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Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

687 replies

Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

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Strokethefurrywall · 13/09/2024 12:21

Really, it's pocket change to some men.

It's also pocket change to some women...

Eldrick47s · 13/09/2024 12:21

leopardski · 13/09/2024 11:13

Me and my friends have had this conversation before and the general consensus was - everyone’s got a price 🤣

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Nanny0gg · 13/09/2024 12:23

Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

If you've ever had a one night stand with someone you weren't especially bothered about, then why not?

TheEyesOfLucyJordon · 13/09/2024 12:23

ManchesterLu · 13/09/2024 11:39

Depends who and how much. If someone was offering me half a million, I would almost certainly do it. I can separate myself from sex if needs be, and half a million would change my life substantially.

Anyone who WOULDN'T have sex for half a million is odd.

I wouldn't. I don't need the money. And I suspect that I'm no more or less odd than you are 😊

MsLavender · 13/09/2024 12:23

could ask too if you would kill someone for a certain amount, do we all have a price for that too?

Depends on who I would have to kill and if I would get caught. If it was killing Gisele Pelicots husband, for example, I'd do that for free providing I wouldn't get caught. If I wouldn't get caught there are plenty of people I'd kill for £500k (mostly paedophiles or child killers).

Pieceofpurplesky · 13/09/2024 12:24

I once shagged a man for a bath! It was the third date and I was backpacking and staying in a shitty hostel. He was lovely and invited out. I packed clean knickers and a toothbrush as I wanted that bath.

To be fair it was one of the most memorable sexual experiences that still makes me horny thinking about it 30 years on. And then he ran me a bath, let me soak and then joined me.

I've also had sex with a partner of many years that I have regretted.
It would be a yes for me

CheltenhamLady · 13/09/2024 12:26

ThatSongStuckInYourHead · 13/09/2024 00:32

A prostitute who is genuinely choosing to sell sex is not a victim or some second rate human.

When lots of very wealthy people choose to be prostitutes as a career choice you may have a point. Until then, no. And it'll never happen.

To be fair, lots of very wealthy women ( and men) sleep around for 'transactional' reasons.

TheBadLuckOfTeelaBrown · 13/09/2024 12:28

I've slept with plenty of men for absolutely nothing and felt nothing either before, during or after so why on earth not.

Newsenmum · 13/09/2024 12:31

I mean it sounds grim. If they’re not attractive it would be horrendous. The smell, the sweat… ugh.

MrsSunshine2b · 13/09/2024 12:35

ttcat37 · 13/09/2024 12:12

Hopefully everyone considering how DREADFUL this would be is also now considering the thousands of women forced into sex work who sadly do not get paid half a million to have sex with strangers. For these women sex with strangers is how they survive, not a joke. This thread doesn’t sit well with me at all.

Chill, it's a hypothetical scenario. Thousands of people are forced into sweatshops and domestic labour, it doesn't mean I can't say I'd hate to be a cleaner no matter how well paid, or that I don't know the first thing about sewing machines.

alrightluv · 13/09/2024 12:37

Pigeewigee · 12/09/2024 23:47

I'd rather not do missionary but otherwise yeah

🤣 yeah doggy style better. I wouldn't have them breathing on me.

bazoom · 13/09/2024 12:47

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 12:19

That was already said earlier with Churchill.

Sorry, I never read all the posts😊

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 13:02

Newsenmum · 13/09/2024 12:31

I mean it sounds grim. If they’re not attractive it would be horrendous. The smell, the sweat… ugh.

So you decline the offer 🤷‍♀️

(As I would under those conditions).

OutVileJelly1 · 13/09/2024 13:04

Absolutely not, its prostitution

ttcat37 · 13/09/2024 13:07

MrsSunshine2b · 13/09/2024 12:35

Chill, it's a hypothetical scenario. Thousands of people are forced into sweatshops and domestic labour, it doesn't mean I can't say I'd hate to be a cleaner no matter how well paid, or that I don't know the first thing about sewing machines.

I don’t need to chill, thanks. I’m comfortable with not joking about the reality of people’s lives. It’s like saying “would you use a food bank for £500k? I can’t imagine how dreadful that would be! lol! How awful!”

Somanypiessolittletime · 13/09/2024 13:13

I mean it's not really though is it?
There's no Indecent Proposal style film made about using food banks for money.
Also sex can be glamorous (or seedy) food banks are neither. They're a way to get by. And that's it

Everycloudect · 13/09/2024 13:29

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 12:16

So you think one of us on this here Mumsnet might get propositioned with a £500k for one sex session offer? Well if they do I hope they let us know and what their decision was.

Stranger things happen 😂

bazoom · 13/09/2024 13:37

Well, someone is lying, I just went to Asda and asked 3 women separately if they would sleep with me for £100k, I've been chased out of the store by 3 angry husbands and now there's police swarming the area.

Jazzabel · 13/09/2024 13:45

I’d genuinely do it for the remaining amount on my mortgage. Would make a big difference to my life to have that paid off. I’ve slept with plenty of randomers for free after a night out with no attachment so I don’t think it would affect me emotionally. I will say I am single though, I would probably feel a bit weird if I was with someone and I imagine it would end up causing arguments eventually.

DamnUserName21 · 13/09/2024 13:48

Yep, I would. If he looked like Robert Redford, all the better!

crackofdoom · 13/09/2024 13:53

Are we not discussing with who?
I mean, I initially thought "yes of course"....but with anyone? With Donald Trump, for example? I couldn't.

BIossomtoes · 13/09/2024 14:01

crackofdoom · 13/09/2024 13:53

Are we not discussing with who?
I mean, I initially thought "yes of course"....but with anyone? With Donald Trump, for example? I couldn't.

Maybe you could amend the brief so you had your back to him.

BettyBardMacDonald · 13/09/2024 15:08

I could stoop pretty low but not as low as Donald Trump. (Apparently he's got a new squeeze young enough to be his granddaughter and as batshit crazy as he is. Melania must be relieved.)

Can't say I'd want to perform oral on just anybody, though. That's my line in the sand.

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 15:17

BettyBardMacDonald · 13/09/2024 15:08

I could stoop pretty low but not as low as Donald Trump. (Apparently he's got a new squeeze young enough to be his granddaughter and as batshit crazy as he is. Melania must be relieved.)

Can't say I'd want to perform oral on just anybody, though. That's my line in the sand.

Melania can’t hide her disgust of this man.

As far as this thread is concerned, it would be strictly missionary sex, done once, absolutely no ‘extras’ and no one repulsive.

There’d be no money in the world that would get me to say yes to Trump 🤢

WiddlinDiddlin · 13/09/2024 15:23

Oh yeah, there isn't the money in the world that would cause me to even vaguely contemplate shagging Trump.

I only shag humans, he absolutely isn't one.

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