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Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

687 replies

Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

OP posts:
ncforcatquestion · 13/09/2024 05:23

I would hate it, but I would do it only for 30 k or above

WiddlinDiddlin · 13/09/2024 05:30

Yup.

Half a million, straight sex, no oral - yes.

I've had enough crap sex with people I didn't particularly fancy/find all that interesting for free, to know that its not going to fuck with my mind (well not any more than its already fucked with...).

They gotta shower first though, and clean teeth. Sweaty balls and nasty breath is a game changer.

DP says he's fine with that as long as that cash is for us, to improve our lives, not for me to run off to the Bahamas with. I said the same goes for him.

Chances of either of us being paid by anyone... mm!

Namebechanged · 13/09/2024 05:32

Poppins21 · 13/09/2024 05:06

The whole point of the movie was she was attracted to him and he could have seduced her for free. But he was rich and powerful and decided the destroy the husband with his games. The husband couldn’t come to terms with how much his wife enjoyed her night and jealously destroyed the love.

So in the scenario of the film I wouldn’t as I wouldn’t want to destroy my marriage.

Let’s look the other way - Would you let your husband or partner sleep with an attractive older woman for one night for million pounds? Would jealously destroy you like in the film? Or would you happily spend the money?

Ohhhhhhh, if married then I'd never do it - but that's different.

Namebechanged · 13/09/2024 05:36

Poppins21 · 13/09/2024 05:06

The whole point of the movie was she was attracted to him and he could have seduced her for free. But he was rich and powerful and decided the destroy the husband with his games. The husband couldn’t come to terms with how much his wife enjoyed her night and jealously destroyed the love.

So in the scenario of the film I wouldn’t as I wouldn’t want to destroy my marriage.

Let’s look the other way - Would you let your husband or partner sleep with an attractive older woman for one night for million pounds? Would jealously destroy you like in the film? Or would you happily spend the money?

Ohhhhhhh, if married then I'd never do it - but that's different.

Thirdsummerofourdiscontent · 13/09/2024 05:38

I wouldn’t want to lose my marriage for $500k but if there were no consequences I’m sure I could lay back and think of England.

whereaw · 13/09/2024 05:46

I have enough respect for myself to know that I am more than worthy of half a million pounds. So yes I would. Grin

ThePrologue · 13/09/2024 05:53

Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

What's the position to do with it?
Whether 'missionary' or swinging on the rafters, you've still prostituted yourself, so may as wellxdo it in an interesting way!

OhshutupBarry · 13/09/2024 06:04

Dependant on the money and it being over quickly - Hell yes!

MelainesLaugh · 13/09/2024 06:06

Yes I would

why all the hatred for missionary? I love it

Buffypaws · 13/09/2024 06:10

ThePrologue · 13/09/2024 05:53

What's the position to do with it?
Whether 'missionary' or swinging on the rafters, you've still prostituted yourself, so may as wellxdo it in an interesting way!

Less effort innit

i would do it. No sex in a year. Hopefully I’d get a baby out of it finally. And if they paid off my mortgage I could afford childcare. Win win win.

getting semen off my ex has been like blood out of a fuckin stone for five bloody years

bazoom · 13/09/2024 06:16

Thirdsummerofourdiscontent · 13/09/2024 05:38

I wouldn’t want to lose my marriage for $500k but if there were no consequences I’m sure I could lay back and think of England.

Well it would certainly be wet.

Stixk · 13/09/2024 06:22

ShatParp · 13/09/2024 00:04

Does it HAVE to be missionary?! Can't it be doggy?!

That’s more personal I feel

SickOfTheRoad · 13/09/2024 06:23

🤑a prince amongst men, clearly.

Indeed. The thread about boobs he posted on was 3 months old so he was obviously searching for certain things to find it. Definitely not in trending or active. 🤮🕷

Blueribbo · 13/09/2024 06:23

I'm single so I wouldn't be destroying a relationship. Would do it for £500,000 and give the money to my daughter, her partner has run off with someone else,leaving her with a young baby and struggling financially.

AnneButNotHathaway · 13/09/2024 06:35

Depending on the amount of money needed and my current relationship status I would definitely think about this.

2Old2Tango · 13/09/2024 06:45

I'm widowed, so I don't have to worry about a partners feelings.

If it was someone like Robert Redford (as per the film) when he was younger and gorgeous then hell yes, I'd do it. Maybe for £100,000 or more.

If the proposer was someone like Donald Trump then I'd have to turn it down. Not that I'm a looker by any means, but I still have standards 🤣

AnonyLonnymouse · 13/09/2024 06:55

I wouldn’t do it for money. However, I am job-hunting at the moment and it is so soul-destroying (despite great qualifications and lots of experience) that I would be quite happy to consider an indecent proposal from the chair of an interview panel!

But I would definitely want to take a look at the goods first!

velvetcoat · 13/09/2024 06:56

Let’s look the other way - Would you let your husband or partner sleep with an attractive older woman for one night for million pounds? Would jealously destroy you like in the film? Or would you happily spend the money?

For a million, I'd undress him for her myself 😂

ruffler45 · 13/09/2024 06:56

Its a old joke
Would you do it for £1miilion - yes
Would you do it for £5 - NO what do you think I am
We know what you are , we are just haggling over the price...

MabelMora · 13/09/2024 06:57

I have met many married couples where the wife is a tiny, attractive woman from a South East Asian country and the husband is a much older, much less attractive white English man (mail order brides in less PC times).
Those women are always dressed very nicely, have lovely bags, watches, shoes etc, but I do sometimes look at them and think: is it worth it to have him huffing and puffing on top of you twice a week? Not to mention the chauvinistic way in which the husbands speak to their wives.

However, for a one off worth 500k/a million, and never having to clap eyes on them again - I could be persuaded!

RhaenysRocks · 13/09/2024 06:59

Abbylikeswine · 12/09/2024 23:49

Does nobody wonder about the psychological damage it would do to you?

I'm sure some do but you speak as though it's a certainty. I can easily separate physical sex from any sort of personal feelings and if by doing this I cleared my mortgage and had savings for my kids I absolutely would. And I'd happily justify it to anyone who cared to ask. The only way it's "shameful" is if you think sex for a woman is somehow bad unless she has a ring on her finger.

Lemonadeand · 13/09/2024 07:07

If I were in some kind of dystopian situation and my kids were starving then yes.

berriesandchocolateflowers · 13/09/2024 07:08

Cobblersorchard · 12/09/2024 23:43

Yes I would, absolutely. I’ve done far worse in my youth!
I’d probably do it for £50k I reckon, £500k and I’d do a whole football team.

Alas I’m fairly sure absolutely no-one would pay £5 these days.

😂😂😂😂😂

GrannyRose15 · 13/09/2024 07:09

Only if t was Robert Redford 🤣

PepaWepa · 13/09/2024 07:09

LuLuRN · 12/09/2024 23:40

I'm skint so prob would.

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