... in asking if you have ever watched porn with DH/DP?

[Einhverdottir]

I've done a NC for this post. My DP asked if I'd watch some with him.

I'm asking this question for women perspective. I know the title will attract a lot of the men readers, but not really interested in their replies.

YABU: I've never watched porn with DH/DP
YANBU: I've have watched porn with DH/DP

TLDR: In a new relationship with a nice man for 18 months. Exclusive. I really like him. Both divorced and no kids. Due to location, we had only gotten to see each other every 2nd weekend. But now we're both relocated to the same city. We both prefer to have our own places and spaces for now, no plans for anything more.

I've watch some porn in the past on my own, read erotica, etc. It is not something I need. I have the usual ethics concerns, but am sure I could find something. Also, working in cybersecurity area I'm somewhat paranoid about these things in general.

Legality, bombardment of ads, wouldn’t know where to start, search history…?
I don’t know if there’s any privacy on the internet.

Legality - look for Literotica or look on Reddit, both are legal. There’s probably loads more but they’re a good start. I’ve never come across anything illegal, I’m not even sure if you could, without going into the dark web (is that what’s it’s called?). Google blocks things like that.

Bombardment of ads - adverts on both those sites is unobtrusive, like on Mumsnet. It’s there but not in your face.

Wouldn’t know where to start - see above. Literotica has ‘stories and pics’ then within that the style like age gap, gay etc. And Reddit has a huge number of sections, called ‘subs’, you just have to put in some keywords and have a look.

Search history - as long as you do it on your own private device eg phone, you’re fine. I think porn is the most searched for thing, no one is interested if Mrs Jones from Leicester looks at age gap stories. Just don’t use your real name if you join any forums. Call yourself ‘Julie from Lincoln’. That’ll confound everyone 😆.

Yes as part of a healthy sex life, I enjoy it.

he watches it 🤣....she just hasnt found out 🤣🤣