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Feral children

678 replies

Overbearingndn · 03/09/2024 19:01

Several children, have been arrested in connection with the death of an 80 year old dog walker.

What is wrong with children today? I remember the Bulger case and it sent shockwaves around the world, now people just accept that children kill.
https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/article/2024/sep/03/five-children-arrested-over-murder-80-year-old-man-in-leicestershire

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Candaceowens · 03/09/2024 21:06

I totally agree that the parents need to be charged too.

The parents of a school shooter in America were prosecuted, the same should apply here.

Hunglikeapolevaulter · 03/09/2024 21:07

I do agree that this isn't gentle parenting. Done badly that produces brats, sure, but not killers.

This is the feral dregs breeding but not doing what any sane normal person would recognise as parenting.

InsensibleMe · 03/09/2024 21:07

Thedogscollar · 03/09/2024 19:09

I've just seen this on the news. Absolutely horrendous fgs what is happening in this world when an 80 yr old man walking his dog is assaulted and murdered by a bunch of kids.
I hope they put them all away for a very very long time.

Well obviously that is not going to happen.

AlecTrevelyan006 · 03/09/2024 21:07

I’m not sure that parents should be charged with murder but there ought to be some sort ‘allowing a murder to happen’ crime

Candaceowens · 03/09/2024 21:09

Cantbelievethatimafoolagain · 03/09/2024 20:33

Let's be real, no Asian kid would have killed anyone or even an elderly man. I know I am generalising and people won't like it, but Asians are very disciplined by their parents. Education is extremely important. We also get smacked. Back in primary school, a lot of the english kids would always talk back to teachers, disrupt lessons etc.

HAHAHA.

You've never worked in a school with 95% Asian students have you?

ilovesooty · 03/09/2024 21:09

InsensibleMe · 03/09/2024 21:07

Well obviously that is not going to happen.

We don't know yet. Sharon Carr is still in prison way beyond her recommended tariff.

niadainud · 03/09/2024 21:09

soupfiend · 03/09/2024 20:45

Why would it prompt a reassessment?

I suppose because it seems to be becoming less anomalous. But it would make more sense to do that if it was currently set at, say, 13, rather than 10. I doubt it would be moved any lower. Regardless of that, it's obviously exceedingly shocking.

niadainud · 03/09/2024 21:11

AlecTrevelyan006 · 03/09/2024 21:07

I’m not sure that parents should be charged with murder but there ought to be some sort ‘allowing a murder to happen’ crime

A sort of equivalent of corporate manslaughter?

InsensibleMe · 03/09/2024 21:11

iamtheblcksheep · 03/09/2024 20:10

Kids have zero respect. They have no boundaries or consequences put in place and are just running feral.

Teachers are too busy bleating about gender ideology rather than teaching.

Parents were up in arms at the thought of their little darlings doing national service and respect for our elderly has disappeared.

We need to follow the US and prosecute parents for their children’s actions.

And castration of course. You forgot to mention.

soupfiend · 03/09/2024 21:11

niadainud · 03/09/2024 21:09

I suppose because it seems to be becoming less anomalous. But it would make more sense to do that if it was currently set at, say, 13, rather than 10. I doubt it would be moved any lower. Regardless of that, it's obviously exceedingly shocking.

But why would this case prompt a reassessment given the suspects youngest ages are 12?

MichaelandKirk · 03/09/2024 21:12

Shame on the parent/parents.

I am sick of people with two brain cells getting together with no marks and having every benefit thrown at them because after all they are vulnerable etc etc. They then have these feral kids who are allowed to do what they like with no consequences and this happens. Shame on us for supporting this sort of upbringing.

AlecTrevelyan006 · 03/09/2024 21:12

niadainud · 03/09/2024 21:11

A sort of equivalent of corporate manslaughter?

Yeah something like that

NiftyKoala · 03/09/2024 21:13

DeepLimeBird · 03/09/2024 19:18

This is absolutely outrageous. That poor man, to get to that age and lose your life in such a horrendous way.

Disgusting I hope they can be charged as adults. This is so sick. This poor poor man.

EsmaCannonball · 03/09/2024 21:14

I know primary school teachers who have said that parents now think it is entirely the teacher's job to stop their child hitting or swearing; who think it is the teacher's job to toilet-train their child or teach them how to use a knife and fork. I even know teachers who have said there are parents who expect them to get their child washed and dressed in the morning. These parents are a deadly combination of feckless and of a mindset that thinks it bad to make your child do anything.

DesperateTimesHelp · 03/09/2024 21:14

Wtf have I just read. That poor poor man.

Catapultaway · 03/09/2024 21:15

Cantbelievethatimafoolagain · 03/09/2024 20:33

Let's be real, no Asian kid would have killed anyone or even an elderly man. I know I am generalising and people won't like it, but Asians are very disciplined by their parents. Education is extremely important. We also get smacked. Back in primary school, a lot of the english kids would always talk back to teachers, disrupt lessons etc.

I'm sure there are probably some statistics that show that children brought up being abused by violent parents are more likely to be violent themselves.
Or do you plan on beating your children?

mrssunshinexxx · 03/09/2024 21:16

Oh I agree with you @Jillybloop393

TooMuchOfNothingIsJustAsTough · 03/09/2024 21:16

soupfiend · 03/09/2024 19:25

If you work with children you wouldnt be surprised at this. Im more surprised that people are surprised at violence from girls.

Agreed.

I suspect the narrative will change to one of the girls being coerced by the boys or were influenced by them or something like that.

Agreed.

@vivainsomnia Of course not. On MN, it's always about male violence and women being victims.

The reality is that young and female crime is on the increase. We really need to focus on violence as a whole, not just male violence on female.

Agreed.

Livelovebehappy · 03/09/2024 21:17

I think video games also contribute to desensitising young people to violence. Young boys particularly from primary school age upwards, allowed to play games which are violent, which normalises for them knife crime, gun crime etc. Children from all social classes are often allowed to have access to games specified for over 18’s. It’s a virtual world that very young children cannot comprehend or differentiate from real life. I actually called at the house of a friend recently where her ds at the age of 11 was playing on Grand Theft Auto. This is a game littered with violent random acts - beating people up, shooting people. I was absolutely shocked, but was told ‘well, all his friends play these games, and it’s not real you know’. Some children might play them and grow up unscathed, but others whose brains are wired differently just won’t.

Newpillow · 03/09/2024 21:20

Why are people assuming that the parents of these children are on benefits?

Papergirl1968 · 03/09/2024 21:21

Overbearingndn · 03/09/2024 19:01

Several children, have been arrested in connection with the death of an 80 year old dog walker.

What is wrong with children today? I remember the Bulger case and it sent shockwaves around the world, now people just accept that children kill.
https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/article/2024/sep/03/five-children-arrested-over-murder-80-year-old-man-in-leicestershire

opening post edited by MNHQ

It’s a shocking case and I haven’t RTFT but the children have been arrested not charged.
If they are charged, unless they plead guilty, a jury will decide if they killed the elderly man.
Innocent until proven guilty is the way the law works in this country, and some of the comments on here which are specifically about this case rather than feral kids in general are contempt of court.

niadainud · 03/09/2024 21:21

soupfiend · 03/09/2024 21:11

But why would this case prompt a reassessment given the suspects youngest ages are 12?

I'm not saying it would (I don't know how these things work), but I suppose my thinking is that if it becomes more commonplace for 12-year-olds to be involved in a murder I would guess that it might then also become more likely for 11-year-olds to be involved, then 10-year-olds, etc. Just looking at it as a trend (in the mathematical sense).

Hunglikeapolevaulter · 03/09/2024 21:22

I actually called at the house of a friend recently where her ds at the age of 11 was playing on Grand Theft Auto

Thst is such shit parenting. There are bits where you can watch strippers and then bludgeon them to death.

Fuck knows what gawping at a screen from infancy and then playing violent games before you're even a teen does to developing brains. Nothing good. Hideous real-time mass experiment.

Morph22010 · 03/09/2024 21:22

iamtheblcksheep · 03/09/2024 20:19

Utter crap. If you take the US as an example. Most children that run into schools and commit the worst atrocities are from white middle class homes not the back streets of Compton. It is difficult to gage in this country because more often than not the killer’s identity is protected

The area where this particular crime took place it is very unlikely the perpetrators were middle class

samarrange · 03/09/2024 21:23

PyongyangKipperbang · 03/09/2024 20:19

My parents neighbours house is next to a jitty where kids congregated. They were drinking buds underage and lobbing the bottles over the fence and they were smashing on his patio. He went out to tell them to pack it in and a 14 year old girl punched him so hard she broke his arm.

Police know who it was, CCTV etc was provided, she was never charged and he is too scared to go out alone now.

My parents neighbours house is next to a jitty where kids congregated.

Apologies for the derail, but: Thanks for the vocabulary enhancement!

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