I don’t think this is true, I remember listening to a phone in where a young woman who’s family knew one of the grooming gang members who were arrested. She was talking about how many excuses were made and the blame was put squarely on the children 🤷🏽♀️. She was disgusted and shocked by the response.
To be honest the extent of the grooming gangs and the fact that they often involved men who were related and friends shows that these behaviours were accepted to a certain extent. I can’t imagine many men I know turning around to one of their cousins or brothers and saying “I’ve got a 12yr old, do you want to borrow her” and not getting a very negative response.
I also grew up in an area where sexual harassment by pakistani men towards schoolgirls specifically was prolific. Always trying to pick them up on the street in the shopping centre etc. Obviously this is not every pakistani man but it was extremely common. I know thats not comfortable but tbh I care more about the safety of girls than the feelings of men.
I would also suggest listening to some interviews with ex-muslim women and their experiences from within their communities. We are ignoring an epidemic of violence and domestic abuse and it’s hurting girls and women. Race shouldn’t matter, we have laws, they need to be enforced.