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Got sent worrying WhatsApp message

108 replies

ThatLilacHedgehog · 28/07/2024 18:03

I don’t know why I feel weirded out, but today I got a message on WhatsApp from an ex colleague, the message was a 2 minute long blank video where there was just a bunch of noise. Followed by a message that just said “p#*”

I haven’t had a message from this person in nearly 2 years, what should I make of this?

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AlarminglyAwful · 28/07/2024 21:39

I’ve accidentally dialled the mother of a man whose kids I babysat for in 2013 recently so it’s definitely possible to ‘pocket dial’ someone from a few years ago! I literally needed her number to arrange something once. My phone does weird shit when I forget to lock the screen and then pick it up, or when I’m sweaty and shove it in my sports bra without locking it. I’m constantly accidentally calling people tbh.

Cherry8809 · 28/07/2024 21:43

Why is that worrying?

They know things you don’t want your husband to know….
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

CormorantStrikesBack · 28/07/2024 21:48

ThatLilacHedgehog · 28/07/2024 18:14

My thing is, if they picked dialled me how would that be easy being that they haven’t messaged me in 2 years

Honestly I pocket dialed a random shop last week which I hadn’t realised was it in my contacts. I must have saved the number over a year ago and only every rung it once…..started with a P so somehow I pocket scrolled through my contacts and rang them. Bizarre but true.

Bellyblueboy · 28/07/2024 21:49

I managed to accidentally phone an old frond who I haven’t spoken to in years just a couple of weeks ago - no idea how as there are no recent messages!

I also send a word voice notes to people very year or so by accident.

I never read anything into receiving odd messages.

you seem a bit unsettled by this - why?

Sunshine9218 · 28/07/2024 21:50

I once accidentally pocket sent a video of my pregnant belly moving to a total stranger (it wasn't obvious what it was) so could be that

JohnTheRevelator · 28/07/2024 22:01

Cantrushart · 28/07/2024 18:05

I once sent a friend a perfect recording of a toilet flushing. Fortunately not the lead up to the flush.

😂😂😂

Notamum12345577 · 28/07/2024 22:03

I want to know what they know now!

PurpleBugz · 28/07/2024 22:03

If they have a toddler then I bet the toddler did it. It would account for how they managed to scroll down the chats to one that's two years old

KreedKafer · 28/07/2024 22:04

ThatLilacHedgehog · 28/07/2024 19:54

Am I overthinking?

Yes, as everyone has pointed out to you. The message was an accident.

BananaLambo · 28/07/2024 22:17

I once butt dialled the plumber we used when we lived in a different house in a different city 10 years before. No idea how it happened..

dawngreen · 28/07/2024 22:26

Why keep phones in your back pocket? Pickpockets get to see what phone to steal.

Ihopeithinkiknow · 28/07/2024 22:35

Lol a few months ago in a family WhatsApp a video appeared of one of my aunties doing a really loud fart 😂 nobody ever questioned her about it because she would have been so embarrassed but the steps to go through to be able to send a video message has baffled us all as to whether it was an accident lol and it was sent at 2am which is unusual for her so that's a mystery that we will all have to live with hahaha

Funnywonder · 28/07/2024 22:48

I rolled over onto my phone last night at 3am and dialled the local Chinese takeaway. It is in my contacts, but I haven’t phoned in years (because DP usually calls them from his phone🤣)

WhatNext24 · 28/07/2024 22:53

Deffo a pocket dial. Why is the pocket dial letter always p?? Because it always is...!

andfinallyhereweare · 28/07/2024 22:56

I do this all the time… youre overthinking, if you’re that concerned send a message asking?

Marseillaise · 28/07/2024 22:58

ThatLilacHedgehog · 28/07/2024 19:54

Am I overthinking?

Yes

coldcallerbaiter · 28/07/2024 22:58

What do they know?!

merryandbrightdelight · 28/07/2024 23:02

Kendodd · 28/07/2024 20:01

I misread this as 'God sent a worrying WhatsApp today'
Now that would have been worrying.

😂😂😂😂

Mynaddmawr · 28/07/2024 23:12

My 15mo rang someone on WhatsApp that I vaguely knew through work and haven't spoken to since 2020 last week. Thankfully she didn't send a video, I think I was singing the wheels on the bus at the time. I reckon their bum just had a good scroll down their list of chats to find you 🤷‍♀️

GingersOwner26 · 28/07/2024 23:44

Either a pocket dial, or this person’s child/grandchild/nephew/niece was pissing about with their phone and managed to do it. My uncle is having a lot of these conversations whenever his grandchildren are around - he had to apologise to the plumber on Christmas Eve after one granddaughter sent him a load of emojis (meant for another relative with a very similar name) and he gave his other granddaughter his old handset to play with, thinking it was okay as it had no SIM card, but it still connected to WiFi and she was sending people a load of rubbish as well.

Mmhmmn · 28/07/2024 23:45

Nothing. It’s obvs an arse/pocket dial thing.

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 28/07/2024 23:45

I sent someone a friend request on facebook through pocket-pressing. I only discovered this, because they accepted it immediately. I've never dared admit that I sent the request by mistake.

Mmhmmn · 28/07/2024 23:46

merryandbrightdelight · 28/07/2024 23:02

😂😂😂😂

😂🤣😂🤣

YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · 28/07/2024 23:53

I pocket called my ex mother in law more than five years after she ceased to be my mother in law. She called me back immediately. Always was scared of her!!

Clearly whatever they know that you're hiding is making you uncomfortable - maybe you should just tell your DH? I couldn't live like that, you must be constantly anxious.

RainyJuly87 · 29/07/2024 00:02

KaIeidoscope · 28/07/2024 18:22

I once butt-messaged a gif of Frenchie from Grease blowing a bubblegum bubble to every single one of my whatapp contacts and groups 🙃

🤣🤣🤣