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Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

687 replies

Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

OP posts:
User19876536484 · 13/09/2024 10:57

But most people would sleep with Chris Hemsworth (or someone in that league) with no money changing hands, so the money is irrelevant to that scenario.

I would want the same money for Chris Hemsworth. It’s all about the money for me.

Over71 · 13/09/2024 10:59

I've done it for free - married & single - for no reward .
I'd certainly do it for someone who expresses their gratitude in that sum

apostrophewoman · 13/09/2024 10:59

BettyBardMacDonald · 13/09/2024 09:23

Same here.

I've got a dire crap kitchen that hasn't been renovated in 75 years. Just the thought of new fitted cabinets would get me so aroused I'd give them the shag of a lifetime! 🤣🤣🤣

And not care who knew it.

😂😂😂

SpiderPlanter · 13/09/2024 11:00

PlayDadiFreyr · 13/09/2024 10:55

Ooh, and what if it was 500k each for one of you to sleep with someone else?

I personally wouldn't mind it and wouldn't consider it cheating if we both knew about it first.

Cheating is lying and concealment and breaking promises. Not the act of sex itself.

See I sort of automatically think ‘Go on, off you go’, but I do wonder how I’d feel afterwards, it might make me be a bit weird and could I hack it out for the cash long term?

Heddwch123 · 13/09/2024 11:01

Yes… and I’d do it for a lot less 🤣

User19876536484 · 13/09/2024 11:02

But most people would sleep with Chris Hemsworth (or someone in that league) with no money changing hands, so the money is irrelevant to that scenario.

Edit: No idea why it’s posted this twice. I have been looking at a spinning circle for three minutes.

XMissPlacedX · 13/09/2024 11:04

@BettyBardMacDonald Grin im nearly crying with laughter at: "the thought of new kitchen cabinets would get my aroused and I would give them the shag of a lifetime"

Absolute poetry

Ixon · 13/09/2024 11:11

Meh. Sure. When I was younger it would have been psychologically damaging but honestly after having had kids I've the had the doctor up in here like he was trying to get a calf out. But wouldn't because DH would feel quite differently.

PrawnofthePatriarchy · 13/09/2024 11:12

£500k? Like a shot.

leopardski · 13/09/2024 11:13

Me and my friends have had this conversation before and the general consensus was - everyone’s got a price 🤣

Everycloudect · 13/09/2024 11:16

🤔This question reminds me of the film indecent proposal with Robert Redford & Demi Moore. It's about a woman in a happy marriage whose husband is offered a million dollars by a rich man for a night with his wife. The couple have little money so they eventually agree. Her husband sees her getting into the helicopter & tries to stop her but it was too late. The deed was done the money was in the bank & it ruined their marriage. He was devasted she agreed,she was devastated he let her. The husband ended up donating all the money to charity. After having signed divorce papers they eventually got back together.

This story is exactly how I see things ending up so my answer is tempted, possibly, carrying it out, absolutely 100% NO.

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 11:17

ehb102 · 13/09/2024 10:38

The damage it causes you mentally would not be worth it.

It wouldn’t necessarily cause damage. I think it depends on what they look like, how experienced you are and what your personal circumstances are.

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 11:18

Everycloudect · 13/09/2024 11:16

🤔This question reminds me of the film indecent proposal with Robert Redford & Demi Moore. It's about a woman in a happy marriage whose husband is offered a million dollars by a rich man for a night with his wife. The couple have little money so they eventually agree. Her husband sees her getting into the helicopter & tries to stop her but it was too late. The deed was done the money was in the bank & it ruined their marriage. He was devasted she agreed,she was devastated he let her. The husband ended up donating all the money to charity. After having signed divorce papers they eventually got back together.

This story is exactly how I see things ending up so my answer is tempted, possibly, carrying it out, absolutely 100% NO.

I think it’s different if the offer were made directly to you, not to your husband or partner who then put the offer forward to you.

Everycloudect · 13/09/2024 11:24

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 11:18

I think it’s different if the offer were made directly to you, not to your husband or partner who then put the offer forward to you.

In that case why not earn it as an escort with benefits over a period of time,easily done & no difference if the married couple both agree.

Wondergoldenlight · 13/09/2024 11:32

The damage it causes you mentally would not be worth it.

why would I be mentally damaged by agreeing to have sex with someone and then being rich?

PlayDadiFreyr · 13/09/2024 11:35

Everycloudect · 13/09/2024 11:24

In that case why not earn it as an escort with benefits over a period of time,easily done & no difference if the married couple both agree.

Because then it's more of a job and less of a "lottery win".

Besides, I think the chance of my being offered repeated high value custom are rather slim (because I am not :D).

I've always had a detached attitude to sex though. I've always been faintly icked out by the idea that sex should be with someone you love, mainly because I saw so much pressure on my friends to have sex BECAUSE they loved their teenage boyfriends.

Sex should be because you want to have sex. If the reason you want to have sex is because of lots and lots of money, I'm all for it.

ErnestClementine · 13/09/2024 11:35

Where do I sign up for this?

MrsSunshine2b · 13/09/2024 11:37

£500k is enough to be mortgage free and change mine and my family's lives significantly. For 15 unpleasant minutes. Of course I'd do it.

ManchesterLu · 13/09/2024 11:39

Depends who and how much. If someone was offering me half a million, I would almost certainly do it. I can separate myself from sex if needs be, and half a million would change my life substantially.

Anyone who WOULDN'T have sex for half a million is odd.

Creamdecaramel · 13/09/2024 11:40

Being a happily married woman I wouldn’t do it as I know my DH wouldn’t like it, in exactly the same way I wouldn’t like him to. We don’t need the money.

If however, I was single that absolutely I would!!!! I want to provide for my disabled child and their future and would do whatever it takes and £500k would be so helpful so it’s a big fat yes from me! I would hate it like….

Tomorrowisyesterday · 13/09/2024 11:43

The amount of money that would let me retire and set my dc up in flats, for example - I suspect dh would be getting my coat.
Not a scenario that will ever happen though - could ask too if you would kill someone for a certain amount, do we all have a price for that too?

Everycloudect · 13/09/2024 11:45

MrsSunshine2b · 13/09/2024 11:37

£500k is enough to be mortgage free and change mine and my family's lives significantly. For 15 unpleasant minutes. Of course I'd do it.

If it was the opposite of unpleasant & you both fell head over heels in love with each other then subsequently devastated a happy family life with your husband and children. Is it still worth it in this scenario?

MrsSunshine2b · 13/09/2024 11:50

Everycloudect · 13/09/2024 11:45

If it was the opposite of unpleasant & you both fell head over heels in love with each other then subsequently devastated a happy family life with your husband and children. Is it still worth it in this scenario?

I wouldn't fall head over heels with someone over the course of having missionary style sex, and even if I found them physically attractive the fact that they were purchasing sex would make the whole situation very unromantic. It would be a mutually beneficial financial arrangement and we'd both walk away with what we wanted, albeit with a bit of an icky feeling.

AliasGrace47 · 13/09/2024 11:50

This feels sad, people saying you'd sell sexual services for money now you have experience of life. If only your ordinary jobs didn't leave you so disillusioned! My answer at a 18 is never, I hope it's not different at 40.

PizzaPowder · 13/09/2024 11:52

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