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Urgent miscarriage advice . Graphic. Don't read if triggering.

114 replies

GinAndGooseberries · 06/09/2024 19:22

Posting here for quickness. Please delete if you want when I have answer. Please tell me how many pads I need to go to a and e? I've forgotten.

Gestational sac out with baby inside.

Now large clots and heavy bleeding. On pad 3 in half an hour with lots of clots.

Not sure if just leave an hour and see if settles.

Wasn't bleeding much before sac came out. Think it's all the lining coming now.

Epas shut and keen to avoid emergency department on a Friday night if I can.

OP posts:
TheCultureHusks · 06/09/2024 20:40

Oh OP I’m so so sorry ❤️ but very glad you’re in the safest place. Take care of yourself x

GoulashSoup · 06/09/2024 20:42

I’m so sorry OP, glad you are being looked after 💐

Zanatdy · 06/09/2024 20:42

So sorry for your loss, glad you’ve gone for help to the hospital

HateMyselfToo · 06/09/2024 20:46

You're in the right place.
Sorry for your loss.

ADHDGURL · 06/09/2024 20:47

Oh no didn't want to read and run.. so sorry. I hope you get the care you need 🙏

AliTheMinx · 06/09/2024 20:48

So incredibly sorry. This happened to me too. Sending all the love in the world xx

Londonrach1 · 06/09/2024 20:49

Sorry op a&e. I been where you are now..sending support. Sorry for your loss xxx

SleepPrettyDarling · 06/09/2024 20:53

I’m so sorry for your loss x

JenniferGreenHat · 06/09/2024 20:57

Sorry for your loss xx

NigelHarmansNewWife · 06/09/2024 20:57

I'm so sorry for your loss. Hopefully they can stabilize things for you.

meteow · 06/09/2024 21:00

GinAndGooseberries · 06/09/2024 20:38

Thanks so much. It's our miracle ivf baby. We found out last week no heartbeat and have been waiting at home since which was a hellish wait.

Was so "pleased" if that makes sense that baby in sac came out fully at home as we want to bury baby in garden. But then the crazy bleeding and massive clots started after.

Got a canula in and had bloods and urine sample which was 90% blood in a tub!!!!!! Waiting for gynae dr to come. Feel safer here.

Pain still bad but I hope easing. I really want to avoid an operation if possible.

Oh op, I'm so sorry. I have been in exactly the same situation, ivf baby whose heart never started beating, it was absolutely heartbreaking. I feel so much for you. Please take some time to process this and look after yourself. I wish you so much luck for the future.
If it's any consolation (I don't mean this to hurt) two months after my miscarriage I conceived naturally. It was nothing short of a miracle.

Dampshinygrass · 06/09/2024 21:00

hope you are ok OP. I had something similar last year, ended up passing out twice in A&E due to blood loss. You’re in the right place. Take care of yourself. X

elm26 · 06/09/2024 21:02

Thinking of you, so sorry you're going through this. I had similar with a miscarriage about 8 years ago. You're in safe hands. So sorry for your loss xxx

bonkersplonkers · 06/09/2024 21:18

I'm so sorry for your loss, both of you. You're in the best place x

MiddleSock · 06/09/2024 21:22

I’m so very sorry. You are in the right place

BrutusMcDogface · 06/09/2024 21:23

I’m so, so sorry 😢 💐

Take care

DollieBantrysPantry · 06/09/2024 21:27

So so sorry OP xxx

Blogswife · 06/09/2024 21:27

So sorry Op, my heart goes out to you

So glad you’re in the right place now. Another one who has been there too ❤️

xyz111 · 06/09/2024 21:35

I have nothing constructive to add, but I'm sorry for what you're going through xxx

PleaseStopEatingMyStuff · 06/09/2024 21:36

I'm so sorry too OP. My heart goes out to you. I hope you can get back home soon and take some time to heal.

Spenditlikebeckham · 06/09/2024 21:40

After I passed the intact feotus the bleeding subsided quickly. Glad you went in op.. Sorry for your loss..

spiderlight · 06/09/2024 21:40

So very sorry. I'm glad you're safe and being looked after. If it's any consolation at all, when I had similar at 13 weeks (a long time ago), my pain eased very quickly after I'd passed the sac, and the crazy bleeding afterwards didn't last very long - I think overnight but not much longer than that. Thinking of you and sending a handhold.

Partridgewell · 06/09/2024 21:43

I'm so sorry OP. I hope you avoid an operation and are comfortable in hospital. Thinking of you and sending love and strength.

UpUpUpU · 06/09/2024 21:44

Golaz · 06/09/2024 21:45

I’m so so sorry for your loss OP. So glad you went to hospital and are being looked after xxxx