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eatfigs · 09/07/2024 19:15

DianeAbbotsJamjars · 09/07/2024 19:05

It matters not what any of us think. Men who wish to be women will continue and our new Prime Minister will likely only further their rights.

Not if he wants to be elected for a second term.

DianeAbbotsJamjars · 09/07/2024 19:16

eatfigs · 09/07/2024 19:15

Not if he wants to be elected for a second term.

Its only a minority that wish to give zero rights whatsoever to transgender people. Starmer will further these rights without doubt.

ChuckinDaaahn · 09/07/2024 19:17

Why don’t many transwomen care about what many women - you know, the people they ‘feel’ like - FEEL? Why don’t they care about their sisters? Why is that?

Tandora · 09/07/2024 19:17

You do understand that height variable and there are both average differences as well as considerable overlap in the height distribution across different social groups (eg by sex, ethnicity etc)?

And you do understand that it’s offensive and discriminatory to make universal declarations about the character/ appearance of a social group based on generalisations and stereotypes?

If you don’t understand these things, I’m afraid I can’t help you.

WickedSerious · 09/07/2024 19:18

DianeAbbotsJamjars · 09/07/2024 18:52

@TheKeatingFive I disagree, I believe you can be born in the wrong body. As I say, its not dissimilar to me to homosexuality. We as humans arent designed to be homosexual neither are we designed to change into a different gender. But that's not to say that some people feel that way and wish to live that way. To just say men are men and women are women and thats the way it is is shortsighted.

Where are all of the 'correct' bodies?

TheKeatingFive · 09/07/2024 19:18

All the news media referring to him as a woman when these are the crimes of a man.

This is another totally extraordinary aspect of it all. Men's crimes being reported as women's. Police looking for information on 'women' when they really mean men (regarding both victims and perpetrators of crime).

How is this a better situation than simply reporting the truth of the sex of the person involved? Who thinks this is a good idea?

eatfigs · 09/07/2024 19:18

DianeAbbotsJamjars · 09/07/2024 19:16

Its only a minority that wish to give zero rights whatsoever to transgender people. Starmer will further these rights without doubt.

Funny how you reply to that message but not any of the ones inquiring exactly how people can be born in the wrong body ...

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 09/07/2024 19:18

DianeAbbotsJamjars · 09/07/2024 19:16

Its only a minority that wish to give zero rights whatsoever to transgender people. Starmer will further these rights without doubt.

Transgender people already have the same rights as anyone else. No one thinks they shouldn’t have ‘any rights whatsoever’. They shouldn’t get additional rights to go into spaces where they shouldn’t because of feelings. No one else gets that.

Peskysquirrel · 09/07/2024 19:18

Floorbard · 09/07/2024 19:01

How sad but boringly predictable that my comment saying transphobia =bigotry has brought out the transphobes who are upset that their hate isn’t accepted by everyone. Not going to engage with any of you, I honestly find it too depressing that so many people are ignorant and hateful towards minorities. Embarrassing behaviour from grown adults. I’ll be raising my children better than that.

If all the posters complaining about "transphobia", "hate", "transphobes", "bigotry", "derailing" etc etc etc actually came out with some decent, justified arguments for once instead of avoiding questions, making unevidenced statements and flouncing, this thread would be a far more enlightening discussion.

It's so easy to fling the word "hate" around when what you actually mean is "somebody disagreed with me and I can't cope with that".

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 09/07/2024 19:19

eatfigs · 09/07/2024 19:18

Funny how you reply to that message but not any of the ones inquiring exactly how people can be born in the wrong body ...

Yes, so many unanswered questions..

DianeAbbotsJamjars · 09/07/2024 19:19

eatfigs · 09/07/2024 19:18

Funny how you reply to that message but not any of the ones inquiring exactly how people can be born in the wrong body ...

Ask a biologist. To dismiss it out of hand is short sighted.

murasaki · 09/07/2024 19:19

DianeAbbotsJamjars · 09/07/2024 19:16

Its only a minority that wish to give zero rights whatsoever to transgender people. Starmer will further these rights without doubt.

Nobody is saying zero rights. For the millionth time, what rights don't they have bar making believe they are as much of a woman as I am?

WickedSerious · 09/07/2024 19:19

DianeAbbotsJamjars · 09/07/2024 19:16

Its only a minority that wish to give zero rights whatsoever to transgender people. Starmer will further these rights without doubt.

What rights do they not have?

ArabellaScott · 09/07/2024 19:19

Peskysquirrel · 09/07/2024 19:18

If all the posters complaining about "transphobia", "hate", "transphobes", "bigotry", "derailing" etc etc etc actually came out with some decent, justified arguments for once instead of avoiding questions, making unevidenced statements and flouncing, this thread would be a far more enlightening discussion.

It's so easy to fling the word "hate" around when what you actually mean is "somebody disagreed with me and I can't cope with that".

It's a faith based position. 'You cannot reason a person out of a position he did not reason himself into in the first place.'

Peskysquirrel · 09/07/2024 19:20

DianeAbbotsJamjars · 09/07/2024 19:19

Ask a biologist. To dismiss it out of hand is short sighted.

This has got to be a wind up.

TheKeatingFive · 09/07/2024 19:20

Transgender people already have the same rights as anyone else

They have more actually. They have the right to falsify official documents (regarding their sex). That's not a right anyone else has.

eatfigs · 09/07/2024 19:20

DianeAbbotsJamjars · 09/07/2024 19:19

Ask a biologist. To dismiss it out of hand is short sighted.

I have, she said it's nonsense.

murasaki · 09/07/2024 19:20

I certainly can't falsify my birth certificate.

TheKeatingFive · 09/07/2024 19:21

DianeAbbotsJamjars · 09/07/2024 19:19

Ask a biologist. To dismiss it out of hand is short sighted.

Not one respected biologist is peddling a 'born in the wrong body' theory.

WickedSerious · 09/07/2024 19:22

DianeAbbotsJamjars · 09/07/2024 19:19

Ask a biologist. To dismiss it out of hand is short sighted.

No biologist worth their salt is going to provide you with the answer you require.

eatfigs · 09/07/2024 19:22

DianeAbbotsJamjars · 09/07/2024 19:19

Ask a biologist. To dismiss it out of hand is short sighted.

That still doesn't explain why you believe this, or, what you think it means.

bittertwisted · 09/07/2024 19:22

My step daughter is a surgeon, one of her uni friends was a naval doctor. He has transitioned to a woman, the surgery also.

A medical professional obviously believes the biology.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 09/07/2024 19:23

Tandora · 09/07/2024 19:17

You do understand that height variable and there are both average differences as well as considerable overlap in the height distribution across different social groups (eg by sex, ethnicity etc)?

And you do understand that it’s offensive and discriminatory to make universal declarations about the character/ appearance of a social group based on generalisations and stereotypes?

If you don’t understand these things, I’m afraid I can’t help you.

Edited

Repeating it for a second time despite this being addressed the first time doesn't make it a better argument. You just look silly.

TheKeatingFive · 09/07/2024 19:23

He has transitioned to a woman, the surgery also.

He hasn't. He is still a man.

WickedSerious · 09/07/2024 19:23

bittertwisted · 09/07/2024 19:22

My step daughter is a surgeon, one of her uni friends was a naval doctor. He has transitioned to a woman, the surgery also.

A medical professional obviously believes the biology.

😂

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