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Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

687 replies

Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

OP posts:
Strokethefurrywall · 13/09/2024 11:52

Fuck no. Don't need the money, and the idea of shagging anyone other than my husband leaves me utterly cold.

That being said, when I was younger and single I most definitely would have!

bringincrazyback · 13/09/2024 11:52

Garlictest · 13/09/2024 02:10

I doubt he'd be talking about fishing or Reform You never know, it might be what gets him in the mood 😂

I landed a massive carp this morning. You'd have loved it, you like a big one, don't you? Fnarr, fnarr, huff, puff. Nige'll win the next election, you'll see. Puff, puff. I can't wait till we GET IN! That'll do it, huff, puff, grunt. Migrants out, the white man on top! Puff, puff, grunt, huff! Change is COMING!! Argh, uhh, grunt, grunt, puff! Phew. Here's another hundred for being a good listener. Vote Reform!

Love it 😂😂😂

iwfja · 13/09/2024 11:55

I would do it. I'm single. If I was with someone I wouldn't do it.

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 11:58

Everycloudect · 13/09/2024 11:24

In that case why not earn it as an escort with benefits over a period of time,easily done & no difference if the married couple both agree.

Because this is just the once, not a ‘career’. This is what the thread is about, not would you be an escort as a job.

Somanypiessolittletime · 13/09/2024 11:58

MrsSunshine2b · 13/09/2024 11:50

I wouldn't fall head over heels with someone over the course of having missionary style sex, and even if I found them physically attractive the fact that they were purchasing sex would make the whole situation very unromantic. It would be a mutually beneficial financial arrangement and we'd both walk away with what we wanted, albeit with a bit of an icky feeling.

I'm not sure id even feel.icky really. As long as they were clean!!! I think I'd feel bloody excited at the half a million quid I'd just come into
(And no I couldn't do it with someone who WASN'T clean) Omg or had bad breath 🤮

andthat · 13/09/2024 11:59

SocksAndTheCity · 12/09/2024 23:35

God, definitely. Am I allowed to do Wordle.at the same time?

🤣

Fluufer · 13/09/2024 12:02

AliasGrace47 · 13/09/2024 11:50

This feels sad, people saying you'd sell sexual services for money now you have experience of life. If only your ordinary jobs didn't leave you so disillusioned! My answer at a 18 is never, I hope it's not different at 40.

Why is it sad?

Somanypiessolittletime · 13/09/2024 12:04

@Fluufer I reckon I'd have done it at 18 too tbh.

Sarah2891 · 13/09/2024 12:05

Definitely not!

sval · 13/09/2024 12:05

No, I wouldn't, I couldn't prostitute myself even as a one-off.

Whiskeymalavodkaade · 13/09/2024 12:06

Yep, that’s a life changing amount of money for some meaningless sex.

HerVagestyTheQueef · 13/09/2024 12:06

Not a scenario that will ever happen though - could ask too if you would kill someone for a certain amount, do we all have a price for that too?

Really not the same at all 🫤 I should hope none of us have a price for that.

velvetcoat · 13/09/2024 12:06

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 11:58

Because this is just the once, not a ‘career’. This is what the thread is about, not would you be an escort as a job.

Exactly this. The idea is - do it once so you have freedom and choices in life.

Not- do you want this to be your full time job week in, week out 🙄The entire point is, you get a life changing amount of money.

Cattery · 13/09/2024 12:07

I always thought I would. Not so much now with the menopausal belly

Fluufer · 13/09/2024 12:08

Somanypiessolittletime · 13/09/2024 12:04

@Fluufer I reckon I'd have done it at 18 too tbh.

Same. And I was very idealistic back then. If a man is stupid enough to pay lots of money for a few minutes of my time, I would be even more stupid not to let him.

ttcat37 · 13/09/2024 12:12

Hopefully everyone considering how DREADFUL this would be is also now considering the thousands of women forced into sex work who sadly do not get paid half a million to have sex with strangers. For these women sex with strangers is how they survive, not a joke. This thread doesn’t sit well with me at all.

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 12:12

velvetcoat · 13/09/2024 12:06

Exactly this. The idea is - do it once so you have freedom and choices in life.

Not- do you want this to be your full time job week in, week out 🙄The entire point is, you get a life changing amount of money.

It’s quite amusing how some people are taking this so seriously. It isn’t a thread about a woman that has actually been propositioned with half a million quid and asking us what should she do 😁 The chances of anyone of us actually getting such a proposition is zilch, nada, not ever happening.

skyfalldown · 13/09/2024 12:13

frankly I'd lose all self respect if i didn't do it 😁

Everycloudect · 13/09/2024 12:14

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 12:12

It’s quite amusing how some people are taking this so seriously. It isn’t a thread about a woman that has actually been propositioned with half a million quid and asking us what should she do 😁 The chances of anyone of us actually getting such a proposition is zilch, nada, not ever happening.

Really, it's pocket change to some men.

DonnaBanana · 13/09/2024 12:16

It depends on the context doesn't it. If I were being coerced into it, even with the money it would feel like a violation. If it were some handsome James Bond type at my own discretion, then sure.

It all comes down to enthusiastic consent at the end of the day regardless of any money also involved. Money being involved doesn't inherently make consent less important. For example I would give up a kidney to a family member but would be against having a kidney stolen from me on a holiday to Turkey by accident.

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 12:16

Everycloudect · 13/09/2024 12:14

Really, it's pocket change to some men.

So you think one of us on this here Mumsnet might get propositioned with a £500k for one sex session offer? Well if they do I hope they let us know and what their decision was.

bazoom · 13/09/2024 12:17

Old guy on a plane saw this beautiful woman and asked if she would sleep with him for £30, she told him to F off and who do you think i am?
10 minutes later, he approaches again, would you sleep with me for £1m, she says yes of course.
Another few minutes he approaches again - would you sleep with me for £100 - she promptly says who the F do you think I am, what sort of person do you think I am - he replies - well I have established the sort of person you are and am now just negotiating the deal.
(its not about money)

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 12:18

DonnaBanana · 13/09/2024 12:16

It depends on the context doesn't it. If I were being coerced into it, even with the money it would feel like a violation. If it were some handsome James Bond type at my own discretion, then sure.

It all comes down to enthusiastic consent at the end of the day regardless of any money also involved. Money being involved doesn't inherently make consent less important. For example I would give up a kidney to a family member but would be against having a kidney stolen from me on a holiday to Turkey by accident.

The OP has said nothing about coercion. They asked would you take up the offer if you someone offered it to you.

I don’t really understand why people are making up all sorts of imaginary scenarios when it was clear in the op that it was your choice.

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 12:19

bazoom · 13/09/2024 12:17

Old guy on a plane saw this beautiful woman and asked if she would sleep with him for £30, she told him to F off and who do you think i am?
10 minutes later, he approaches again, would you sleep with me for £1m, she says yes of course.
Another few minutes he approaches again - would you sleep with me for £100 - she promptly says who the F do you think I am, what sort of person do you think I am - he replies - well I have established the sort of person you are and am now just negotiating the deal.
(its not about money)

That was already said earlier with Churchill.

Maia77 · 13/09/2024 12:21

Yes, if I was single and attracted to him 😀. Otherwise no.

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