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Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

687 replies

Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

OP posts:
BucketofTeaMassiveCake · 13/09/2024 15:26

I'm not sure as there are certain caveats. Do we like each other? Is he physically attractive? Is he clean, no dirty or raggedy fingernails, body odour or bad breath? Is there a significant reason why he hasn't a partner? Has he any horrible, degrading or illegal kinks?

Whether I'd agree would depend on so much. I wouldn't have to worry about a jealous partner but I'd give it a great deal of thought. And there's always 'fall out' with any deal like this.

Katielovesteatime · 13/09/2024 15:31

Definitely yes! I’d tell DH to as well if he had the chance!

Flossyts · 13/09/2024 16:16

readysteadynono · 13/09/2024 07:31

That’s a utilitarian ethnical model (ends justifying the means) which isn’t a Christian ethical model. It’s not because God wouldn’t forgive you, of course he could and would. It’s about what damage that would be done to you spiritually by uniting with someone for money. I used to volunteer in a charity for sex workers and have seen how traumatic it can be, even when the ‘clients’ are rich and ‘nice’. As a Christian your body is not merely something to be used which is separate from your true self. Your self is seen as a holistic thing and includes your body.

If anyone reading has been involved in sex work and feels regret, please know you are precious and your very self is holy. You aren’t discarded by God, the very opposite. He seeks you and loves you.

My point was rather that I think everyone has a price. For some, it will be higher than others.
whilst many would and will judge - everyone has a price.
Couldnt feed your children? Father needs life saving medication….. the price lowers.
I think your statement only goes so far 🤷‍♀️

HauntedbyMagpies · 13/09/2024 18:56

I haven't had sex since January 2016 (had to specify the month!) so I'd do it for free AND give him a brew after

JohnTheRevelator · 13/09/2024 19:21

Yes. But only for £100,000. That sort of money would be life changing for me. They'd have to pay upfront though.....

Ixon · 13/09/2024 22:20

Trump is a bit extreme. Barring no repulsive world leaders...Putin also in that's camp

betterangels · 13/09/2024 22:21

Women do this all the time. For a house and a lifestyle. I don't see the difference, except this would be over much faster, and I'd not be cooking or doing the washing. Win in my book.

OpalGoose · 14/09/2024 02:17

I asked DH tonight if he would object to me having sex with someone else so that we could be financially secure for the rest of our lives. His first question was man or woman? I said anyone, to see where it would go, he said as long as it was a one off then he would agree to it. That's got me thinking, zero chance of complications with another woman as far as I can see.

Catsmere · 14/09/2024 03:18

No. I've never had sex and now, long past menopause, never feel the slightest sexual stirrings. It would be horrifically painful (I'm assuming the question means sex with a man). Much as I'd love that amount of money, which would secure me for life, that would be too high a price to pay.

IDontHateRainbows · 14/09/2024 03:45

I totally would. Would clear it with DH first but I'm sure he'd be persuadable for that sum.

kkloo · 14/09/2024 04:36

Synchronisedwitches · 13/09/2024 00:12

And I don't think it would be any more psychologically damaging than anything else I've experienced in life only this time I'd have 100k to help me get over it..

A good extension of this discussion is body parts.
Me and a friend who works in insurance were discussing that girl who got the payout from alton towers when her legs got crushed on the Smiler.
And how she may actually have considered it a lucky thing to have happened to her as she can now walk again with prosthetic legs and live a relatively normal life.. but she got 1million plus payout at 18 so she never has to worry much about money...
So we were discussing what body parts we'd give up for how much money..
Apparently there's a list of how much body parts are worth in terms of insurance and/or in court cases regarding accidents that weren't your fault!! There's a whole list of what say, losing a finger, or an ear, would be worth financially

That's insane that your friend thought that that was a lucky thing to happen and that a million pound payout at 18 means she never has to worry much about money.

And this friend apparently works IN insurance? 😳😳

The two girls that suffered amputations actually got £2 million + each, but that is to cover absolutely everything, their prosthetics need to be replaced every few years, they would be more likely to need carers when they're older than the rest of the general population and possibly for a lot longer, their homes will need to be adapted etc when they're older....much of that money will have to be kept for all of their future costs. They could live for another 60 years!

They were desperately unlucky, definitely not lucky.

dayslikethese1 · 14/09/2024 06:14

Not unless I was really desperate for money no.

Honest00lad · 14/09/2024 11:34

Eyeslikethesea · 13/09/2024 10:50

I’m a 47 yo woman whose husband hasn’t come near her in nearly 8 years. I would probably pay them lol

😲 got to think of the health implications. It's a massive risk. Health is wealth.

BIossomtoes · 14/09/2024 11:36

Honest00lad · 14/09/2024 11:34

😲 got to think of the health implications. It's a massive risk. Health is wealth.

Never heard of condoms?

Honest00lad · 14/09/2024 11:43

BIossomtoes · 14/09/2024 11:36

Never heard of condoms?

You think someone who has paid half a million or whatever would use a condom?

MsLavender · 14/09/2024 11:45

Honest00lad · 14/09/2024 11:43

You think someone who has paid half a million or whatever would use a condom?

They could be tested before hand to prove a clean bill of health before intercourse takes place.

Honest00lad · 14/09/2024 11:46

MsLavender · 14/09/2024 11:45

They could be tested before hand to prove a clean bill of health before intercourse takes place.

Yes, they'd need the paperwork

Claire903 · 14/09/2024 11:56

MsLavender · 14/09/2024 11:45

They could be tested before hand to prove a clean bill of health before intercourse takes place.

This would be a non negotiable
As would having a shower first
And having someone outside the door just in case.
And definitely not missionary...doggy would be more suitable. I wouldn't want them breathing on me, looking at my face or sweating on me.

BIossomtoes · 14/09/2024 12:13

Honest00lad · 14/09/2024 11:43

You think someone who has paid half a million or whatever would use a condom?

They would if they valued their health.

Honest00lad · 14/09/2024 12:19

BIossomtoes · 14/09/2024 12:13

They would if they valued their health.

Very true. Huge risks, especially thesedays.
Imagine paying a million for and std

babbi · 14/09/2024 12:20

Cobblersorchard · 12/09/2024 23:43

Yes I would, absolutely. I’ve done far worse in my youth!
I’d probably do it for £50k I reckon, £500k and I’d do a whole football team.

Alas I’m fairly sure absolutely no-one would pay £5 these days.

Agree 💯 !!
sadly 🤣🤣

JudgeJ · 14/09/2024 12:29

DamnUserName21 · 13/09/2024 13:48

Yep, I would. If he looked like Robert Redford, all the better!

Memories of when the film was out. We were in the middle of an Ofsted, lunchtime, raining, a few of my year 11 form were using the classroom to eat their lunch, one asked me Miss, would you sleep with Robert Redford for a million dollars?! My reply was Where would I find a million dollars?!. Cue coughing and sputtering from another area out of sight, one of the inspectors was choking laughing on her lunch!

Makingchocolatecake · 14/09/2024 12:44

My dh would say I could but only if it was with a girl and he could watch 🤣

herecomesautumn · 14/09/2024 13:19

Makingchocolatecake · 14/09/2024 12:44

My dh would say I could but only if it was with a girl and he could watch 🤣

Envy
Honest00lad · 14/09/2024 14:13

Nobody in a million years would put this offer on the table to me. But if they did, I probably physically couldn't do it if there was no attraction. So it wouldn't happen. Women don't have that problem, it seems from this thead.

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