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Urgent miscarriage advice . Graphic. Don't read if triggering.

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GinAndGooseberries · 06/09/2024 19:22

Posting here for quickness. Please delete if you want when I have answer. Please tell me how many pads I need to go to a and e? I've forgotten.

Gestational sac out with baby inside.

Now large clots and heavy bleeding. On pad 3 in half an hour with lots of clots.

Not sure if just leave an hour and see if settles.

Wasn't bleeding much before sac came out. Think it's all the lining coming now.

Epas shut and keen to avoid emergency department on a Friday night if I can.

OP posts:
CelestialNexus · 06/09/2024 22:35

So very sorry op, Flowers

Darkcarpark · 06/09/2024 22:36

I’m so sorry for you, but you are in the best place for now. Look after yourself ❤️

onwardandupwards · 06/09/2024 22:38

So very sorry for your loss, hope you are being well taken care of and supported ❤️ xx

harriettenightingale · 06/09/2024 22:38

So sorry, have been in a very similar situation. Be good to yourself in the next few days. Flowers

Rachie1973 · 06/09/2024 22:39

I’m so sorry OP. My daughter lost her baby at 20 weeks last week.

My heart goes out to you being in the same position xxx

peachesarenom · 06/09/2024 22:39

I'm so sorry for all you're going through xxx

Amybelle88 · 06/09/2024 22:39

So sorry lovely - you're a brave lady ❤️

elliesmummy19 · 06/09/2024 22:52

I’m so sorry, OP. I’m so glad you have gone to the hospital. I hope you’re ok x

HelloDaisy · 06/09/2024 22:55

I’m so sorry for your loss and the pain you are in.
I hope you have support and love for you both xx

MellersSmellers · 06/09/2024 22:59

😢So very sorry for you both xx

YeahWellWhyNot · 06/09/2024 23:00

So sorry for your loss. I hope you have plenty of support. I wish I could give you a hug 😔

Hiiiiiiiia · 06/09/2024 23:00

i'm so sorry for your loss... :( ❤️

LouLou198 · 06/09/2024 23:03

So sorry for your loss. So sad. Hope you are okay in hospital. Flowers

HamAlive · 06/09/2024 23:04

I'm so very sorry for your loss @GinAndGooseberries. I hope you're doing OK.

ThatAgileGoldMoose · 06/09/2024 23:16

Nothing but hugs for you my lovely.

When you're back home and probably get the doctors OK for this, get onto iron supplements. Spatone water is a fairly weak concentration and pricey but good for absorption, get the flavoured one with vitamin c.

mommatoone · 06/09/2024 23:17

So sorry for your loss❤️xx

Bs0u416d · 06/09/2024 23:30

I'm sorry OP, and to your DP. All the love in the world on this terrible night for you. Bless your little one. X

Silvers11 · 06/09/2024 23:31

GinAndGooseberries · 06/09/2024 20:38

Thanks so much. It's our miracle ivf baby. We found out last week no heartbeat and have been waiting at home since which was a hellish wait.

Was so "pleased" if that makes sense that baby in sac came out fully at home as we want to bury baby in garden. But then the crazy bleeding and massive clots started after.

Got a canula in and had bloods and urine sample which was 90% blood in a tub!!!!!! Waiting for gynae dr to come. Feel safer here.

Pain still bad but I hope easing. I really want to avoid an operation if possible.

So, so sorry this is happening to you OP. Best place to be though in the hospital. Thinking of you

Washingupdone · 06/09/2024 23:32

Sorry for your loss. Flowers take care of yourself

beachbum85 · 06/09/2024 23:36

I'm so, so sorry. My heart breaks for you, especially knowing this was your IVF miracle baby. Sending love and strength ❤️

laundryobsessed · 06/09/2024 23:48

GinAndGooseberries · 06/09/2024 19:22

Posting here for quickness. Please delete if you want when I have answer. Please tell me how many pads I need to go to a and e? I've forgotten.

Gestational sac out with baby inside.

Now large clots and heavy bleeding. On pad 3 in half an hour with lots of clots.

Not sure if just leave an hour and see if settles.

Wasn't bleeding much before sac came out. Think it's all the lining coming now.

Epas shut and keen to avoid emergency department on a Friday night if I can.

Wishing you the very best op. Much love and hope you're ok. 😘

CountryMumof4 · 06/09/2024 23:50

Sending enormous hugs. I've had several miscarriages, but only one that needed hospitalisation. Like you, I was soaking through pads in minutes - I needed blood transfusions and intervention in the end. It's traumatising and horrible, but you're in the best place now you've gone to hospital. Hope you manage to rest and that you're able to go home as soon as you're stable enough to do so.

ZoeCM · 07/09/2024 00:14

So sorry to read this, OP. Best wishes to you. I can't imagine how you must be feeling. Stay strong.

lucylulululu · 07/09/2024 00:30

So sorry for your loss Thinking of you OP and hope you're somewhat okay xx 💐

WearsblackLoveschocolateAvoidspeople · 07/09/2024 00:53

So very sorry for your loss xx