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Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

687 replies

Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

OP posts:
fortheveryfirsttime · 16/09/2024 10:06

Absolutely I would and would be ok with my partner doing it purely for the cash too. I suspect he wouldn't though.

Half a million buys us a house and some treats so life changing for us.

ThrillhouseVanHouten · 16/09/2024 10:08

Enough to buy a lovely house outright, for 2 minutes of non-work?

Of course.

Mt61 · 16/09/2024 10:08

Cobblersorchard · 12/09/2024 23:43

Yes I would, absolutely. I’ve done far worse in my youth!
I’d probably do it for £50k I reckon, £500k and I’d do a whole football team.

Alas I’m fairly sure absolutely no-one would pay £5 these days.

most would do it for free these days. My hubby said he would for 1/2 mill 🤣

Jellybeanz456 · 16/09/2024 10:31

MarkingBad · 12/09/2024 23:47

I'm over 50 and don't currently have a partner ... a tenner would do, hell I'd probably pay him! 😆

🤣😂

DOBARDAN · 16/09/2024 10:51

I've read a few of the responses here and will probably catch up with the rest which are featured in the Daily Mail, one day next week!

Arraminta · 16/09/2024 11:39

Mt61 · 16/09/2024 10:08

most would do it for free these days. My hubby said he would for 1/2 mill 🤣

This reminds me of when DH (then DP) and I watched the original 'Indecent Proposal' and he freely admitted that he would happily shag Robert Redford for a million quid.

I love his pragmatic attitude.

Goodtogossip · 16/09/2024 13:44

Depends on who it was with. Seriously though, if you enjoy sex & didn't feel you would regret it why not. Not sure I could but wouldn't say it's a definite no.

Buffypaws · 16/09/2024 16:35

I’ve had sex I’ve regretted for free. May as well have gotten paid.

Arraminta · 16/09/2024 22:13

Buffypaws · 16/09/2024 16:35

I’ve had sex I’ve regretted for free. May as well have gotten paid.

Well quite, I can look back at some very banal, free sex and wonder why I bothered. For a million quid I would put on quite a show and maybe even take my vest off.

GivingitToGod · 16/09/2024 22:31

Synchronisedwitches · 13/09/2024 00:05

For 500k? Yes for sure.
I'm not sure what my limit would be..
I've got 100k left on the mortgage so maybe that as it would be life changing...
But to be really honest with you anything over 10k I'd have to seriously consider..
I think it might be the end of my marriage if I did that... so it's also would I end my marriage for that money?
Things aren't great at the moment and actually if it weren't for the mortgage I might have left by now anyway..
So definitely 100k

Thank u for being honest

LoveLifeBeHappy · 17/09/2024 09:52

DOBARDAN · 16/09/2024 10:51

I've read a few of the responses here and will probably catch up with the rest which are featured in the Daily Mail, one day next week!

How is this discussion related to the Daily Mail?

Harry12345 · 17/09/2024 10:11

RhaenysRocks · 13/09/2024 06:59

I'm sure some do but you speak as though it's a certainty. I can easily separate physical sex from any sort of personal feelings and if by doing this I cleared my mortgage and had savings for my kids I absolutely would. And I'd happily justify it to anyone who cared to ask. The only way it's "shameful" is if you think sex for a woman is somehow bad unless she has a ring on her finger.

I don’t think you need a ring on your finger but I always need to feel cared for and respected, I’ve never had a one night stand. I wish I could separate the two but I can’t

Errors · 17/09/2024 10:37

I’d do it for half a million!!

Sartre · 17/09/2024 10:42

Depends completely on the guy to be honest. I really couldn’t bring myself to do it with a butt ugly morbidly obese guy who stank like shit and had furry teeth, even for a million…

AhBiscuits · 17/09/2024 10:46

If I was single and they weren't gross, probably.
Slept with plenty of pretty low quality men in my youth for free.

T1Dmama · 18/09/2024 15:27

It’s not something that is ever going to happen… but it depends on A LOT of factors.
If I was single or not… (100% no if in a serious loving relationship)
It would also depend on the bloke… I’m sorry but money or no money I’m not having sex with some toothless, smelly scruffy bloke..
im not sure how I’d feel after though as I’ve never been one to have one night stands, and there needs to be some level of attraction/connection.

takealettermsjones · 18/09/2024 15:30

Arraminta · 16/09/2024 22:13

Well quite, I can look back at some very banal, free sex and wonder why I bothered. For a million quid I would put on quite a show and maybe even take my vest off.

This made me laugh so much 🤣 🤣 🤣

takealettermsjones · 18/09/2024 15:32

And to the question - for half a million, probably not. A million I think I would. No I don't know exactly where the line is 🤣 maybe 800k.

Poodleydoodley · 18/09/2024 22:25

Everyone has their price! For a million I’m anyones! 🤣😂

Mt61 · 18/09/2024 22:38

Jellybeanz456 · 16/09/2024 10:31

🤣😂

🤣

Mt61 · 18/09/2024 22:55

Arraminta · 16/09/2024 11:39

This reminds me of when DH (then DP) and I watched the original 'Indecent Proposal' and he freely admitted that he would happily shag Robert Redford for a million quid.

I love his pragmatic attitude.

Ha. Me too 🤣

OonaStubbs · 19/09/2024 01:37

I don't really understand why anyone wouldn't do it unless they are already rich.

asdfgasdfg · 25/09/2024 13:20

when they said would you sleep with Robert Redford for half a million dollars I replied I don't have that much but if he'd take a couple of hundred, gladly

Pinkdhalia · 21/11/2024 17:54

Yes I would, I've done love and sex . Done two and me. And I accepted money. I'm free to have sex as and when and with whomever I want, so yes absolutely, it's sex no regrets gotta live this life !

OldScribbler · 22/11/2024 03:01

Ha ha. At my age I take what I can get!

There is an old, funny story about this, about the writer George Bernard Shaw at a dinner party.

He asked a women sitting next to him if she would sleep with him for £100 - then a huge sum.

She agreed. He then asked if she would for half a crown - about 30p today.

She replied scornfully "What do you take me for?"

"We have already established what you are.We are now just discussing the price" he said.

Personally I have aways rather liked whores. I lived with one when young. The most jealous woman I ever met.

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