I'm hoping it doesn't happen.
My income from FT work is so low, it is topped up by UC. My family is working class. My kids have been on FSM in the past.
Yet, one of my DC is going to a private school. We have a 10% scholarship, and every year I will apply for reduced fees (up to 30%) based on my income. The latter is not guaranteed.
The school only offers small scholarships and bursaries, as they aim to assist as many children as possible, not just 1 or 2.
The fees are nothing like the famous big name private schools (Eton £46k pa for full boarding). This day school is £14.5k pa for full fees.
I am going to struggle to pay the discounted fees, but it will be worth it. DC has SpLD and this school has great provision.
If VAT is put on fees, I will still try to keep DC in that school, but it will mean fewer essentials. As it is I'm scratching around trying to cobble together enough secondhand uniform. One of my other DC, who had an horrendous secondary school experience, has told me they are committed to finding part-time work (on top of their busy timetable) so they can help pay for groceries and bills.
I'm hoping I won't need to accept- I'd much prefer DC to keep all their earnings. DC tells me they see it as contributing to/supporting each other.
To make it clear, UC will not be used to pay the fees. Although taking the money from CM means less in my overall budget for food/bills/clothing. I am trying to get more work, but that affects childcare. Having said that, I won't have to pay for wrap around childcare any more (it's included), so I will put that towards the fees. My ex is going to contribute some of the fees and he will be fine with any increase. However, increases will make things harder for the rest of us (inc the children he no longer supports).