

Yes, refuge services should be single sex, with separate provision for trans people - if only because they will require specialist support tailored to their particular situation.

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 13:58

pointythings · 29/09/2024 13:56

I didn't say that. <sigh> I said that this piece of policy is going to be massively beneficial to victims of DV, the vast majority of which are biological women. I'm not a single issue voter, I look at the bigger picture.

Yes, refuge services should be single sex, with separate provision for trans people - if only because they will require specialist support tailored to their particular situation.

But women who want to have female-only provision, female-only intimate care etc. is “waffle”?

ToWhitToWhoo · 29/09/2024 14:00

pointythings · 29/09/2024 13:23

When it comes to women's prisons I'm probably in agreement with you - the prison estate needs to accommodate trans people separately. However, given that it was left without any kind of capacity by the previous government, that piece of work is going to take considerable time.

For the rest of it I have no problems with trans people taking up the benefit of these latest policies. A DV victim is a DV victim - it doesn't matter how they identify, they should get housing priority. The vast, vast majority of DV victims are biological women. Some won't be. Are you saying this last group should be excluded just because they're trans?

Edited

Agree on all these points. Also, a minority of DV victims are non-trans biological males, abused either by female partners or in same-sex relationships. They also deserve housing priority.

cardibach · 29/09/2024 14:02

Any news on whether you can see Duffield’s hypocrisy, @TENSsion ?

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 14:07

cardibach · 29/09/2024 14:02

Any news on whether you can see Duffield’s hypocrisy, @TENSsion ?

Any news on what a woman is, @cardibach ?

cardibach · 29/09/2024 14:08

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 14:07

Any news on what a woman is, @cardibach ?

Irrelevant to my question. However you responded to a post about Duffield’s hypocrisy, so it’s rather relevant to that, wouldn’t you say?

EasternStandard · 29/09/2024 14:08

Duffield is not a hypocrite she pointed Starmer is, which is the case

ilovesooty · 29/09/2024 14:09

Duffield ought to be subject to a by election immediately.

ToWhitToWhoo · 29/09/2024 14:12

More generally, I do dislike the fact that in our system, most votes are 'whipped', and the party leader has it 'my way or the highway', and you've got to vote with your party like a cloned sheep, or leave it altogether. One of many reasons why I could never be an M.P.! But it's true of both main parties, and to some extent the others, and not specific to Labour .

cardibach · 29/09/2024 14:12

EasternStandard · 29/09/2024 14:08

Duffield is not a hypocrite she pointed Starmer is, which is the case

She 8s though. She said she resigned over

  • the 2 child cap - manifesto promise
  • donations - information fully available to her pre election
  • abbott’s expulsion - and yet she didn’t resign before Abbott was reinstated
  • the WFA - which she didn’t vote against when she had the chance.
None of those stack up. She used Labour money and contacts and the fact Labour were favourites to win, to get elected as an MP. She’s resigned on,y weeks into the parliamentary session. If she wasn’t a hypocrite she’d have resigned earlier and stood as an independent or, if something she’s not telling us has been a last straw, she should resign as an MP and stand as an independent in the by election. I said the same about Tory MPs who resigned the whip.
BIossomtoes · 29/09/2024 14:12

EasternStandard · 29/09/2024 14:08

Duffield is not a hypocrite she pointed Starmer is, which is the case

Of course she is. She was elected on false pretences. She didn’t vote against means testing WFA or retaining the two child benefit cap. She didn’t defend or support Diane Abbott during the period she was suspended. She’s the definition of hypocrisy.

pointythings · 29/09/2024 14:19

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 13:58

But women who want to have female-only provision, female-only intimate care etc. is “waffle”?

I didn't say that either. However, I do think that people who think that this issue is a more pressing priority than all the issues that affect so many more people are waffling on and missing the bigger picture.

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 14:20

pointythings · 29/09/2024 14:19

I didn't say that either. However, I do think that people who think that this issue is a more pressing priority than all the issues that affect so many more people are waffling on and missing the bigger picture.

You don’t consider women’s rights to be a big issue?

ilovesooty · 29/09/2024 14:21

cardibach · 29/09/2024 14:12

She 8s though. She said she resigned over

  • the 2 child cap - manifesto promise
  • donations - information fully available to her pre election
  • abbott’s expulsion - and yet she didn’t resign before Abbott was reinstated
  • the WFA - which she didn’t vote against when she had the chance.
None of those stack up. She used Labour money and contacts and the fact Labour were favourites to win, to get elected as an MP. She’s resigned on,y weeks into the parliamentary session. If she wasn’t a hypocrite she’d have resigned earlier and stood as an independent or, if something she’s not telling us has been a last straw, she should resign as an MP and stand as an independent in the by election. I said the same about Tory MPs who resigned the whip.

Exactly. My opinion applies to any MP, of any political party who gives up the whip or crosses the floor. If you no longer represent the party whose manifesto you were elected on, your constituents should have the chance to decide whether they want to vote for you as an Independent or elect someone else.