Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

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If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

Yes 100%.

Honestly I think everyone has a price. People say they don’t, but I don’t believe them.

£250k for me 😂

If my husband found out I hadn’t accepted half a mil for a quick shag I think I’d lose my marriage 😂

Yes, but from behind so I wouldn't have to look at them though!

My soul has been left perfectly intact every single time I have had sex. My soul isn't connected to my vagina or clitoris.

I have sex with my husband because I love him and I fancy him - good sex - my soul is the same afterwards.

I have had ONS because I've fancied the person, some have been good sex, some have been horrendous - my soul never diminished.

Sex does not = connection to me at all. I connect with a person in so many varying ways. Sex has never been one of them, it's simply a means to an end to feel good and have orgasms.

That would be ok.
People that know me well wouldn’t be very surprised and I wouldn’t care what anyone else thinks.

I’ve had a lot of one night stands in my life, I do meaningless sex easily (now married, and faithful I hasten to add). My “number” is pretty big so one more wouldn’t matter.

For me it is an easy no. It would be against my Christian faith where we believe that sex is a deeply spiritual act not just a physical one. I’d also be breaking my marriage vows.

No chance you do give part of yourself away when you have sex with someone I remember a lot of mistakes I made as a young woman. I imagine so many of those men have never thought of me after that day. And hear I am more than 20 years on still thinking of those times.

So, I get to have sex without the commitment of a relationship, AND get paid? Sounds perfect. Where do I sign up?

So a life changing amount of money that could change your life and everyone around you. You could end poverty in your town, you could quit work and holiday for the rest of your life, you could buy all your family a home, you could pay for life saving medical treatment for a bunch of kids? Theres no amount of money for 2 mins ‘work’?

Id feel too selfish if I said no …

ehat if the price was so high you could use it to end poverty in a 3rd world country. Or pay for experimental medical treatment for 1000 dying children.
I think god would get it

Absolutely I would. As another PP said it doesn't have to be about intimacy at all - I use my body for all sorts of things, this is just another one. I wouldn't have any trouble seeing it as just an action.

Well it depends on what they look like. If they were gorgeous it wouldn’t be much of a dilemma. An absolute no for anyone I didn’t find attractive, for any amount of money. I’ve slept with tw*ts for nothing in the past so why not a looker for life changing money.

This question always creases me up. The way people seriously consider their answer. Cos yeah whose going to offer you 500k to shag you 😂

That's a horrendous thing to think about that poor girl. Trapped for ages, in absolute agony, all her carefree years taken away. I wouldn't swap that for money and I get she wouldn't either. You know you get pain and sores with prosthetic limbs don't you?

That’s a utilitarian ethnical model (ends justifying the means) which isn’t a Christian ethical model. It’s not because God wouldn’t forgive you, of course he could and would. It’s about what damage that would be done to you spiritually by uniting with someone for money. I used to volunteer in a charity for sex workers and have seen how traumatic it can be, even when the ‘clients’ are rich and ‘nice’. As a Christian your body is not merely something to be used which is separate from your true self. Your self is seen as a holistic thing and includes your body.

If anyone reading has been involved in sex work and feels regret, please know you are precious and your very self is holy. You aren’t discarded by God, the very opposite. He seeks you and loves you.

For half a mil my husband said he would drive me there.

No

Mine would watch and film it.

I'll have you know my husband bought me a blue WKD and a bag of scampi fries when he first met me. My body has expensive tastes don't you know.

No because being paid for sex is prostitution and I'm not a prostitute.

What an awful thing to put on someone. Well within your rights to say no.

Lots of cool girls on here but I bet they wouldn’t be rushing to do it in real life.

100% if it was just me and I wasn’t married, had DC etc as the only issue around it for me is the impact on others. It’s ultimately just a one night stand with a big chunk of change afterwards.

Totally understand why others wouldn’t but for me it’s a bit of a no brainer.

Possibly I’d need to have a level of attraction I think. Although morally it feels wrong but that amount of money would change my life. So maybe I’d get over the lack of morals.

Yes, probably. But they have to supply the lube.

Honestly my work is really stresfull at times and employers can take the piss. Especially out of women.
I can't see how it's any worse than continually expecting you to put in the extra hours, pick up the slack, mop up everybody's mistakes and do triple your job description.
Lying there for 5 minutes and getting paid a large sum for it doesn't seem to bad in comparison.