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Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

687 replies

Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

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SquirrelSoShiny · 14/09/2024 18:53

Probably as long as he's clean, disease-free and reasonably respectful.

37Steps37seconds · 14/09/2024 18:54

tweaking the question slightly would you have sex with Trump if offered 100k?

OpalGoose · 14/09/2024 18:56

37Steps37seconds · 14/09/2024 18:54

tweaking the question slightly would you have sex with Trump if offered 100k?

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No, because he could afford to pay a lot more than that.

fetchacloth · 14/09/2024 18:57

Oh yes.

Claire903 · 14/09/2024 18:58

Arraminta · 14/09/2024 18:38

I wouldn't think twice. I'd prefer to do it doggy style though so I could more easily read my book.

Seriously though, it's just a physical act. A bit of him rubbing against a bit of me. I'm a middle aged woman who has had several penises, a thousand tampons, many speculums and a dozen internals from HCPs in my vagina. And never earned a penny.

So another penis? For a million quid. Hell yeah!

I agree. Doggy is the way forward here. Question is, what book would it be? Or would you be on a site browsing luxury holidays?!

Honest00lad · 14/09/2024 19:02

I've got a lottery ticket tonight.

Coldcoffeeclub · 14/09/2024 19:03

As someone who has previously been part of the swinging scene I would do it to pay of my overdraft if I thought someone would have me tbh and doubt my partner would object as we've been swinging together many a time and obviously don't get money for that!

LoveLifeBeHappy · 14/09/2024 19:18

Abbylikeswine · 12/09/2024 23:49

Does nobody wonder about the psychological damage it would do to you?

Not for the right number. Besides, I’ll have enough to cover therapy and be busy spending the cash…

The truth is, I think everyone has a price.

LoveLifeBeHappy · 14/09/2024 19:21

Beezknees · 14/09/2024 15:41

There is no such thing as love at first sight. You cannot love someone that you don't truly know.

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Agreed.

LoveLifeBeHappy · 14/09/2024 19:24

Newsenmum · 13/09/2024 12:31

I mean it sounds grim. If they’re not attractive it would be horrendous. The smell, the sweat… ugh.

But if they’re attractive and smell nice?

OldScribbler · 14/09/2024 19:51

Cobblersorchard · 12/09/2024 23:43

Yes I would, absolutely. I’ve done far worse in my youth!
I’d probably do it for £50k I reckon, £500k and I’d do a whole football team.

Alas I’m fairly sure absolutely no-one would pay £5 these days.

"Honesty is not only the best policy; it is rare enough nowadays to make you pleasantly conspicuous" - a made by a famous adman about 80 years ago. Unfortunately your prices are about 50 times above the going rate.

AllstarFacilier · 14/09/2024 19:59

Half a million? Definitely. If I was single I’d do it for a lot less.

LG123 · 14/09/2024 20:03

Not sure I'd go back to it as I'm not longer single but it wasn't that long ago I was a working girl for £200ph! So it's a yes from me if I wasn't with anyone, however as I guess with ages I'd not want to do it anymore.

LG123 · 14/09/2024 20:05

But half a million? Almost absolutely, I've done it for much much less than that 😅

Sapphire387 · 14/09/2024 20:08

No, I'm married and don't want to cheat on my husband.

In my single days? Still no, I want better sex than lying there letting some bloke use me as a wank sock. Even for money. It's just too grim.

MayaPinion · 14/09/2024 20:23

Ixon · 13/09/2024 22:20

Trump is a bit extreme. Barring no repulsive world leaders...Putin also in that's camp

Fuck it, I’d even do Nigel Farage for half a million + two bottles of Jacob’s Creek, as long as I could drink the booze first 😂

IDontHateRainbows · 14/09/2024 20:24

Sapphire387 · 14/09/2024 20:08

No, I'm married and don't want to cheat on my husband.

In my single days? Still no, I want better sex than lying there letting some bloke use me as a wank sock. Even for money. It's just too grim.

No need to cheat.. see if he's up for sharing the dough.

MayaPinion · 14/09/2024 20:29

OpalGoose · 14/09/2024 18:56

No, because he could afford to pay a lot more than that.

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No, because I’m pretty sure he’s incontinent and I don’t think I could cope with that.

FunWithFlagz · 14/09/2024 20:31

Snoringfamily · 13/09/2024 00:28

Ok doesn’t have to be missionary to those asking, but isn’t that the easiest, less worst option?! Get very drunk, close eyes, think of the money 😬

No, you could smell them and they might kiss you! Definitely doggy style! They’d not last very long and your face is as far away as you can get it. I’d do it for 500k. My life would be significantly better without a mortgage and I could buy my STBXH out of his share.

Bloom15 · 14/09/2024 20:40

Abbylikeswine · 12/09/2024 23:49

Does nobody wonder about the psychological damage it would do to you?

No as I have had sex I wasn't particularly up for in the past and it hasn't scarred me. At least I would be paid!

dreamer24 · 14/09/2024 20:40

Christ YES for half a million. But only if u didn't have to kiss him (unless he was gorgeous and smelled nice). Otherwise, sex only with no kissing.

dreamer24 · 14/09/2024 20:41

Only if I didn't have to kiss him that should be.

BCBird · 14/09/2024 20:45

Trump- absolutely not

Bloom15 · 14/09/2024 21:00

Precipice · 13/09/2024 00:58

To numerous PPs who mention having had sex they "regretted": on what basis? Didn't you choose these men because you felt they were attractive or looked acceptable to you? Surely there was still a minimum aspect of selection of the guy?

I don't think this scenario is comparable. You chose to sleep with that man. Here, the scenario is a guy you'd never ever consent to sleep with otherwise.

But I would be choosing to sleep with him - for money

ObieJoyful · 14/09/2024 21:01

When I was really skint, a friend of my then boyfriend asked me to sleep with him for 1k. I said no because he was repulsive. I’d have said no to much more as well.

If I’d have been really attracted to him, I may have been turned on by the offer, but I doubt it- the idea of someone thinking they could control me sexually, with money, is something I find disturbing.

(boyfriend wasn’t a particularly serious relationship btw)

Now I’m married, it would be a flat ‘no’.

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