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Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

687 replies

Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

OP posts:
SallyWD · 13/09/2024 07:49

Interesting! I really want to do up my house and could do with £50,000 but it will take forever to save. I have to admit it's very tempting. Ten minutes of sex and then £50,000. Why not?

Jennyathemall · 13/09/2024 07:50

Why missionary? Oddly specific. Surely it would be the other way round - literally - missionary is very intimate as you are face to face. From behind is more…transactional.

mrsCtheRed · 13/09/2024 07:51

For half a million? I'd absolutely do it.
I had one night stands in my younger days, all consenting adults, no regrets etc so I'd see it just like that. With the bonus of no money worries afterwards

If they wanted to make it a million, I'd throw in my husband if they wanted, too 🤷🏽‍♀️

Balaclava1000 · 13/09/2024 07:52

The chances are it would be someone repulsive and vile. That should be factored in.

Kevinisnotacatname · 13/09/2024 07:56

In a heartbeat and it wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

frecklejuice · 13/09/2024 07:56

Absolutely!

Like someone else said sex can be meaningful but also very transactional, I'd take £400k if we could do it doggy style so I didn't have to look at them!

Just asked dh if he'd mind and his exact words were "for half a million you can crack on" 😂

Joystir59 · 13/09/2024 07:58

BMW6 · 12/09/2024 23:45

Yeah, I SO would for, say, 200k +.

I could sell this house and get a bungalow.
I'm getting on and looking to future-proof.

I've just moved into a bungalow but need some money for shelves putting up and raised planters in the garden. £10k should do it 😁

Joystir59 · 13/09/2024 07:59

mrsCtheRed · 13/09/2024 07:51

For half a million? I'd absolutely do it.
I had one night stands in my younger days, all consenting adults, no regrets etc so I'd see it just like that. With the bonus of no money worries afterwards

If they wanted to make it a million, I'd throw in my husband if they wanted, too 🤷🏽‍♀️

😁with his consent, hopefully

Fluufer · 13/09/2024 08:02

Would have to be a lot of money. But yeah I would. The exact amount would depend who it was.

Paltor · 13/09/2024 08:09

I’m so shocked by the responses! Maybe because I have OCD but I find most men really gross. The idea of having their bodily fluids (sweat, saliva, semen) on me is horrific. This goes away when I love someone and find them sexually attractive. But having a random man pumping away on me? Eek gross. No!

Emerald95 · 13/09/2024 08:11

ThatSongStuckInYourHead · 13/09/2024 00:29

No. The idea of a man that thinks he can buy me is repulsive to me.

I think it would have psychological consequences for many who have said yes. Every time you bought something you would be reminded of some grotty man who bought you. <shudder>

My mindset would be the opposite. I'm making enough money change the life of my family for the better. The man is definitely getting ripped off

moonplop · 13/09/2024 08:12

For a million? Absolutely yes. 10 mins and I'd never have to see them again and I'd be set up for life. Yes.

I also dont see it as "buying" me- heck, I've had sex with men in the past for free that weren't that great looking back.

2024riot · 13/09/2024 08:16

I would and I would feel a frisson of pleasure when I spent my money if it was a million thinking this only took ten minutes work

I shagged a few rotters in my youth

What's one more to the list

BackForABit · 13/09/2024 08:16

Look at how men feel when they have paid $50 for sex - the entitlement is off the scale. No man would pay £500k for missionary sex with a normal woman.

Word of warning - link which I got from the Guardian contains graphic descriptions of horrible sex, some violent, very upsetting 'reviews' of women.

invisible-men-canada.tumblr.com/

Yotomoto · 13/09/2024 08:17

User19876536484 · 13/09/2024 07:31

For half a mil my husband said he would drive me there.

That made me snigger 😂

familyissues12345 · 13/09/2024 08:18

Snoringfamily · 13/09/2024 00:28

Ok doesn’t have to be missionary to those asking, but isn’t that the easiest, less worst option?! Get very drunk, close eyes, think of the money 😬

Nah, it's too close, I wouldn't want to look him in the eye. As someone else said, doggy and I'd be ok.

Not that anyone would want this peri menopausal 40 something fat bird. I'd probably have to pay for him to have counselling!

mrsCtheRed · 13/09/2024 08:20

Joystir59 · 13/09/2024 07:59

😁with his consent, hopefully

His idea 🤣

Damnloginpopup · 13/09/2024 08:20

Abbylikeswine · 12/09/2024 23:49

Does nobody wonder about the psychological damage it would do to you?

Certainly not me. I'd suck off a tramp for that.

Oldseagull · 13/09/2024 08:20

Never.

But I was raped. There is no amount of money that would make me willingly give up control of my own body. The thought of having to have sex with someone that I really didn't want to is terrifying.

sunseaandsoundingoff · 13/09/2024 08:21

Abbylikeswine · 12/09/2024 23:49

Does nobody wonder about the psychological damage it would do to you?

What, choosing to have sex with someone and also getting money for it?

None, unless it was going to be videoed and put online.

OpalGoose · 13/09/2024 08:21

I'm surprised so many are saying yes. Are you not worried that if it's that easy then you might do it again and again and again........?

BigDahliaFan · 13/09/2024 08:23

Single, probably yes. But I'd be feeling a bit sorry for taking advantage of a blind person.

moonplop · 13/09/2024 08:25

Damnloginpopup · 13/09/2024 08:20

Certainly not me. I'd suck off a tramp for that.

Sorry but this made me cackle out loud 😂

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 08:27

Sparklywhiteteeth · 13/09/2024 07:26

This question always creases me up. The way people seriously consider their answer. Cos yeah whose going to offer you 500k to shag you 😂

Haha I know. But it’s just hypothetical, never ever going to happen, why would any man pay so much to have sex with an MNetter 😁

It wouldn’t be a moral dilemma as I don’t really see sex as purely a precious spiritual experience, sometimes it’s just hot sex up against a wall with someone you don’t know very well but fancy.

As long as they’re good looking and charming then I would do it, take the money, and forget about it.

BunnyLake · 13/09/2024 08:29

OpalGoose · 13/09/2024 08:21

I'm surprised so many are saying yes. Are you not worried that if it's that easy then you might do it again and again and again........?

It’s not real. No one is going to be offering multiple big buck offers to any of us for a shag 😁

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