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Urgent miscarriage advice . Graphic. Don't read if triggering.

114 replies

GinAndGooseberries · 06/09/2024 19:22

Posting here for quickness. Please delete if you want when I have answer. Please tell me how many pads I need to go to a and e? I've forgotten.

Gestational sac out with baby inside.

Now large clots and heavy bleeding. On pad 3 in half an hour with lots of clots.

Not sure if just leave an hour and see if settles.

Wasn't bleeding much before sac came out. Think it's all the lining coming now.

Epas shut and keen to avoid emergency department on a Friday night if I can.

OP posts:
Tiredofallthis101 · 06/09/2024 21:46

I'm so sorry OP how devastating. ❤

Sheelanogig · 06/09/2024 21:48

Sending lots of virtual hugs to you.
I am so sorry (but really glad you at hospital).

sparename · 06/09/2024 21:50

Hello. I'm glad you're in the right place to get treatment if you need it. On a different note it sounds like you'd like to keep your baby at home. I have read about storing your miscarried baby in water to better preserve them. Literally just in a tub in the fridge. I wish I'd known when I lost mine.

TypingoftheDead · 06/09/2024 21:50

So sorry for your loss, OP xx

Bemusedandconfusedagain · 06/09/2024 21:53

I'm so sorry you're going through this but you're absolutely in the right place in case you are having/have a haemorrhage.

Jl2014 · 06/09/2024 21:56

So sorry for your loss, OP 😢

KenAdams · 06/09/2024 21:59

I'm sorry OP

Skykidsspy · 06/09/2024 21:59

I had similar - some ‘retained products’ were caught in my cervix and had to be removed by the dr, they used a speculum and tweezers. It was very unpleasant but quick and necessary to stop the bleeding, my body was trying to bleed it out.

Hope gynae sort you out asap, very sorry you’re going through this. The physical trauma is a real kick in the teeth on top of the mental side of things.

MassiveOvaryaction · 06/09/2024 22:03

So sorry for your loss Flowers

BlackFriYay · 06/09/2024 22:04

I'm so sorry for your heartbreaking loss OP and DH/DP.

I hope you're being well looked after x

BakewellGin1 · 06/09/2024 22:05

So sorry for your loss xxx

Fangisnotacoward · 06/09/2024 22:05

So very sorry for your loss, I hope the bleeding settles and you are able to start recovery physically and mentally soon x

mynameiscalypso · 06/09/2024 22:09

I'm so sorry for your loss.

KvotheTheBloodless · 06/09/2024 22:11

I'm so, so sorry OP. I've been exactly where you are, it's fucking shit.

MrsPadhd · 06/09/2024 22:12

Sending big big hugs x

angellinaballerina7 · 06/09/2024 22:12

I’m so sorry x

NinaGeiger · 06/09/2024 22:13

You sound really brave.

RainyDaysAndMondaysNeverGetMeDown · 06/09/2024 22:19

Sorry for your loss x

DefyingGravitas · 06/09/2024 22:21

Just another saying how sorry I am and wishing you healing.

shellyleppard · 06/09/2024 22:24

@GinAndGooseberries so so sorry for your loss x hope hospital gets you sorted x sending hugs 🫂 💐 🙏 ❤️

ThreeLocusts · 06/09/2024 22:27

So sorry OP. Your mental strength is impressive.

Swollenandgrouchy · 06/09/2024 22:27

I’m so sorry this has happened to you Op. I’m glad you are in the right place being taken care of. Xx

Evergreen90 · 06/09/2024 22:30

Thinking of you OP. Very sorry xx

Endica1 · 06/09/2024 22:33

So sorry OP but glad you’re in the right place. Life is so unfair. Wishing you all the best.

PurpleFlower1983 · 06/09/2024 22:34

So sorry OP 💔