@Star81 The other very annoying thing is people buying and then messaging you, can you post this asap as I need it in 4 days time.if they want to know if this is possible just message. The rules on Vinted on postage times are clear and people seem to want shop service when it’s not a shop!
@skyeisthelimit Some buyers seem to think you are a shop and expect the same service. I don't do next day delivery, I do within the vinted timeframe delivery. I don't do returns if you change your mind or it doesn't fit. I am not a shop.
I think messaging before buying is wise, but if the seller doesn't reply in a timely way, you risk someone else buying the product.
And you are acting as a shop on a host website. You are selling a product and it's value may be dependent on what the person wants it for, which is exactly the same as buying stuff in shops. If I'm going to a wedding in 5 days time and I think your dress is great and just the right thing for the occasion, then I am only motivated to buy it because of its relevance to my immediate need otherwise I won't buy it. How then is it unreasonable to ask that you post it asap? And why after paying you money for your product would you think it's somehow some special faff for me to request you pop to the post office or whatever to post it faster??
It has that ring of I'm doing the buyer a favour. No. They bought your product. I think some sellers just wish to be casual off loaders who see eBay or Vinted more akin to an online second-hand stall. I feel that's perfectly fine, but then something like Preloved or Gumtree might be more suitable to use which has a more casual feel.
Only the end posting period is hard fixed on Vinted. 'The seller has to send it before xyz date' isn't a rule precluding sending faster. It's fine to request it be delivered quicker and be prepared to pay more, though I've never had occasion to request it yet.
Yodel and Evri etc can take literal weeks to deliver (which is why I love inpost it is the most reliable and quick option). If the seller adds another 4 or more days on top of that to post, it must be annoying, especially if you had an occasion or use in mind or were just really excited about the product.