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Valentina Petrillo shouldn't be allowed to compete in the women's race

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AhBiscuits · 07/09/2024 15:19

Valentina Petrillo only started transitioning 5 years ago and previously competed as a man. How can that be fair? I appreciate that she did not make the final, but she's taken the place of a woman who has worked her arse off, but couldn't surpass Valentina's natural advantage.

Valentina Petrillo shouldn't be allowed to compete in the women's race
Valentina Petrillo shouldn't be allowed to compete in the women's race
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stripybobblehat · 08/09/2024 08:28

Helleofabore · 08/09/2024 08:09

You are technically correct, because it is within the current regulations.

What would you call the actions of an adult who has full capacity to read the now mounting evidence that shows very clearly that suppression of testosterone doesn’t remove male pubertal advantage, and who can read and listen to the now many voices saying this is unfair and indeed acknowledges that they hear those voices, but still enters sports where they have these advantages?

What do you call a male person who when they read articles written about themselves, reads the evidence presented by experts also mentioned in the article but continues enter sports where they have male pubertal advantages?

What do you call a male person who complains that they are excluded from the female changing rooms and given a separate room for their use, but still enters a sport competition meant to be just for female people?

Sure the regulations say it is possible? But you remove the agency of this male person to act with respect towards female athletes but declaring it is the regulations to blame.

If you could compete, by the regulations, in a race for children and claim positive fame and prize money, would you? What about if you could compete as someone able bodied but you could enter one of the disabled categories because of a legal loophole, would you?

And if you did either of these things, do you think anyone should celebrate your achievement? Or could we point out that you have morally cheated?

Thanks for taking the time to write that out. Personally I feel with something like this it's best to attack/address the system rather than the person. But your post has made me think so I genuinely thank you for that.

stripybobblehat · 08/09/2024 08:31

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/09/2024 08:26

What about if you could compete as someone able bodied but you could enter one of the disabled categories because of a legal loophole, would you?

This. You probably could claim things you aren't entitled to because they are meant to improve equity for disadvantaged groups, because they are based on self ID @stripybobblehat but you wouldn't, would you?

I wouldn't but I wouldn't be cheating if I did. If I meet the criteria it's the criteria that need changing.

YoYoYoYo12345 · 08/09/2024 08:32

ExtraOnions · 07/09/2024 15:41

… notice they feel very little (no) guilt about thier behaviour - those hormones seem to make little impact on male entitlement.

Indeed these males are very entitled, it's their right to shove women aside and take. Says it all really.

Werweisswohin · 08/09/2024 08:34

Of course he shouldn't.
It's absolutely ridiculous.

SleepwalkingInTesco · 08/09/2024 08:42

This is the kind of shit that people look back on and say 'How could it happen? How could no one see reality?'

YoYoYoYo12345 · 08/09/2024 08:48

SleepwalkingInTesco · 08/09/2024 08:42

This is the kind of shit that people look back on and say 'How could it happen? How could no one see reality?'

Yes hive it 10 years

WheresMySupportCat · 08/09/2024 08:50

My view personally is that even a year ago this thread would not have been allowed to stand on MN alone- and if it were to be allowed it would have more holes than swiss cheese with all the deletions for the posters who point out this person is a man.

So that's possibly a sign of things changing right there. I woke up this morning having expected the thread to have vanished.

YoYoYoYo12345 · 08/09/2024 08:52

WheresMySupportCat · 08/09/2024 08:50

My view personally is that even a year ago this thread would not have been allowed to stand on MN alone- and if it were to be allowed it would have more holes than swiss cheese with all the deletions for the posters who point out this person is a man.

So that's possibly a sign of things changing right there. I woke up this morning having expected the thread to have vanished.

Thank goodness we are now allowed to speak in some biological fact and not completely shut up by the gender ideologists

bellinisurge · 08/09/2024 08:58

I don't care if he "transitioned" 27 years ago. That process has no meaning in sport and little meaning outside of sport. He's a man. A man who has transitioned is a man.
I used to have some sympathy and a vestige of kindness . That's gone. Rapists in women's prisons. Men beating up women for prizes. Disabled women told to move over and lose for creeps like this.
This is my No.

SmashingPumps · 08/09/2024 08:59

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RichardMarxisinnocent · 08/09/2024 09:14

Thedogscollar · 07/09/2024 22:31

Another bloody cheating man performing on the world stage as a woman with his male genitals bulging in his lycra for all to see.

The IOC full of men make these rules seeing them as inclusive and progressive. They are infact excluding real women and hindering a real woman's progress.
The IOC are full of shit.

As a couple of people have already pointed out, it's the governing bodies of each sport who make the rules about whether male transgender athletes (and athletes with DSDs) can compete in female competitions. It's not the IPC's decision (and it's IPC not the IOC who run the Paralympics. They are completely separate organisations).

That said, he absolutely should not be competing in women's races, and world para athletics really needs to changes its rules. But if people are quite rightly angry about this, they need to be getting angry at the right organisation.

Helleofabore · 08/09/2024 09:15

stripybobblehat · 08/09/2024 08:28

Thanks for taking the time to write that out. Personally I feel with something like this it's best to attack/address the system rather than the person. But your post has made me think so I genuinely thank you for that.

stripy, I also think we are campaigning very hard to make the changes to the regulations. So very very hard.

What strikes me is that there was a male skier, Erik Schinegger, who upon discovering that he was a male person with a difference of sex development that led to him being registered as female when he was born, and he was disqualified on that basis, went and competed as a male in male events. He also returned his championships etc.

That man’s actions showed me that these athletes have the agency to make decisions that respect other athletes as well as show self respect.

By now, I have seen so many male
athletes declare that they have understood that their inclusion is controversial. They know female athletes and people in general are complaining that this is fair, because they mention it in the many media articles they feature in. Incidentally, articles they feature in vs very little media coverage of the boring old female sexed athletes, if you get my meaning.

I don’t believe any male athlete is competing in female sports categories without understanding that experts have stated that it is unfair. Even Dr Richard Budgett of the IOC publicly acknowledged it was an unfair policy, but he then stated that the IOC chose inclusion over fairness.

edited to make it two posts.

Peakpeakpeak · 08/09/2024 09:20

stripybobblehat · 08/09/2024 07:20

The athlete isn't cheating. The rules allow them to compete. If there's an issue with the rules then sure that needs addressing.

Nah, he's a cheat. I agree with you that the fundamental issue is the rules, but nobody is making him do this.

One of the definitions Oxford Languages provides of cheating is acting unfairly. This man competing in a women's category is unfair. He's a cheat.

Helleofabore · 08/09/2024 09:24

I don’t believe any male athlete is competing in female sports categories without understanding that experts have stated that it is unfair. Even Dr Richard Budgett of the IOC publicly acknowledged it was an unfair policy, but he then stated that the IOC chose inclusion over fairness.

And yet, I can list male people, including Caster Semenya, who also then use their position as champions in female sports categories to tell female athletes that female athletes are just not as good as them, or that female athletes should just ‘try harder’. These male athletes know. They know and they choose to make the regulations work for them to win, to claim prize money and acclaim.

There are male cyclists in the USA who are competing in each different event of the season and getting the prize money every time. There are a group of them and too often they are getting all three podium places. Yet the USA cycling regulators for those events refuse to change the rules. Because those are special male people who declare they are female because they have a transgender identity. Female cyclocross champions are now leaving the sport.

Women in darts now will face ‘disciplinary action’ for forfeitting their game in protest that the international darts body has allowed unfair regulations to stand. And yes, there is plenty of male advantage in darts. It has to do with height, muscle fibres, skeletal proportions and even hip alignment for balance. Grip strength, twitch muscles, height, hip alignment, even lung capacity are all important and do not change with testosterone suppression. This is now well undrerstood.

Yet, the female competitors in darts are now being threatened with disciplinary action.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/darts/article-13808439/Female-darts-players-threatened-disciplinary-action-refusal-play-transgender-opponents-British-star-pulled-two-events-protest.html

The female athletes are having their ability to protest removed. They are being silenced, and the male athletes know why and they defiantly keep entering the events.

Because they can! That is part of the attraction. They can transgress the boundaries of female athletes,
and society in general.

So, I understand being uncomfortable with the focus on the individual athletes. But these discussions have been highly public now for several years. The athletes involved should not be considered ignorant that they have these advantages. Even if their coaches have told them to ignore the ‘hate’, they know by now.

They know and part of the attraction of competing is knowing they are transgressing the boundaries of female athletes in doing so.

That is a feature of the movement supporting this decision. It is about transgressing societal boundaries for their own person benefit.

Darts players face disciplinary action over transgender protests

British female darts star Deta Hedman has twice withdrawn from competitions in recent months when drawn to face transgender opponents, but would now face disciplinary action.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/darts/article-13808439/Female-darts-players-threatened-disciplinary-action-refusal-play-transgender-opponents-British-star-pulled-two-events-protest.html

GrumpyOldCrone · 08/09/2024 09:30

Why don’t we just get rid of all the categories, and the competitive elements, of sport? People could enter a ballot from which one person is chosen per country, at random. Those people then run around a track. They can run any distance. No one notes their times. At some point the crowd just starts clapping, which signals the end of the event. Now that would be inclusive.

TheKeatingFive · 08/09/2024 09:37

Peakpeakpeak · 08/09/2024 09:20

Nah, he's a cheat. I agree with you that the fundamental issue is the rules, but nobody is making him do this.

One of the definitions Oxford Languages provides of cheating is acting unfairly. This man competing in a women's category is unfair. He's a cheat.

Exactly. He's a cheat. The fact that this is facilitated by the rules doesn't make him less of a cheat. He knows the rules are unfair as well as anyone.

KTheGrey · 08/09/2024 09:44

Also saying "I am a trans dad". Dads are men. Talk about having your cake and eating it. He has the advantage of male puberty, the experience of fatherhood and of competing as a man, and now he wants to compete as a woman at an age when a woman's running career would be over. That is an amazing degree of entitlement.

KTheGrey · 08/09/2024 09:45

GrumpyOldCrone · 08/09/2024 09:30

Why don’t we just get rid of all the categories, and the competitive elements, of sport? People could enter a ballot from which one person is chosen per country, at random. Those people then run around a track. They can run any distance. No one notes their times. At some point the crowd just starts clapping, which signals the end of the event. Now that would be inclusive.

I believe you describe the Caucus Race from Alice in Wonderland.

WheresMySupportCat · 08/09/2024 09:45

No, no, you forget @KTheGrey . It's not an amazing sense of entitlement, it's 'Stunning and Brave' .

Theydontknowaboutus · 08/09/2024 09:47

Yanbu, of course he shouldn't be competing in the women's race.

GrumpyOldCrone · 08/09/2024 09:56

KTheGrey · 08/09/2024 09:45

I believe you describe the Caucus Race from Alice in Wonderland.

Haha! I’d forgotten about that. Even better!

ErrolTheDragon · 08/09/2024 10:01

All have won! All shall have prizes!

(Oh well except for some of those annoying women who 'don't try hard enough')

HRTQueen · 08/09/2024 10:06

of course not

once again male entitlement trumps what is fair and females are ignored

itsgettingweird · 08/09/2024 10:18

DSDs are different.

It's not fair to tell a female who was told they were female at birth, have female on their birth certificate and were raised female they aren't female.

There are questions to be asked and answered around sport and competing. But a female who has gone into sport believing they are female and having no idea they have a DSD shouldn't be called a cheat and publicly vilified.

bellinisurge · 08/09/2024 10:22

But a man with a male DSD isn't female. Just because he had poor care as a child doesn't mean he gets to punch women as compensation. Or deny them sporting opportunities.
It's not complicated