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Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

687 replies

Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

OP posts:
MayaPinion · 22/11/2024 11:40

For half a million I’d throw in a blowie as well.

JoyousTern · 22/11/2024 13:48

peachgreen · 12/09/2024 23:39

Almost certainly. Sex can be incredibly meaningful and special — but it can also be transactional and unserious. I don’t have a difficulty separating the two. Whether I’d let my other half do the same thing I’m not so sure!

So you’re basically ok being a prostitute but you’re not sure about letting your partner do the same? 😂

peachgreen · 22/11/2024 16:46

JoyousTern · 22/11/2024 13:48

So you’re basically ok being a prostitute but you’re not sure about letting your partner do the same? 😂

…Yes, that’s what I said?

OldScribbler · 22/11/2024 16:50

MarkingBad · 12/09/2024 23:47

I'm over 50 and don't currently have a partner ... a tenner would do, hell I'd probably pay him! 😆

Refreshing honesty. Why did I never meet someone like you when younger?

Boomer55 · 22/11/2024 16:53

No, I wouldn’t because I’m not a paid sex worker. But each to their own…👍

JoyousTern · 22/11/2024 17:41

peachgreen · 22/11/2024 16:46

…Yes, that’s what I said?

In that case there’s only the price to negotiate. I’ll offer you £120 for a great hour. 🤣

Newname71 · 22/11/2024 17:54

Absobloodylutely!!
im pretty sure I’ve done it for a pint and a bag of nuts in my younger days!!

OldScribbler · 23/11/2024 10:35

JoyousTern · 22/11/2024 17:41

In that case there’s only the price to negotiate. I’ll offer you £120 for a great hour. 🤣

A reasonable rate, too, if you're good at it, as no doubt you are.

OldScribbler · 23/11/2024 10:40

Newname71 · 22/11/2024 17:54

Absobloodylutely!!
im pretty sure I’ve done it for a pint and a bag of nuts in my younger days!!

How refreshingly honest. Being a gentleman I would have bought them.

TheEyesOfLucyJordon · 23/11/2024 11:07

No.

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 23/11/2024 11:16

For half a million? Probably not. A million, probably.

Yotomoto · 23/11/2024 11:20

Boomer55 · 22/11/2024 16:53

No, I wouldn’t because I’m not a paid sex worker. But each to their own…👍

For half a mil I'd be a paid sex worker, show me where to sign. Beats data entry in the office hands down.

NotSoHotMess24 · 23/11/2024 11:34

PetuniaT · 14/09/2024 21:35

Reminds me of the Winston Churchill story:
“Churchill: "Madam, would you sleep with me for five million pounds?" Socialite: "My goodness, Mr. Churchill... Well, I suppose... we would have to discuss terms, of course... "
Churchill: "Would you sleep with me for five pounds?"
Socialite: "Mr. Churchill, what kind of woman do you think I am?!"
Churchill: "Madam, we've already established that. Now we are haggling about the price.”
We've already established that they will fork. Now we are haggling about the price.

and that's what kind of woman you would be!

Winston comes across as a bit of an arse in that story.

Tomorrowisyesterday · 23/11/2024 12:15

He does, yes. I mean suppose someone asked to sleep with you and in return could promise a cure for cancer, or world peace. You could argue it would be morally wrong to refuse. But that is still a "price" if you like so you have accepted there is a price worth your body.

OldScribbler · 23/11/2024 18:12

NotSoHotMess24 · 23/11/2024 11:34

Winston comes across as a bit of an arse in that story.

It was not Churchill who said that;it was George Bernard Shaw.

HRTQueen · 23/11/2024 18:22

As a one off no
I’m quite sure it’s not as psychologically damaging as the constant endless worrying about being skint does, it drags you down and impacts your physical and mental health

my answer is yes I would op

IBlameTheDog · 23/11/2024 18:23

500k would change my life.

Bloody right I'd do it!!

Claire903 · 24/11/2024 12:27

Can't believe this thread is still going 😂

LoveLifeBeHappy · 26/11/2024 10:42

I know a few single mums who have done this for about £1k.

Newsenmum · 26/11/2024 16:35

LoveLifeBeHappy · 26/11/2024 10:42

I know a few single mums who have done this for about £1k.

God thats sad. I’d feel icky forever 😭 no money would make up for it

tuvamoodyson · 26/11/2024 16:52

No.

OldScribbler · 26/11/2024 19:02

LoveLifeBeHappy · 26/11/2024 10:42

I know a few single mums who have done this for about £1k.

Anyone who gets £1k for one sexual encounter is to be congratulated, not scorned. Or convicted of lying. It's so many miles above the going rate as to be absurd.

OldScribbler · 26/11/2024 19:08

HRTQueen · 23/11/2024 18:22

As a one off no
I’m quite sure it’s not as psychologically damaging as the constant endless worrying about being skint does, it drags you down and impacts your physical and mental health

my answer is yes I would op

Edited

Congratulations. Someone honest!

LoveLifeBeHappy · 27/11/2024 10:15

OldScribbler · 26/11/2024 19:02

Anyone who gets £1k for one sexual encounter is to be congratulated, not scorned. Or convicted of lying. It's so many miles above the going rate as to be absurd.

Edited

Do this once a week, that's £4k a month for about half an hour's work. Easy money in my opinion.

RhaenysRocks · 27/11/2024 11:13

I agree. The difference it would make to me and my kids' futures is huge. I've always been able to separate sex from emotion. If I thought I could do it with NO chance of it being uncovered I would.

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