To not want to see t*ts on the beach??!

[TittiesOutPutThemBack]

Just that really!

on holiday at the mo and I cant even count the number of times I have seen topless women sunbathing at the beach… next to kids!…on non-nudist beach!

I really don’t want to see titties out in the middle of the day

on top of that I don’t fancy my teenage boys or even my DH having a look at them either

its obvious they’re coming from certain European countries ! Do they have no sense of what’s right or wrong ?

AIBU?

Geez, chill out. You're being ridiculous.

The brain is the biggest sex organ...yawn.

That would be assault

This sounds like a pretty good holiday.

The sweet naivety

No one really believes there is nothing sexual do they ?

They probably worry about the shape they get from their bra and make sure to show the right amount of cleavage for every occasion , would know instantly if an outfit was for the club or the office but it's not sexual you know , just want to look nice to suit myself

The correlations between amount of flesh on display, age and situation doesn't appear to be anything other than random

This thread has made me nostalgic for a time when I could get my tits out in the sun. If I did it now, at least they'd stop my knees getting sunburnt.

Ever heard of breastfeeding?

I don’t mean hugely less acceptable but a couple of examples:

• single sex schools being mainstream in Britain. I didn’t realise they were mainstream in the 21st century until moving here as they are very niche in Scandinavia. I have friends that went to single sex schools in the UK that didn’t have opposite sex friends growing up and were surprised that all my friendship groups as a child/ teen were mixed groups
• Boys’ games and girls’ games as children, or women’s and men’s corners at parties/ BBQs/ in childcare settings
• many women being in female only friendship groups. It’s common but a bit less common
• ’I wouldn’t let my husband/ wife have an opposite sex platonic friend/ they meet to often’ threads on here
• ‘If you are going for a drink/ meal with a man 1-2-1/ going to their house it’s definitely a date’ attitude. I once asked a man to help me out with some DYI and he thought it was code for sex, didn’t even bring his toolbox!

Obviously that’s not everybody but these kinds of attitudes have surprised me.

Scandinavia is a more gender blind culture, we care less whether we are around men or women or both.

I was reading a US forum about Scandinavian dating and how all women are ‘pick me’ (may like football and beer, pay their own bills, and apparently now also get their tits out on the beach) and men are ‘low value’ and ‘like cheap casual coffee and walk dates’.

No, we are just different, we are more informal in many ways and expect better from men than to be staring at our tits on the beach.

Generally Scandinavian views are very far from US Christian conservatism (I say generally as there are exceptions). I used to think we were culturally very close with Britain but posts like this just make me feel there’s some big differences.

Me too. 😄.

TBF, I quite like them myself 😁

😂 Naked Yoga !

I admit to not feeling comfortable about it but that's probably influenced by my bosoms being saggy and pendulous. I have been on beaches (non nudest) where the women just wear a teeny triangular patch at the front. All appears normal and accepted so each to their own

God I was down the Gower last year and there were loads of women (Italians they seemed to be) with their fantastic boobs out. I was quite jealous more than anything, and wished I had a pert pair to jiggle about.
I don’t see a problem with it. My husband gets mega awkward when I say “look over there” but I don’t care if he looks. I look!

I agree with you OP. I don’t way to see anyone else’s tits on the beach. There is a time and a place and a family beach isn’t it. As a pp has said already, ask yourself if you would go topless in front of your dad and teenage son? Some would obviously though I find that creepy as hell.

Some boobs are weapons, I tell you. They will make you run in one direction or another. 😂. Not taking myself seriously at all. Let people be.

Too true😂

Not true or fair

I've had two men wank over me (not literally, from a distance!) when living in Spain and Portugal as a teen. I threw rocks at them. Just bring your daughters up to be able to deal with this shit!

This is your problem.

And they are called breasts. Not 'titties'.

I used to go topless back in the 90’s when I was much younger. We holidayed with our 2 teenage daughters and 4 of their friends. We all sunbathed topless. My son who was around 10 didn’t bat an eyelid.
Would love to go topless now but gravity has made that impossible.😂😂

Absolutely howled at this!

When in a bedroom yes, when on a beach in public not the case. Context is everything. (Cocks are sexual in the bedroom but not so on a nudist beach).

When I've been on a group holiday as a teen, yes the boys were interested for a few minutes but that novelty quickly passed.

@TittiesOutPutThemBack If you are that repressed that you are shocked by the sight of a perfectly lovely part of the body - you should holiday in places far more conservative and oppressive towards women.

Are you sickened by beautiful buttocks displayed by thongs too?

How do you know that none of them are locals? Have you asked them all?

Just take some pearls with you to clutch