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Massive argument with dp

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Lacky301 · 21/08/2024 12:54

I know I'm not an easy person to deal with I do have autism and adhd.
Me and dp do have alot of stress in our own ways and sometimes dp is a bit quiet etc and can be a little moody at time as can I.
This morning we both have to be in work for 7am and I always do dp his sandwiches for work and make him porridge then drop him at work then I shoot off to work. I know I know but dp will cook tea for me.
Anyway dp isn't the best in the mornings anyway as he's usually tired but this morning I needed to leave earlier as I had to drop something off somewhere and on prompting dp to get moving in a nice manner he snapped at me why early I had already explained the night before to dp I needed to leave earlier on the morning.
Anyway when it was time to leave I said we can give it few more minutes and dp was acting very surly and said he's ready now so I snapped and said everything I do run here run there and you treat me like shit and should apologise once in the car This ended up with dp shouting to stop the car so he can get out and walk to work so I swore at him and let him out he slammed the car door and threw his bag across the grass and said I won't see him ever again.
Was I in the wrong here.

OP posts:
Fannyfiggs · 21/08/2024 16:38

tribalmango · 21/08/2024 16:21

and it's because 'quote' includes the whole post, when often I just want to address one part of it.

The forum isn't really a conversation between named individuals, more just a place to chat.

Now I'm not sure if I'm using MN correctly.....

You copied and pasted part of my post and then asked How do you know she does all the mental load in the relationship?

I thought you wanted an answer from me specifically.

But not to worry, it's all good.

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